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Cancer/Leo Cusp(especially women) please step forw
Traits of Cancer Leo Cusp Women
Cancer Leo cusp women often feel balanced yet passionate, with emotional control and bursts of anger. They seek passionate relationships, value family, and enjoy meaningful conversations. Self-improvement influences their behaviors, making them complex and dynamic individuals who desire fulfillment and dislike boredom.
hi, i just came across this post/forum thingy while searching the web about cancer/leo cusps. every site gives me a different amount for what actually are the cusp days but i believe i am one. my birthday is july 24. i'm pretty young-20 and so i'm interested in learning about myself, changing things that i dislike. and i find astrology to be extremely interesting and a way for people to learn more about themselves and behave in certain situations that would be more...appropriate the word i'm looking for? i don't think so.
anyways, to answer a few of your questions.
overall, i feel that i am even tempered and have a steady personality and strong beliefs. on the other hand, i do acknowledge that i can have mood swings, often daily, but they're not sprung from anything or anyone. as for my strong beliefs, they can change. i have an open mind (otherwise i wouldn't be at an astrology website).
anger- hmm... i usually feel i have a right to be angry when i am. when i do, though, i can't think straight, my words come out all out of order and don't make sense, and i need an explanation. i absolutely hate confrontation but need in order to get what's bothering me out of my mind. but i'm mostly a really calm individual. all my life, friends have told me i remind them of a hippie. i don't know. i'm just me. i always feel like i'm just one big confliction. that no part of me makes sense. but i don't know why.
i have a boyfriend that i've been with off and on (mostly on) for about 3 1/2 years. i'd say i do want a loving, secure union. i truly believe that's what i have. this boy is totally head over heels in love with me. the problem is, i guess, is me. i get bored. i don't have a lot of patience. but it's mostly the boredom. i come from a nice family that is pretty well off but i attract people with lots of problems or come from families that are just a total disaster. my parents don't understand, neither do i. the only thing i can come up with is that it's the drama that i like. i love having sex, but i don't much like the commitment part of a relationship. i've had past "things" with boys where it was just sex all the time but we didn't go out, talk on the phone or anything- it wasn't a relationship, really. just a rush of excitement and attraction but no commitment is what i loved about it. so to answer your last question, yes i absolutely DESPISE boredom, i get real agitated and feel like i should do SOMETHING but the fulfilling part of life i haven't figured out yet. i guess that's the part about growing up. that's what this years about. 2006. last year, no good. but i have a good feeling about this one...
i want a child so bad sometimes. my (ex)best friend had a baby and she's still going out and getting messed up allllll the time. which is why we're not friends anymore. i can't understand how parents could act that way when they've created something that is part of them and their total responsibility. i know i'm not ready emotionally or financially to have a child but sometimes i just have this sudden impulse. if they were like kittens i would go out and buy one. i have two cats and i'm letting my mom take care of them for a while. haha. so i know i'm not ready. but yes, i think they're very important. and i also believe it's important for the father to be there. as in family.
i am so shy around people i don't know that it's so hard for me to make new friends. i love parties because i love the excitement in the air, all the people, all the talking... but it's hard for me to get into it. so i drink. a lot. which makes it easier, but it can get out of hand because many times i don't know when to stop. i'm better talking one-on-one than in large groups. i'm actually just better at listening. but i wish i were more comfortable talking to people. i probably would be if i were a full blown leo.
i do like talking myself. look how long this post is!! ha. that's the leo in me.
anyways, to answer a few of your questions.
overall, i feel that i am even tempered and have a steady personality and strong beliefs. on the other hand, i do acknowledge that i can have mood swings, often daily, but they're not sprung from anything or anyone. as for my strong beliefs, they can change. i have an open mind (otherwise i wouldn't be at an astrology website).
anger- hmm... i usually feel i have a right to be angry when i am. when i do, though, i can't think straight, my words come out all out of order and don't make sense, and i need an explanation. i absolutely hate confrontation but need in order to get what's bothering me out of my mind. but i'm mostly a really calm individual. all my life, friends have told me i remind them of a hippie. i don't know. i'm just me. i always feel like i'm just one big confliction. that no part of me makes sense. but i don't know why.
i have a boyfriend that i've been with off and on (mostly on) for about 3 1/2 years. i'd say i do want a loving, secure union. i truly believe that's what i have. this boy is totally head over heels in love with me. the problem is, i guess, is me. i get bored. i don't have a lot of patience. but it's mostly the boredom. i come from a nice family that is pretty well off but i attract people with lots of problems or come from families that are just a total disaster. my parents don't understand, neither do i. the only thing i can come up with is that it's the drama that i like. i love having sex, but i don't much like the commitment part of a relationship. i've had past "things" with boys where it was just sex all the time but we didn't go out, talk on the phone or anything- it wasn't a relationship, really. just a rush of excitement and attraction but no commitment is what i loved about it. so to answer your last question, yes i absolutely DESPISE boredom, i get real agitated and feel like i should do SOMETHING but the fulfilling part of life i haven't figured out yet. i guess that's the part about growing up. that's what this years about. 2006. last year, no good. but i have a good feeling about this one...
i want a child so bad sometimes. my (ex)best friend had a baby and she's still going out and getting messed up allllll the time. which is why we're not friends anymore. i can't understand how parents could act that way when they've created something that is part of them and their total responsibility. i know i'm not ready emotionally or financially to have a child but sometimes i just have this sudden impulse. if they were like kittens i would go out and buy one. i have two cats and i'm letting my mom take care of them for a while. haha. so i know i'm not ready. but yes, i think they're very important. and i also believe it's important for the father to be there. as in family.
i am so shy around people i don't know that it's so hard for me to make new friends. i love parties because i love the excitement in the air, all the people, all the talking... but it's hard for me to get into it. so i drink. a lot. which makes it easier, but it can get out of hand because many times i don't know when to stop. i'm better talking one-on-one than in large groups. i'm actually just better at listening. but i wish i were more comfortable talking to people. i probably would be if i were a full blown leo.
i do like talking myself. look how long this post is!! ha. that's the leo in me.
I believe that you're a Leo
"i'm better talking one-on-one than in large groups"
I'm the same way when meeting people 😛
I'm the same way when meeting people 😛
i don't know... i just moved in an apartment with two other girls this past semester for school. one of the first things one asked was "you're a leo??!?" she said she never met a leo like me, i didn't have the typical leo characteristics or whatever. then i met my other roomie who is a full blown leo. she over dramatizes everything. she's a chainsmoker which i hate since i quit. she's a 24 year old spoiled rich kid. she is always screaming at her parents on the phone. she blamed her mom when she couldn't find her wallet. when she had a job interview, she got one of her parents to drive the 45 minutes to bring her nice dry-cleaned clothes. yet she whines, says we don't understand and calls us kids. she'll talk about the other chick behind her back, then act all sweet when she walks through the door.
once, when she was screaming on the phone and smoking a cigarette i asked her nicely if she would please close her door. she blew up and started screaming at me. i told her to shut the f-up and ignored her for about a week. and she started being all friendly toward me.
another time, the only time i ever hung out with her, before i knew what she was about, we went to my other roomies friend's house. she was already drunk when we went over there and said 'whatever happens just leave' and i didn't know what she meant and ignored her. when we got there she tried to fight the girl who lived there! for some made-up reason that she perceived! two people had to drag her to my car, her fake boobs were all hanging out, her shirt was ripped. and when they got her in my car, i had to keep locking the doors so she wouldn't jump out and try to go back! she was behaving like an animal!
i don't know. maybe i am a leo. maybe i just don't want to be associated with this girl in any way. i have to say, at first i loved this girl. i loved the drama she created and talking to her. she was so animated when she talked. but she over does it. crosses the line, ya know?
and what's the deal about all leos being outgoing? everything i read about them, that's in there. and that's just not me. i'm extremely shy. even when i do make friends i'm not much of a talker. only sometimes. when the mood strikes me.
