All cancer man,woman here!advise needed!please

i think you've rushed.

why didn't you let him be for those 5 damn days?

change you're mind frame...nobody likes making up his/her mind while being cornered. give him plenty of time, space, etc.

if i were you, next time i go there, i would do the same thing as the first time...and i would for nothing in the world ask the question "where are we?" it shows insecurity and gives him all the shots...i would behave as if i knew where we are, or at least where I am...even if i didn't have a clue...

i like one saying "fake it till you make it"...i had no problem when i really applied this.

and sth else...

if you asked me, i would say "we are nowhere. or better said we are in the PRE-STAGE" meaning we've started knowing each other. we are NOT BF-GF...

relax...mind your own life...and see if he is what YOU want. pay more attention to the man, not the idea of a relationship...

Well if you don't like his actions, that doesn't mean you gotta put up with it, His actions will tell you more than he will at this point. If he wanted you or was serious & getting to know you, he would make the effort to make that happen. You shouldn't have to force anything especially if you saying he's adding new women & stuff. So if you don't like his actions, then find someone who you don't have to force to do things naturally. Try calling more in the future

i think you are too impatient and rushed. you should let him come to you.

i am in a ldr with a cancer guy, different countries and the last thing i want to do is to put any sort of pressure on him. or me.

we keep in touch, don't check up on each other...try to see the difference. he travels all over the world and i surely won't give a second of my life trying to figure out what he's doing when not texting/calling/whatever to me...

it is true he doesn't post or "like" girls all over the world.... 🙂

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Posted by mz
i think you are too impatient and rushed. you should let him come to you.

i am in a ldr with a cancer guy, different countries and the last thing i want to do is to put any sort of pressure on him. or me.

we keep in touch, don't check up on each other...try to see the difference. he travels all over the world and i surely won't give a second of my life trying to figure out what he's doing when not texting/calling/whatever to me...

it is true he doesn't post or "like" girls all over the world.... 🙂

I am,i am a gemini!🙂
he started to like now,since he left...i dont know why is putting into face this things,the last text i said was something nice and funny,is clearly what is he doing,i have no pretention really but just dont flaunt it in my face...thats a no no. Dont play with a gemini...

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stop flaunting that gemini thing...it's obvious you care/got worked up too much 😄
and this is not attractive...maybe this is what he also sensed...some sort of desperation?...just saying...

but sincerely...i'd drop doing anything...

ok🙂
not quite,is our style like that,always been.i think is lack of attention that i dont like🙂
I wont do anything sure
The only thing that im unsure is that i have to go in some days,and this situation now...

Long distance relationship can be difficult if you don't trust each other. How long do you know this guy? Are you in a relationship?
Better to know each other first before living with him. It takes time.

Long distance relationships aren't good period. I would wait, & find someone who lives in my city. Long distance relationships are too stressful & Cancers like closeness, not distance. If this guy Cares, he'll make an effort to contact you.

we know for 2 years...
we are not in a relationship,or official i dont know...he mentioned in the first day he arrived there,2 days ago something reffering as me his girlfriend...:-? and then after he starts liking and adding girls...🙂)
Is he probably just immature?

Umm he was probably doesn't value you as a gf if he gotta talk to other women. You should be his #1 priority not an 2nd option. Always go by a Mans actions if you not sure about him. Words only mean less if there's no action behind it. Remember that

Well i say go on with your life, & do what makes you happy. Let him be for now. If he cares, he'll find a way to be with you. If not, Ohh well. Love will find you regardless ok 🙂

Sure! This is what he told me!
The issue will be when i arrive there...i too unclear everything

I wouldn't force anything. Love doesn't happen like that. Let things flow naturally like water. Go enjoy your life & relax.

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I wouldn't force anything. Love doesn't happen like that. Let things flow naturally like water. Go enjoy your life & relax.

I dont force in reality,probably i will just be polite,friendly but cold,indiferent.Of course all depending on him,but i know he will be very happy that i am there.

Anyways in fact now that anyone is given not even a positive answer about this situation...well...

Well i did the best i could. All can say is, have faith & be patient