Cancer guy. :)

Hello, this is my first ever topic. I am in a really big confusion right now. I am a cancer female and he is a cancer male. This is our 7th semester at college. In first days when college started, he used to be quite alone, all of us were trying to blend in and so was he, I made friends and used to see him sitting alone. We made eye contact manier times and i told my friends we should befriend him, he seems like a nice guy but that didn't happen. After the day used to end, I used to sit at the same place everyday. For about so many days he used to pretend he is doing somethin but I know he used to watch me. So then we became busy and for 2 whole years, I used to catch him staring at me. I never gave it a thought because I felt that he was probably just noticing and I was busy with whole other stuff. And then came third year, we started having our group together and so same class, and things went real high. Me and my friend caught him staring so many times. Even if his turn went over, he used to stand and watch how I gave my presentation and all. Once I got really annoyed and gave him a really rude look but he didn't look away. Nothing changed for him. All his friends look at me weirdly always. They notice me and everything. I never had feelings for him but one day we had to work together, we were both partners. he was so nice to me, he made sure work was divided and even if he put something more in theory, he askes before doing it. he smiled at me so many times. We got along so easily. Other poeple either fought or just ended up having bad clashes. We got highest marks. After that I have started feeling something for him, its so emotional. Our eye contacts have increased very much because it was always me who used to look away. I sent him a message last week asking him for a presentation which was only with him, he asked me for my email Id and thanked him, he said no problem now after that he makes me wait for 4days, much to my disappointment he makes me wait for 4 days, and then I message him again asking him if there's any problem. he says sorry I had forgotten. I will send today. I reply back saying its fine. Don't forget now and in just those three to four minutes I got the mail. I said thanks and he said welcome.

Now the issue is I am not sure if he likes me? How can he forget to send me something. he is a very reserved kind of a guy, no talking to so many girls. I am not a totally approachable person too. Typical cancerian woman, always trying t

Maybe he's just keeping it casual & being nice to you since you two working together on an assignment. You not dating him yet. I say wait til after the presentation to see if his actions say he has feelings for you. You don't wanna get to emotionally involved, until he starts showing actions. You'll know if a Cancer guy is interested, because you won't have to question anything he does. So be sincere, patient & try complementing him on his good qualities (no looks compliments yet). Basically just be YOU. That's how you'll attract someone

Need some sound advice please!
About a month ago I was out with my best friend on a Wales v Scotland International day. Had a great day and a few drinks (not too much). A little later on my friend and I decided to get something to eat in fast food place. The place was very busy with very spare seats available; therefore we sat next to two Scottish men and this where I met my Capp man.
We instantly got on whilst eating our food and took the conversation outside. They invited us back to the rented house they were staying at for the weekend. In all honesty we trusted them as there was two of us and two of them! Anyway... as we were sitting in the house drinking tea, my Capp guy said lets go the pub as it was still early in the evening so agreed to go with him.
Whilst in the pub we played some pool chatted more and had another few drinks and this is where he made his move... he kissed me... which blew my world apart.
The night carried on and eventually went back to the house where my best friend and his mate were fast asleep on separate sofas. I woke my friend and she went home and his mate went to bed which, then just left us two alone.
We bonded beautifully as I never have met a Capp before (Me, Taurus Lady). We talked non-stop pretty much about everything, it was incredible. The only thing is he's married and I'm married but both our marriages are coming to the end as from what we discussed in to the small hours. He wanted me to stay but I said no, I'm really not that kind of lady. He respected my wishes.
He walked me to a taxi and held me tight as he didn't want me to go and I certainly didn't want to leave him either.
We texted straight away saying we miss each other already... It was a perfect evening.
We carried on texting the day after and he begged me to pop by and see him, I gave in and went to see him. We went back to the house and chatted for about half an hour. I was so glad I went to see him and so was he as it just confirmed our feelings for one another. Something we both couldn't describe. Lust? No idea here but it was something very special indeed.
He went home on the Monday and exchanged a few texts and then all went quiet for a week. I then texted him to say my friend and I have decided to come up to Scotland for the international next year. He replied immediately. With a lovely response and how he would like to see me again. I was thrilled with his replies.
My question now is... I'm the one who is always texting and in the beg

He also was probably busy with other work & forgot. I would just let it go. He did send it after all, right. So just worry about making an A on that assignment ok 🙂

My question now is... I'm the one who is always texting and in the beginning he was very responsive but now he has gone very quiet?
Do I now mirror is actions as I'm extremely, if not more patient than him. The burning question??_ will contact me again?!
Capp's advice here would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks

@banana77771 LOL wow you Scared me. Well you can stop texting him, & let him come to you. If he Cares, he'll make an effort to come find you. Try calling more if you can (after he TRYS to contact you). You can tell a lot by his voice tone. Plus you two are married. I say focus on that. He probably with his wife & idk if he gon leave his wife for you. She's probably the reason for his behavior. So keep that in mind. Focus on your own marriage

@banana77771 you in the wrong section lol. This is the Cancer forum. Try asking this question in the relationships forum. They can help you better than i probably could ok

@blackindian

So I should stop thinking he likes me? he doesn't right?

Ive gone through this.
I asked him. He said yes and gave me an explanation as to why he hadn't done anything about it.
just ask and get it over with.

@Kim30 is right. Just talk to him about it. Go with what your heart tells. You got nothing to lose