on another subject, how do i know what my moon and acsendent signs are? or the other planets? where can i find out about this? it requires reading doesn't it?
once, when she was screaming on the phone and smoking a cigarette i asked her nicely if she would please close her door. she blew up and started screaming at me. i told her to shut the f-up and ignored her for about a week. and she started being all friendly toward me.
another time, the only time i ever hung out with her, before i knew what she was about, we went to my other roomies friend's house. she was already drunk when we went over there and said 'whatever happens just leave' and i didn't know what she meant and ignored her. when we got there she tried to fight the girl who lived there! for some made-up reason that she perceived! two people had to drag her to my car, her fake boobs were all hanging out, her shirt was ripped. and when they got her in my car, i had to keep locking the doors so she wouldn't jump out and try to go back! she was behaving like an animal!
i don't know. maybe i am a leo. maybe i just don't want to be associated with this girl in any way. i have to say, at first i loved this girl. i loved the drama she created and talking to her. she was so animated when she talked. but she over does it. crosses the line, ya know?
and what's the deal about all leos being outgoing? everything i read about them, that's in there. and that's just not me. i'm extremely shy. even when i do make friends i'm not much of a talker. only sometimes. when the mood strikes me.
on another subject, how do i know what my moon and acsendent signs are? or the other planets? where can i find out about this? it requires reading doesn't it?
To my understanding leos are nice. That woman you described is crazy! She over-developed some characteristics!
You need to know your birth time to figure it out. Google 'natal or birth charts' and you'll find a dozen websites to figure it out.
You need to know your birth time to figure it out. Google 'natal or birth charts' and you'll find a dozen websites to figure it out.
"Though some are self-righteous and quarrelsome, the more sophisticated people with this position are kindly leaders. "
This is what it says about having leo in mars copy/pasted off of my charts.Weak side to leos are they can be dramatic and dogmatic so that explains that,the other type of leo will have alot of regal and dignity aspects to thier personality.Theres good and bad sides to all of the signs so you'll never get someone exactly like you also due to the other aspects.
A good chart site is:
www.cafeastrology.com
You'll be looking for the words birth or natal chart and on that particular site there will be like 3 different pages to finally get to the info input page.They should all be near the tops of the pages though so it's not like you'd have to look too hard for them.They have pretty good interpretations for what the aspects mean not only signs but the sextiles,oppositions,conjunctions,etc.
This is what it says about having leo in mars copy/pasted off of my charts.Weak side to leos are they can be dramatic and dogmatic so that explains that,the other type of leo will have alot of regal and dignity aspects to thier personality.Theres good and bad sides to all of the signs so you'll never get someone exactly like you also due to the other aspects.
A good chart site is:
www.cafeastrology.com
You'll be looking for the words birth or natal chart and on that particular site there will be like 3 different pages to finally get to the info input page.They should all be near the tops of the pages though so it's not like you'd have to look too hard for them.They have pretty good interpretations for what the aspects mean not only signs but the sextiles,oppositions,conjunctions,etc.
thanks for the feedback. i'll look up that stuff tomorrow, after i've gotten some sleep (hopefully). this is not the usual. i love my (beauty) sleep. sometimes it just doesn't happen. my cats are in here with me, they've been ready for bed. aww. they're so cute. mtv actually plays music videos. while all the normal people sleep. sometimes i watch info-mercials. i feel like i should brush my teeth.
sometimes i say things that i'm thinking that i shouldn't. except on the computer there's the delete option so i shouldn't be doing that at all. f-it.
good nite. and peace to all.
sometimes i say things that i'm thinking that i shouldn't. except on the computer there's the delete option so i shouldn't be doing that at all. f-it.
good nite. and peace to all.
Wow, interesting responses. who you are as an individual will be more of your makeup but the signs, unfortnately do have traits that are hard to change.
Jennamp said that she feels likes she gets bored easily, that could either be because you are young, or because you have more degrees in leo. saying you love sex is definetely a leo trait. when you said that your anger tends to come out and you dont know or understand the way it comes out, that is a cancer trait for sure and a curse at that! LOL My name is Jennifer too!
Jennamp said that she feels likes she gets bored easily, that could either be because you are young, or because you have more degrees in leo. saying you love sex is definetely a leo trait. when you said that your anger tends to come out and you dont know or understand the way it comes out, that is a cancer trait for sure and a curse at that! LOL My name is Jennifer too!
Hi I am a Cancer/Leo Cusp born on 21st July 1984. I really get what you're trying to say about the whole personality issue about cancer and leo. I feel like i dont completely fit either. Well here are my answers to your questions.
1. I am usually even tempered, unless of course I get into a heated arguement with ppl I am close to or have emotional attachments with. It's a bit diificult to have a definite answer with this one.
2. I am usally in extreme control of my emotions to the point where I even repress them and not express them at all. But I dont usually get my burst of anger unless someone is chastising or patronizing me. However, I do get sudden feelings of depression and that is puzzling to me because I dont know where it came from.
3. I very much desire a passionate and loving, secure union.
4. Yes I feel as if I do have high sex drive but since I want a loving relationship and want a long term relationship, in order to experience this I dont seek temporary relationships or quick flings to fulfill that.
5. I defintiely feel children and large families are important. These bonds to me are very special.
6. I am home body I dont like going out partying too much. However when ever I am out I prefer to be with small group of friends and chatting. I like to talk and listen. I am happy doing both.
7. My interpreation of a fulfilling life is different from others. There are many things I want to do. And yes I do hate boredom but at the same time somtimes I am too passive or lazy to anything about it. I believe almost anyone would hate boredom though.
Hope that helps!!
1. I am usually even tempered, unless of course I get into a heated arguement with ppl I am close to or have emotional attachments with. It's a bit diificult to have a definite answer with this one.
2. I am usally in extreme control of my emotions to the point where I even repress them and not express them at all. But I dont usually get my burst of anger unless someone is chastising or patronizing me. However, I do get sudden feelings of depression and that is puzzling to me because I dont know where it came from.
3. I very much desire a passionate and loving, secure union.
4. Yes I feel as if I do have high sex drive but since I want a loving relationship and want a long term relationship, in order to experience this I dont seek temporary relationships or quick flings to fulfill that.
5. I defintiely feel children and large families are important. These bonds to me are very special.
6. I am home body I dont like going out partying too much. However when ever I am out I prefer to be with small group of friends and chatting. I like to talk and listen. I am happy doing both.
7. My interpreation of a fulfilling life is different from others. There are many things I want to do. And yes I do hate boredom but at the same time somtimes I am too passive or lazy to anything about it. I believe almost anyone would hate boredom though.
Hope that helps!!
Hey, I am a Leo, not a typical one, however, I will answer some of these questions. I think I built alot of my strength with patience and endurance from a Capricorn male.
1. Do you feel you are even tempered? Yes, I have learned 2 control myself and my temper.
2. Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, I try 2 always B in control of my emotions. In order 2 get them from me, U have 2 give them 2 me.
a. but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from? If, and When I get angry, I usually show it through actions instead of words.
3. Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union? Yes! Matter of fact, our union as 2 function as 1. If we can't function as 1, I don't need U. Teamwork, its not about me, its about us.
4. Do you have a high sex drive? Like 2 f some butter up! LOL!
5. Do you really think children and large families are important? No not really having alot of children, however, yes family is very important 2 me.
5. When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening? No, I usually don't go out Period. I have started going out again, however, I sit still and let the men mingle with me. They come straight 2 me.
6. Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom? Very true. I love complicated things. I have taken some extremely hard physics classes that make me feel like I am a baby psysicist. However, I don't like nothing boring.
1. Do you feel you are even tempered? Yes, I have learned 2 control myself and my temper.
2. Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, I try 2 always B in control of my emotions. In order 2 get them from me, U have 2 give them 2 me.
a. but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from? If, and When I get angry, I usually show it through actions instead of words.
3. Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union? Yes! Matter of fact, our union as 2 function as 1. If we can't function as 1, I don't need U. Teamwork, its not about me, its about us.
4. Do you have a high sex drive? Like 2 f some butter up! LOL!
5. Do you really think children and large families are important? No not really having alot of children, however, yes family is very important 2 me.
5. When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening? No, I usually don't go out Period. I have started going out again, however, I sit still and let the men mingle with me. They come straight 2 me.
6. Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom? Very true. I love complicated things. I have taken some extremely hard physics classes that make me feel like I am a baby psysicist. However, I don't like nothing boring.
Hi there,
i don't think some people quite understand the meaning of the cusp, the 23rd of july is the only day you can be born on (which i am) to be on the cancer/leo cusp, sorry to dissapoint some of you!
so lets answer your questions:
1. tempered - yes i kinda got bit tempered then when sum people claim to be something there not.
2. emotions - well what do i say its ups and downs like most i guess.
3. i absolutley desires a loving & union it is a must!
4. sex drive - sky high
5. having a large family has always been on my mind from a very young age its very important to me to have lots of children.
6. when going out it varies quite alot i can be very shy or very out-going which matches my cancer/leo sign, but i would say i do feel more happy to listen to others than grab all the attention for myself.
7. i do desire a fulfilling life but doesnt everyone? and i do hate boredom it makes me moody and frustrated!
hope this is helpful anymore questions just ask!
i don't think some people quite understand the meaning of the cusp, the 23rd of july is the only day you can be born on (which i am) to be on the cancer/leo cusp, sorry to dissapoint some of you!
so lets answer your questions:
1. tempered - yes i kinda got bit tempered then when sum people claim to be something there not.
2. emotions - well what do i say its ups and downs like most i guess.
3. i absolutley desires a loving & union it is a must!
4. sex drive - sky high
5. having a large family has always been on my mind from a very young age its very important to me to have lots of children.
6. when going out it varies quite alot i can be very shy or very out-going which matches my cancer/leo sign, but i would say i do feel more happy to listen to others than grab all the attention for myself.
7. i do desire a fulfilling life but doesnt everyone? and i do hate boredom it makes me moody and frustrated!
hope this is helpful anymore questions just ask!
Do you feel you are even tempered? NO
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from? YES
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union? ALWAYS
Do you have a high sex drive? VERY
Do you really think children and large families are important? I DONT WANT A LARGE FAMILY BUT I DO THINK OTHER FAMILIES ARE IMPORTANT
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening? DEPENDS ON MY MOOD. IF I KNOW THE POEPLE I'LL WANT ATTENTION BUT NOT TO DOMINATE IF I DONT KNOW THE POEPLE I WILL LISTEN TO THEM AND OBSERVE UNTIL THE NEXT TIME I SEE THEM.
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom? OH YES! ITS WHAT I WANT MORE THAN ANYTHING
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from? YES
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union? ALWAYS
Do you have a high sex drive? VERY
Do you really think children and large families are important? I DONT WANT A LARGE FAMILY BUT I DO THINK OTHER FAMILIES ARE IMPORTANT
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening? DEPENDS ON MY MOOD. IF I KNOW THE POEPLE I'LL WANT ATTENTION BUT NOT TO DOMINATE IF I DONT KNOW THE POEPLE I WILL LISTEN TO THEM AND OBSERVE UNTIL THE NEXT TIME I SEE THEM.
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom? OH YES! ITS WHAT I WANT MORE THAN ANYTHING
actually a cusp is more than a day. What you're talking about is the day that is in one sign in some years and on the other sign in other years.
Heya, I am a 21 year old female cancer/leo cusp born on July 23rd (but was supposed to be born on the 19th or 20th. Even though i don't know if that makes a difference). I TOTALLY understand what you are saying if you are saying that we fit niether cancer or leo. I feel that many times I flipp flopp between the two in cycles sometimes lasting a couple of weeks or months. I do not know too much about this cusp ... I have always adhered to the leo sign even though I am only 1 day into leo. And in some magazines I am even a cancer! Anyhoo ... heres some answers to your questions ....
Do you feel you are even tempered?
I feel that I am incredibly even tempered. At times I tend to get excited easily. I am generally happy and easy going most of the time.
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
Yeah!!! Sometimes I say things that sound really mean but I do not feel they are mean and I excpect others to know that I am not really mad at them or trying to be mean, but sometimes I don't know where it comes from really. It used to happen allot when I was younger with my mom. She would be totally sweet and I would just get this wierd burst of anger and blow up at her.
Honestly though I hardly ever get mad. The only times I get mad are when I have had little to no sleep and then I drink too much wine. Then I get mad and emotional even though when I usually drink I am the happy smiley one. Otherwise it takes something really persistent to make me mad, or when someone is being ignorant and mean towards someone who doesn't deserve it. That infuriates me the most!! I feel that as far as the whole leo pride thing goes ... any attack on myself usually just makes me sad. And I have learned to deal with it because it used to really tear me up.
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
Doesn't everyone?
Do you have a high sex drive?
yeah ... I think so. More than most yeah.
Do you really think children and large families are important?
children are very important. and I am not talking about mine. children in general are the future! literally! they are these amazing little mini adults that are soooo funny and insightful. they always catch the things we miss.
I personally don't think I want a large family right now ... but who knows. I love kids well enough that if it doesn't get in the way of
Do you feel you are even tempered?
I feel that I am incredibly even tempered. At times I tend to get excited easily. I am generally happy and easy going most of the time.
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
Yeah!!! Sometimes I say things that sound really mean but I do not feel they are mean and I excpect others to know that I am not really mad at them or trying to be mean, but sometimes I don't know where it comes from really. It used to happen allot when I was younger with my mom. She would be totally sweet and I would just get this wierd burst of anger and blow up at her.
Honestly though I hardly ever get mad. The only times I get mad are when I have had little to no sleep and then I drink too much wine. Then I get mad and emotional even though when I usually drink I am the happy smiley one. Otherwise it takes something really persistent to make me mad, or when someone is being ignorant and mean towards someone who doesn't deserve it. That infuriates me the most!! I feel that as far as the whole leo pride thing goes ... any attack on myself usually just makes me sad. And I have learned to deal with it because it used to really tear me up.
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
Doesn't everyone?
Do you have a high sex drive?
yeah ... I think so. More than most yeah.
Do you really think children and large families are important?
children are very important. and I am not talking about mine. children in general are the future! literally! they are these amazing little mini adults that are soooo funny and insightful. they always catch the things we miss.
I personally don't think I want a large family right now ... but who knows. I love kids well enough that if it doesn't get in the way of
hey there im new to this forum... actually this is my first post...i hope i can help
i am cancer leo cusp (july 22), and have read much on cancer and am just starting on reading some leo (i definitely think i am closer to cancer, but as i look at leo some things that didnt quite fit the description before are coming to my attention.)
? personally I am into self improvement and I think that has truly changed a lot of behaviors that i might have had if I didnt do any work on myself?
-So am i and i to have tried to change some of my behaviors too.
? Do you feel you are even tempered??
more recently yes i do, and im general very happy. when i was younger (mostly elementary - highschool) a lot of things came into play, school itself was always very stressful for me because of a learning disability and a genetic disorder that are connected.
i did have some problems controlling my temper. i had many angry outbursts, sometimes violent. since then i have made progress and i now consider myself even tempered.
? Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from??
yes, but they have become more end more rare. but if im very tired, or stressed they become much more frequent. i also have busts of sadness, not very often but sometimes i cant help but breakdown crying, that comes from stress too i think. i try to keep myself as calm and relaxed as i can.
?? Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union??
very much so yes
?Do you have a high sex drive??
i would have to say yes.
? Do you really think children and large families are important??
yes. but as much as i want a big happy family, i also crave adventure, and freedom to see the world and experience many new things.
?When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening??
i mostly listen, if i have a very strong opinion or input i think will be helpful i tend to talk a lot. but if the discussion gets heated i have a strong aversion to confrontation, so i try not to argue.
?Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom??
yes and no, it is very hard for me to get bored, because my imagination is so strong and i have ADD (something similar anyway) so my mind tends to wander and im not bored when that happens 😉. but when i do get bored i hate it (i think everyone does) i get very a
i am cancer leo cusp (july 22), and have read much on cancer and am just starting on reading some leo (i definitely think i am closer to cancer, but as i look at leo some things that didnt quite fit the description before are coming to my attention.)
? personally I am into self improvement and I think that has truly changed a lot of behaviors that i might have had if I didnt do any work on myself?
-So am i and i to have tried to change some of my behaviors too.
? Do you feel you are even tempered??
more recently yes i do, and im general very happy. when i was younger (mostly elementary - highschool) a lot of things came into play, school itself was always very stressful for me because of a learning disability and a genetic disorder that are connected.
i did have some problems controlling my temper. i had many angry outbursts, sometimes violent. since then i have made progress and i now consider myself even tempered.
? Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from??
yes, but they have become more end more rare. but if im very tired, or stressed they become much more frequent. i also have busts of sadness, not very often but sometimes i cant help but breakdown crying, that comes from stress too i think. i try to keep myself as calm and relaxed as i can.
?? Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union??
very much so yes
?Do you have a high sex drive??
i would have to say yes.
? Do you really think children and large families are important??
yes. but as much as i want a big happy family, i also crave adventure, and freedom to see the world and experience many new things.
?When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening??
i mostly listen, if i have a very strong opinion or input i think will be helpful i tend to talk a lot. but if the discussion gets heated i have a strong aversion to confrontation, so i try not to argue.
?Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom??
yes and no, it is very hard for me to get bored, because my imagination is so strong and i have ADD (something similar anyway) so my mind tends to wander and im not bored when that happens 😉. but when i do get bored i hate it (i think everyone does) i get very a
July 22nd is the cusp day!!!! If your born on the 23rd your a leo!
Hi. I'm the same, born on the cusp,23rd July 1958. (which apparently is from 19th to 23rd) The 1st half of my life I grew up under the leo star sign, but felt most of the traits weren't really me. My late 20's (30's - can't quite remember) star sign changed to Cancer. I feel a lot more aligned with this sign. I tend to read both signs now and feel happy to be a bit of both.
Do I feel even tempered? No. For as long as I can remember I have tended to mood swings, sulking, flying off the handle and stressing out. I have learned to chill out a bit more, although Hormones are playing havoc at this time of my life.
In control of my emotions? Hell no! I cry and laugh at whim, but I have got better at expressing my feelings rather than building my 'Brick Wall'. I would put up that wall and no one could 'get' to me.
My first husband, the father of my two daughters, passed away 9 years ago. He was 40. He was a Cancer star sign and sometimes we were too much the same. The hard shell thing. But we had that passionate, loving secure union.Very high sex drive!! We were best mates too. I have since re-married a sagittarian, and life is different. I need to let go of the past and its ghosts and move on with my life. I drink far too much, most of our fights are because I get bored watching TV and prefer socialising at the local club. I love people, and have no trouble talking or listening. Never used to be like that. Thanks for listening, hope this helps.
Do I feel even tempered? No. For as long as I can remember I have tended to mood swings, sulking, flying off the handle and stressing out. I have learned to chill out a bit more, although Hormones are playing havoc at this time of my life.
In control of my emotions? Hell no! I cry and laugh at whim, but I have got better at expressing my feelings rather than building my 'Brick Wall'. I would put up that wall and no one could 'get' to me.
My first husband, the father of my two daughters, passed away 9 years ago. He was 40. He was a Cancer star sign and sometimes we were too much the same. The hard shell thing. But we had that passionate, loving secure union.Very high sex drive!! We were best mates too. I have since re-married a sagittarian, and life is different. I need to let go of the past and its ghosts and move on with my life. I drink far too much, most of our fights are because I get bored watching TV and prefer socialising at the local club. I love people, and have no trouble talking or listening. Never used to be like that. Thanks for listening, hope this helps.
I'm a female born on the 23rd July and always feel that I am a mix of the two signs... It's so annoying! I always want to find out which sign I'm more suited to...
Do you feel you are even tempered?
Yes extremely, on the outside anyway. I don't get annoyed that easily and am quite chilled out. I do get hurt quite easily though but only show it really when I'm on my own.
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
I can control my emotions well in front of other people (or so I thought, people have recently told me that you can see my mood from my face).. But occasionally I get sad randomly when I have no idea why. Generally I'm a happy person- there has to be so so much to really annoy me and turn me angry, so it'll have to be a no to the burst of anger.
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
Yes. I love long relationships. I need someone to be there and compliment me, but I also need to feel that I have most of the control. I need to feel secure in a relationship and to feel that the other person loves me- i often put too much thought into this. I am very affectionate but need the same amount of affection in return
Do you have a high sex drive?
Extremely high. Far more than other people I feel. Very spontaneous and passionate.
Do you really think children and large families are important?
I want children.. This isn't one of my top priorities though. To have a large family isn't that important to me.
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
Sometimes I get involved in conversations that I'm not even meant to me involved in. If I am in a conversation I'm not scared to voice my opinions. Sometimes I can happily sit and listen however- I don't mind sitting and listening. I do love going out however I also love staying in!
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom?
Yes completely. I hate being bored.. I need to do something constantly. I get lazy sometimes though so if I'm bored I might not actually be motivated to do anything about it....
Do you feel you are even tempered?
Yes extremely, on the outside anyway. I don't get annoyed that easily and am quite chilled out. I do get hurt quite easily though but only show it really when I'm on my own.
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
I can control my emotions well in front of other people (or so I thought, people have recently told me that you can see my mood from my face).. But occasionally I get sad randomly when I have no idea why. Generally I'm a happy person- there has to be so so much to really annoy me and turn me angry, so it'll have to be a no to the burst of anger.
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
Yes. I love long relationships. I need someone to be there and compliment me, but I also need to feel that I have most of the control. I need to feel secure in a relationship and to feel that the other person loves me- i often put too much thought into this. I am very affectionate but need the same amount of affection in return
Do you have a high sex drive?
Extremely high. Far more than other people I feel. Very spontaneous and passionate.
Do you really think children and large families are important?
I want children.. This isn't one of my top priorities though. To have a large family isn't that important to me.
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
Sometimes I get involved in conversations that I'm not even meant to me involved in. If I am in a conversation I'm not scared to voice my opinions. Sometimes I can happily sit and listen however- I don't mind sitting and listening. I do love going out however I also love staying in!
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom?
Yes completely. I hate being bored.. I need to do something constantly. I get lazy sometimes though so if I'm bored I might not actually be motivated to do anything about it....
Hi peoples. I'm a July 20th, 1970 cancer-leo cuspian, age 37, female. I stumbled on to this post last night as I was looking up info on this cusp to see if anything has 'changed' in the last 10 years or so since I looked into it. Was intersting to read! Let me answer your questions directly, and I may elaborate at the end if my caffeine is still working.
Do you feel you are even tempered?
For the last 20 years, YES, before that, HELL no. When I was a little girl I was pretty quiet when I wasn't entertaining people with my antics. I liked to observe mostly. I didn't like or trust most people, I could however speak to anyone, anytime, on any level. Then, as a teenager the poo hit the fan, and I scared my whole family to death on a regualr basis. I was a WILD child. I did all the drugs I could get my hands on and had casual sex with complete strangers, and thought nothing of it. I got into fights in H.S. because I had a passion for justice, and if an a-hole jock was messing with a nerdy kid, I would jump in, all 5'2" and 95 pounds of me and whomp the jock. In my early 20's I went around with my feelings on my sleeve taking offense to the slightest impasse. In my 30's now and I can say I'm a much happier person, and am basically the calm in the center of the storm. To everyone else I appear to be a whirlwind, but baby, I know exactly what is going on and what needs to be done. I could and still can hold a grudge longer than anyone I know, but it takes a lot to get to me. But if you do, you better look out, I will NEVER let it go.
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
This used to happen in my teen days, I was very melodramatic and thought the world was against me. Now I know the world is just stupid, lol. I ALWAYS knew/know the source of my anger! I did used to have fits of jealousy with whatever guy I was dating, and that could spark some REAL fireworks! I know that behavior is usually reserved for the insecure, which had nada to do with my case. With me it was just an egoistic stance, like, you better not look at that girl when you've got ALL this!
To be cont.....something with character limit? lol!
Do you feel you are even tempered?
For the last 20 years, YES, before that, HELL no. When I was a little girl I was pretty quiet when I wasn't entertaining people with my antics. I liked to observe mostly. I didn't like or trust most people, I could however speak to anyone, anytime, on any level. Then, as a teenager the poo hit the fan, and I scared my whole family to death on a regualr basis. I was a WILD child. I did all the drugs I could get my hands on and had casual sex with complete strangers, and thought nothing of it. I got into fights in H.S. because I had a passion for justice, and if an a-hole jock was messing with a nerdy kid, I would jump in, all 5'2" and 95 pounds of me and whomp the jock. In my early 20's I went around with my feelings on my sleeve taking offense to the slightest impasse. In my 30's now and I can say I'm a much happier person, and am basically the calm in the center of the storm. To everyone else I appear to be a whirlwind, but baby, I know exactly what is going on and what needs to be done. I could and still can hold a grudge longer than anyone I know, but it takes a lot to get to me. But if you do, you better look out, I will NEVER let it go.
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
This used to happen in my teen days, I was very melodramatic and thought the world was against me. Now I know the world is just stupid, lol. I ALWAYS knew/know the source of my anger! I did used to have fits of jealousy with whatever guy I was dating, and that could spark some REAL fireworks! I know that behavior is usually reserved for the insecure, which had nada to do with my case. With me it was just an egoistic stance, like, you better not look at that girl when you've got ALL this!
To be cont.....something with character limit? lol!
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
Absolutely, and have one now. I'm in a very happy, committed relationship to another Leo. This poor guy was the Crown Prince, only boy , baby boy, with 5 older sisters! Boy did they encourage his Leo-ness! We had a lot of struggles when we first met, but my passion for justice brought him down to earth essentially, and his 'emotional stability' (which some may think he's just cold, he's not, just not good at expressing) has helped even me out. We're so alike and so different, but share the same life philosophy. I have been divorced and left an abusive relationship. That was how I capped off my teen days, by marrying a man 11 years my senior, with $ $ , when I was only 3 months past the ripe age of 18. We stayed married for 7 years and had 2 kids. I can honestly tell you that after my divorce I learned to be happy on my own. Hell! I LOVED it! Being single and not even dating or worrying about dating was some of the best times of my life. So, I will not sacrifice myself for the mere 'idea' of love and will not stay in a relationship if its not working. Period. Funny thing is, my current husband is the ONLY guy I dated after my divorce! We dated for 5 years before we got engaged, this time I was in nooooo rush! I have 3 sons, ages 15, 12, and 3, ALL TAURUS'!! CRAZY little bull headed stubborn a $ $ kids! Our family unit is pretty tight knit, nobody f.ucks with one of us w/o having to take on the other. My home is a mecca to the kids of the neighborhood. This is THE hangout. My 15 y.o.'s friends come to me often for advice, and I have even taken some of them into my home when they were put out. As far as my marriage, I allow him to be human, but I have a huge sense of propriety. I consider the covenant we made to be sacred and we both must adhere to that at all times. Its hard for a man to live up to that.
Do you have a high sex drive?
Yes and no. I used to have sex all the time, not because I liked IT, but because I liked the attention. Now I have it when I want it, how I want, where I want it, and won't hesitate to try new things or give instructions... a little more to the left please, lol! I don't really care about sweet soft sex, I want to f--k like animals and be done. lol. Even tho hubby is a LEo, I take complete control in bed. I do wish he would be more aggressive! Rrrrrrrrrrroaaaarrrrrrrrrrrr!! lol!
Again with the character limit, sheeeeeeeeeesh!
Absolutely, and have one now. I'm in a very happy, committed relationship to another Leo. This poor guy was the Crown Prince, only boy , baby boy, with 5 older sisters! Boy did they encourage his Leo-ness! We had a lot of struggles when we first met, but my passion for justice brought him down to earth essentially, and his 'emotional stability' (which some may think he's just cold, he's not, just not good at expressing) has helped even me out. We're so alike and so different, but share the same life philosophy. I have been divorced and left an abusive relationship. That was how I capped off my teen days, by marrying a man 11 years my senior, with $ $ , when I was only 3 months past the ripe age of 18. We stayed married for 7 years and had 2 kids. I can honestly tell you that after my divorce I learned to be happy on my own. Hell! I LOVED it! Being single and not even dating or worrying about dating was some of the best times of my life. So, I will not sacrifice myself for the mere 'idea' of love and will not stay in a relationship if its not working. Period. Funny thing is, my current husband is the ONLY guy I dated after my divorce! We dated for 5 years before we got engaged, this time I was in nooooo rush! I have 3 sons, ages 15, 12, and 3, ALL TAURUS'!! CRAZY little bull headed stubborn a $ $ kids! Our family unit is pretty tight knit, nobody f.ucks with one of us w/o having to take on the other. My home is a mecca to the kids of the neighborhood. This is THE hangout. My 15 y.o.'s friends come to me often for advice, and I have even taken some of them into my home when they were put out. As far as my marriage, I allow him to be human, but I have a huge sense of propriety. I consider the covenant we made to be sacred and we both must adhere to that at all times. Its hard for a man to live up to that.
Do you have a high sex drive?
Yes and no. I used to have sex all the time, not because I liked IT, but because I liked the attention. Now I have it when I want it, how I want, where I want it, and won't hesitate to try new things or give instructions... a little more to the left please, lol! I don't really care about sweet soft sex, I want to f--k like animals and be done. lol. Even tho hubby is a LEo, I take complete control in bed. I do wish he would be more aggressive! Rrrrrrrrrrroaaaarrrrrrrrrrrr!! lol!
Again with the character limit, sheeeeeeeeeesh!
Do you really think children and large families are important?
If you have children the they should be your number one priority, yes. But I don't encourage people to marry and kids if they don't think its for them. The bohemian life style has always been very attractive to me. There are so many people in unhappy marriages and so many unwanted children that I strongly feel people must do what is right for them. Personally, I always see large families as a drain on society, but that's a post for another topic!
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
I'm a very intuitive person, am intelligent and funny, and can work a room anytime. I am usually the center of attention without even trying to be, and can get the party going. I'm happy to listen, but am VERY opinionated, and if somebody says something like they think Bush is doing a great job, I basically use my linguistic skills to rip them to shreds with my fast wit and scathing tongue. In fact, I'm the go-to person when any friends, family or associates have a problem, and complete strangers will approach me and say they felt the need to tell me their life story.
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom?
By fullfilling, do you mean meaningfull? Then yes, I do feel the need to do something to make the world a better place and not just within my home. I want world peace, an end to starvation, an end to fascism and hypocrisy. I will often have to turn off the news because stories of child molestation or abuse have a profound effect on me. It will bring me so down, that I must be careful. There have been very dark moments in my life, and I fight the urge to succumb regularly, even tho' by all appearances I am a very happy, outgoing person. That dark place is filled with judgement and disain for society, and a feeling that the world is spinning out of control with no meaning or purpose. Not a good place to go! As for boredom, I must admit that I am a bit lazy, and love nothing more than curling up with a good book, and blowing off my housework for an entire day! Or, you might find me engrossed in a documentary or really any sedentary activity. I hate exercise, but still look great for my age! I smoke a pack a day, and even tho' I'm nearly freakin 40 I still get carded for cigarettes or at clubs. In fact, a recent acquaintance was shocked when she found out my age, said I looked and acted around 25, lol! So, I'm sorta a big
If you have children the they should be your number one priority, yes. But I don't encourage people to marry and kids if they don't think its for them. The bohemian life style has always been very attractive to me. There are so many people in unhappy marriages and so many unwanted children that I strongly feel people must do what is right for them. Personally, I always see large families as a drain on society, but that's a post for another topic!
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
I'm a very intuitive person, am intelligent and funny, and can work a room anytime. I am usually the center of attention without even trying to be, and can get the party going. I'm happy to listen, but am VERY opinionated, and if somebody says something like they think Bush is doing a great job, I basically use my linguistic skills to rip them to shreds with my fast wit and scathing tongue. In fact, I'm the go-to person when any friends, family or associates have a problem, and complete strangers will approach me and say they felt the need to tell me their life story.
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom?
By fullfilling, do you mean meaningfull? Then yes, I do feel the need to do something to make the world a better place and not just within my home. I want world peace, an end to starvation, an end to fascism and hypocrisy. I will often have to turn off the news because stories of child molestation or abuse have a profound effect on me. It will bring me so down, that I must be careful. There have been very dark moments in my life, and I fight the urge to succumb regularly, even tho' by all appearances I am a very happy, outgoing person. That dark place is filled with judgement and disain for society, and a feeling that the world is spinning out of control with no meaning or purpose. Not a good place to go! As for boredom, I must admit that I am a bit lazy, and love nothing more than curling up with a good book, and blowing off my housework for an entire day! Or, you might find me engrossed in a documentary or really any sedentary activity. I hate exercise, but still look great for my age! I smoke a pack a day, and even tho' I'm nearly freakin 40 I still get carded for cigarettes or at clubs. In fact, a recent acquaintance was shocked when she found out my age, said I looked and acted around 25, lol! So, I'm sorta a big
cont...'ol kid.
For a little more about me, as this is one of my favorite subjects and I'm always happy to share....lol:
I'm a very attractive person, and I NEVER felt that way until I 'came into my own' in my late 20's. Wherever I go, people look. Men fall all over themselves and I think its hilarious. I get approached by women as well, and have been told I have a massively magnetic personality. I work it too, for whatever I need, why not? I'm exceedingly self confident and have long left the days of doubt behind me. I'm very well grounded, and believe it or not a humble person. I never take a compliment well! I am a liberal, an agnostic, and do not tolerate intolerance in any form. I despise the Christian right, Republicans, and any other person or group that would oppress humankind, and have huge political interest. I'm an activist and a feminist and a humanist all rolled into one. My fave writer is Hunter S. Thompson. I love marijuana and the way it quiets my internal dialogue that is never ending. I'm an insomniac and have to smoke weed to keep the dreams at bay. Yes, I have very odd dreams. Dreams of people I've never met that died and knew someone in my family. I have to squelch them or I will not sleep at all. I love food and cooking, but hate cleaning up, even tho' I'm anal about having a clean home. I'm sort of an impact person and will directly experience the feelings of other people w/o trying. I have learned to control it and not make their pain my own. Its hard because I'm very empathetic. Homeless people and weirdos approach me like I have SUCKER written on my forhead! I'm loud, crass, verbose, and gregarious, and am one of the funniest people I know. I'm real slick at free association, and often it is very hard for people to follow me. I pick up on dialects and mimick people accents w/o realizing it. I am better now at censoring myself, but still will blurt out something that can quiet a whole room. It is impossible to manipulate me, but you are allowed to poke fun at me and I will most likely laugh with you. Do not mess with my kids EVER, or you will pay. I am a classic passive aggressive and enjoy stirring up trouble amongst small minded people. If I get revenge on you it will come from left field, will make you think, and you'll never know it was me. I avoid confrontation, even tho' I'm loud and opionated. I'm EXCELLENT at manipulation and making you think it was YOUR idea. I get what I want. I'm extremely lucky.
For a little more about me, as this is one of my favorite subjects and I'm always happy to share....lol:
I'm a very attractive person, and I NEVER felt that way until I 'came into my own' in my late 20's. Wherever I go, people look. Men fall all over themselves and I think its hilarious. I get approached by women as well, and have been told I have a massively magnetic personality. I work it too, for whatever I need, why not? I'm exceedingly self confident and have long left the days of doubt behind me. I'm very well grounded, and believe it or not a humble person. I never take a compliment well! I am a liberal, an agnostic, and do not tolerate intolerance in any form. I despise the Christian right, Republicans, and any other person or group that would oppress humankind, and have huge political interest. I'm an activist and a feminist and a humanist all rolled into one. My fave writer is Hunter S. Thompson. I love marijuana and the way it quiets my internal dialogue that is never ending. I'm an insomniac and have to smoke weed to keep the dreams at bay. Yes, I have very odd dreams. Dreams of people I've never met that died and knew someone in my family. I have to squelch them or I will not sleep at all. I love food and cooking, but hate cleaning up, even tho' I'm anal about having a clean home. I'm sort of an impact person and will directly experience the feelings of other people w/o trying. I have learned to control it and not make their pain my own. Its hard because I'm very empathetic. Homeless people and weirdos approach me like I have SUCKER written on my forhead! I'm loud, crass, verbose, and gregarious, and am one of the funniest people I know. I'm real slick at free association, and often it is very hard for people to follow me. I pick up on dialects and mimick people accents w/o realizing it. I am better now at censoring myself, but still will blurt out something that can quiet a whole room. It is impossible to manipulate me, but you are allowed to poke fun at me and I will most likely laugh with you. Do not mess with my kids EVER, or you will pay. I am a classic passive aggressive and enjoy stirring up trouble amongst small minded people. If I get revenge on you it will come from left field, will make you think, and you'll never know it was me. I avoid confrontation, even tho' I'm loud and opionated. I'm EXCELLENT at manipulation and making you think it was YOUR idea. I get what I want. I'm extremely lucky.
cont...LOL!!!
I am not sure what my birthchart placement is, but I had a chart done several years ago and was told it was one of the most diverse, captivating charts she had ever done. I was born in the year of the dog. I am fiercely loyal to my friends and family, and keep my circle small. I do not have time for toxic people and have cut them out of my life. I no longer believe in being the bigger person and to just let things go. I am saddened by the current state of humanity. Americans are so caught up in blind faith, consumerism, and themsleves. I belive in deep thoughts, self exploration, and knowing what motivates you. I am okay with being different and really cherish my uniqueness. I question authority, and blindly accept nothing. I value science over mysticism, but still enjoy considering that which cannot be explained by science. I tend to become obsessed with things, and have mild OCD ( I loooove counting things ). Sometimes I get too self involved and ignore my family, am trying to be better about that.
WHEW! I THINK that's about it! LOL!
I think it would be nice if Cancer-Leo Cuspians could have their own forum somewhere so we could discuss our uniqueness and help each other when the need arises. Yahoo has some forums for groups to be set up, and I'm sure there are plenty of others. Would anyone be interested in that and I can set something up?
I am not sure what my birthchart placement is, but I had a chart done several years ago and was told it was one of the most diverse, captivating charts she had ever done. I was born in the year of the dog. I am fiercely loyal to my friends and family, and keep my circle small. I do not have time for toxic people and have cut them out of my life. I no longer believe in being the bigger person and to just let things go. I am saddened by the current state of humanity. Americans are so caught up in blind faith, consumerism, and themsleves. I belive in deep thoughts, self exploration, and knowing what motivates you. I am okay with being different and really cherish my uniqueness. I question authority, and blindly accept nothing. I value science over mysticism, but still enjoy considering that which cannot be explained by science. I tend to become obsessed with things, and have mild OCD ( I loooove counting things ). Sometimes I get too self involved and ignore my family, am trying to be better about that.
WHEW! I THINK that's about it! LOL!
I think it would be nice if Cancer-Leo Cuspians could have their own forum somewhere so we could discuss our uniqueness and help each other when the need arises. Yahoo has some forums for groups to be set up, and I'm sure there are plenty of others. Would anyone be interested in that and I can set something up?
Hey, Im a Cancer/Leo Cusp, and because of the Time I was born on July 22, 1992 I missed being an actual cancer by 55 minutes. I think thats as close as it comes to being a true cusp. Ive always been told I was a cancer, but I couldnt understand why I would always have somewhat of two personalities. ( not meant to sound like a personality disorder)
Do you feel you are even tempered?
Im fairly even tempered, I dont get mad unless its something I truly know is right. I dont like being pushed around and will get angry if someone tries to.
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
Yeah, I get those every once in a while, but Ive come to recognize them and apologize before I lash out and then again afterwards. There isnt a way to get around it, I just need to let it out.
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
Sure, On the outside Im not percieved as a cuddler or as a caring person. But by nature I love being at home with family and with young children; and I love spending one on one time with my current fling.
Do you have a high sex drive?
Sure...
Do you really think children and large families are important?
Yes. Absolutely. I'm young, but ever since I was little Ive wanted a large number of children. Now more realistically Ive decided when people ask me how many kids I want to say "as many as I can afford"
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
It truly depends on my mood. if Im in a social mood I take control and love up talking. but if Im feeling quiet, Ill be just that. Ill sit back and just listen and take everyone in.
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom?
I hate boredom. I love traveling and being out and about. but at the same time, I want nothing more then to stay home and chill with my family.
Do you feel you are even tempered?
Im fairly even tempered, I dont get mad unless its something I truly know is right. I dont like being pushed around and will get angry if someone tries to.
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
Yeah, I get those every once in a while, but Ive come to recognize them and apologize before I lash out and then again afterwards. There isnt a way to get around it, I just need to let it out.
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
Sure, On the outside Im not percieved as a cuddler or as a caring person. But by nature I love being at home with family and with young children; and I love spending one on one time with my current fling.
Do you have a high sex drive?
Sure...
Do you really think children and large families are important?
Yes. Absolutely. I'm young, but ever since I was little Ive wanted a large number of children. Now more realistically Ive decided when people ask me how many kids I want to say "as many as I can afford"
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
It truly depends on my mood. if Im in a social mood I take control and love up talking. but if Im feeling quiet, Ill be just that. Ill sit back and just listen and take everyone in.
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom?
I hate boredom. I love traveling and being out and about. but at the same time, I want nothing more then to stay home and chill with my family.
All of you are CUSP PRETENDERS! I am the TRUE Cancer/Leo Cusp.
I was born on 11pm July 22, 1975. I am literally 5 hours away from a Leo according to the astrology chart.
So I am officially a Cancer even though I am 5 hrs away from being a Leo...now is that CUSP enough? 🙂
Ok, all bragging aside (my Leo side talking here), I'll answer the questions that were asked:
1. tempered - nope, i'm generally VERY well tempered and mannered. it would take a lot to trigger my anger. usually, if someone doesn't listen to reason or does something really inconsiderate, i'll start boiling...
2. emotions - most of the time, i'm very much in control of my emotions. i handle stress very well. i'll whine and bitch for a few minutes but after that, i'm back to normal and back to business as usual. in relationships, i am pretty good about managing my emotions. but in one case, i did have a difficult time managing my emotions. i was in a relationship with this girl and i found out she was seeing someone behind my back. that really brought the WORST Cancer side of me and my emotions started controlling me instead of the other way around. it really turned my life upside down and took a long time for me to recover. i was in a lot of pain and i just couldn't believe what kind of person i turned into from that experience. i became completely insecure, extremely moody, often depressed, and super-controlling...it brought out a side of me (the absolute worst side) i never knew existed...
3. loving union - i think everyone in the world wants a loving and secure union with someone else. that questions is too general.
4. sex drive - i think about sex a lot like every other guy in the world. i'm not a sex addict or anything but who doesn't like seeing hot women or porn once in a while? seriously...let's be honest here! but yeah, overall, i think i'd only want to sleep with someone i trust and forsee a relationship with. i have pretty high ethical and moral standards and wouldn't want to lie to anyone or cheat to get in bed with a girl...
5. large family? i love my family and would like to have my own family one day. but not until i'm ready.
6. i'm not an attention whore at parties. i'm much better in smaller groups and i'm usually the one busting out jokes and cracking people up. and my jokes are usually funny and not offensive...i never make jokes at the expense of others.
I was born on 11pm July 22, 1975. I am literally 5 hours away from a Leo according to the astrology chart.
So I am officially a Cancer even though I am 5 hrs away from being a Leo...now is that CUSP enough? 🙂
Ok, all bragging aside (my Leo side talking here), I'll answer the questions that were asked:
1. tempered - nope, i'm generally VERY well tempered and mannered. it would take a lot to trigger my anger. usually, if someone doesn't listen to reason or does something really inconsiderate, i'll start boiling...
2. emotions - most of the time, i'm very much in control of my emotions. i handle stress very well. i'll whine and bitch for a few minutes but after that, i'm back to normal and back to business as usual. in relationships, i am pretty good about managing my emotions. but in one case, i did have a difficult time managing my emotions. i was in a relationship with this girl and i found out she was seeing someone behind my back. that really brought the WORST Cancer side of me and my emotions started controlling me instead of the other way around. it really turned my life upside down and took a long time for me to recover. i was in a lot of pain and i just couldn't believe what kind of person i turned into from that experience. i became completely insecure, extremely moody, often depressed, and super-controlling...it brought out a side of me (the absolute worst side) i never knew existed...
3. loving union - i think everyone in the world wants a loving and secure union with someone else. that questions is too general.
4. sex drive - i think about sex a lot like every other guy in the world. i'm not a sex addict or anything but who doesn't like seeing hot women or porn once in a while? seriously...let's be honest here! but yeah, overall, i think i'd only want to sleep with someone i trust and forsee a relationship with. i have pretty high ethical and moral standards and wouldn't want to lie to anyone or cheat to get in bed with a girl...
5. large family? i love my family and would like to have my own family one day. but not until i'm ready.
6. i'm not an attention whore at parties. i'm much better in smaller groups and i'm usually the one busting out jokes and cracking people up. and my jokes are usually funny and not offensive...i never make jokes at the expense of others.
Shisno, there is a lot lacking in your 'argument'. I don't put much stock in astrology, and view it mostly for entertainment purposes. However, I don't consider it entirely rubbish, because for centuries this method has been used to try and figure out life, farming, and for many other important uses. There must be *some* truth to these theories. So, brings me to my point...if you think its rubbish, why post here? You also said you were not a cancer-leo cusp, so again, why post here? Seems you are full of faux self importance and you just met the person/people not afraid to call you out on it. As for me? Well yes, I AM important, lol!! At least to my family. My husband just admitted to me that I am like the center of the universe for my family, and that if anything ever happened to me they would all be lost w/o my support and unconditional love. So, I am able to be both humble and conceited at the same time. I think this to be the conundrum for most people when trying to figure out cancer-leos. We appearingly contradict ourselves repeatedly. I'm a big talker and dominate convo's, yet at the same time I'm a very resreved person. I love to go out. I love to stay home. I'm loud. I'm quiet. I get my feelings hurt alot, but I don't just take shit off people either. See, people can't figure us out, that's just it.
For the record, my rising sign is in Virgo, my sun is in Cancer (funny), and my moon is in Aquarius. Quite the combination! I'm a freak! LOL LOL LOL
For the record, my rising sign is in Virgo, my sun is in Cancer (funny), and my moon is in Aquarius. Quite the combination! I'm a freak! LOL LOL LOL
"There has to be more about my horoscopes that I don't know of. Well now I come to a conclusion that horoscopes don't really mean anything but just give you an idea."
Shishno, there's so much more to astrology than merely sun sign. & just in astrology, there's some many schools of thoughts. Astrology is a system of knowledge that has evolved over millieniums, based on accumulative human experiences & our awareness of our relationship to the universe. To go in-depth into horoscopes and astrology, there's planetary aspects that influence our very basic characters (where the major 9 planets, smaller asteroids located at which zodiac sign, which house, at our time of birth) , the planetary transits that influence our behaviour/thoughts day to day, the study of synastry or composite charts, which goes into the interaction dynamics of people born under different signs, and blah blah blah...
It also takes alot of self awareness, & constant introspection/reflection to understand this subject. If you are interested to find out more, this swedish-based site: http://www.astro.com provides pretty interesting information on astrology. They sorta combined astrology with Jungian psychological theory on personality & came out with quite insightful information. Nevertheless, whether it is true or not, it is all base on personal experiences. Eventually, things changes, people changes, so is knowledge. If you find it accurate, you'll inevitably get absorbed into it. If you don't, take it lightly, with pinch of salt, for entertainment or just for laughs.
Shishno, there's so much more to astrology than merely sun sign. & just in astrology, there's some many schools of thoughts. Astrology is a system of knowledge that has evolved over millieniums, based on accumulative human experiences & our awareness of our relationship to the universe. To go in-depth into horoscopes and astrology, there's planetary aspects that influence our very basic characters (where the major 9 planets, smaller asteroids located at which zodiac sign, which house, at our time of birth) , the planetary transits that influence our behaviour/thoughts day to day, the study of synastry or composite charts, which goes into the interaction dynamics of people born under different signs, and blah blah blah...
It also takes alot of self awareness, & constant introspection/reflection to understand this subject. If you are interested to find out more, this swedish-based site: http://www.astro.com provides pretty interesting information on astrology. They sorta combined astrology with Jungian psychological theory on personality & came out with quite insightful information. Nevertheless, whether it is true or not, it is all base on personal experiences. Eventually, things changes, people changes, so is knowledge. If you find it accurate, you'll inevitably get absorbed into it. If you don't, take it lightly, with pinch of salt, for entertainment or just for laughs.
My birthday is July 22. I look up both my Cancer and Leo horoscope frequently. I find that my horoscopes aren't really compatable and I have trouble getting a good idea of my day or year. But anyway, here are your answers! 🙂
1.Do you feel you are even tempered?
-I have a horrible temper. I go from really happy and peppy in the morning when I wake up, and if even a minor flaw occurs my mood shifts violently. I get really irritated and moody. I am easily distracted so that if you occupy my attention I can ignore whatever is bothering me. So I'm short-tempered but it's violent.
2.Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occasionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
-Like I was saying, my mood shifts rapidly and constantly. I do get quick bursts of anger and I'm very sensitive. I can usually control it but I have to get away or my anger builds and the reaction I have to people is never good. I'm always apologizing for my quick temper and angry outbursts.
3.Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
-Yes. I need my partner to love me back and show that he does. If not I tend to get insecure and have trouble reacting normally towards him until we talk about the issue. I need stability, trust, and honesty. I don't want to control him, because everyone needs their space.
4.Do you have a high sex drive?
-I am a very sexual person, or rather a very horny person. I love to kiss and touch. Near constant touch should be involved. I feel the need to give pleasure to my lover and I love to know that I do.
5.Do you really think children and large families are important?
-I really don't want but 2 children at most. Preferably a older boy and younger girl. Children will come after I have fully matured with my spouse. I want to travel while I'm young and enjoy my career, so children will come in my late 20's or early 30's. No matter my age I want my children to have a stable home and home life. This may be my opinion though.
6.When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
-It all depends on my mood at the moment, and the setting. I am happy with either and don't mind allowing someone else to own the spotlight. But I won't lie, I love attention on me.
8.Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom?
-I crave, no, I have standards for my life. I want to be a Marine Archaeologist. I want to study an
1.Do you feel you are even tempered?
-I have a horrible temper. I go from really happy and peppy in the morning when I wake up, and if even a minor flaw occurs my mood shifts violently. I get really irritated and moody. I am easily distracted so that if you occupy my attention I can ignore whatever is bothering me. So I'm short-tempered but it's violent.
2.Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occasionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
-Like I was saying, my mood shifts rapidly and constantly. I do get quick bursts of anger and I'm very sensitive. I can usually control it but I have to get away or my anger builds and the reaction I have to people is never good. I'm always apologizing for my quick temper and angry outbursts.
3.Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
-Yes. I need my partner to love me back and show that he does. If not I tend to get insecure and have trouble reacting normally towards him until we talk about the issue. I need stability, trust, and honesty. I don't want to control him, because everyone needs their space.
4.Do you have a high sex drive?
-I am a very sexual person, or rather a very horny person. I love to kiss and touch. Near constant touch should be involved. I feel the need to give pleasure to my lover and I love to know that I do.
5.Do you really think children and large families are important?
-I really don't want but 2 children at most. Preferably a older boy and younger girl. Children will come after I have fully matured with my spouse. I want to travel while I'm young and enjoy my career, so children will come in my late 20's or early 30's. No matter my age I want my children to have a stable home and home life. This may be my opinion though.
6.When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
-It all depends on my mood at the moment, and the setting. I am happy with either and don't mind allowing someone else to own the spotlight. But I won't lie, I love attention on me.
8.Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom?
-I crave, no, I have standards for my life. I want to be a Marine Archaeologist. I want to study an
HI! Born July 21st, 1992.
Do you feel you are even tempered?
-Most of the time, but sometimes I can experience 10 different moods in 1 day.
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
-I keep most of my feelings surpressed (fear of getting hurt) but yes I can def. get very angry when needed
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
-Ugh not right now. I'm in a secure freaking union with a boring pieces III and I want outtt. I want freedom and fun and sex. But then again I always want what I don't have
Do you have a high sex drive?
-Yes with the right person. If I don't feel connected, attracted or safe with them I can't have sex at all. But when I like it... I like it rough. And alot. Hahaha
Do you really think children and large families are important?
-I've never been baby-crazed as I've seen some of my friends be. But a big family is a must! I always thought it was because mine was small..come to think of it, I want a 7th heaven family!
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
-Both. Depends on what people I'm talking to. If they're really dominant I keep quiet, if they're shy I step up and become dominant.
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom?
-YES! I fear being boring. Seriously. I want to do everything and feel happy about my life as I grow old. I have a constant fear of missing out.
Do you feel you are even tempered?
-Most of the time, but sometimes I can experience 10 different moods in 1 day.
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
-I keep most of my feelings surpressed (fear of getting hurt) but yes I can def. get very angry when needed
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
-Ugh not right now. I'm in a secure freaking union with a boring pieces III and I want outtt. I want freedom and fun and sex. But then again I always want what I don't have
Do you have a high sex drive?
-Yes with the right person. If I don't feel connected, attracted or safe with them I can't have sex at all. But when I like it... I like it rough. And alot. Hahaha
Do you really think children and large families are important?
-I've never been baby-crazed as I've seen some of my friends be. But a big family is a must! I always thought it was because mine was small..come to think of it, I want a 7th heaven family!
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
-Both. Depends on what people I'm talking to. If they're really dominant I keep quiet, if they're shy I step up and become dominant.
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom?
-YES! I fear being boring. Seriously. I want to do everything and feel happy about my life as I grow old. I have a constant fear of missing out.
Do you feel you are even tempered? Yes
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from? Absolutely, I can be quite vicious at the drop of a hat
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union? of course, who doesn't?
Do you have a high sex drive? no
Do you really think children and large families are important? children? no, family? maybe. I find that families are more drama than anything, unfortunately I was blessed with a family of people who are more concerned with themselves than anything else.
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening? I listen and if I have some input I'll chime in
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom? very much so, I go stir crazy if I don't have something to do. Especially on days like today when there's not a damn thing on tv
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from? Absolutely, I can be quite vicious at the drop of a hat
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union? of course, who doesn't?
Do you have a high sex drive? no
Do you really think children and large families are important? children? no, family? maybe. I find that families are more drama than anything, unfortunately I was blessed with a family of people who are more concerned with themselves than anything else.
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening? I listen and if I have some input I'll chime in
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom? very much so, I go stir crazy if I don't have something to do. Especially on days like today when there's not a damn thing on tv
Do you feel you are even tempered?
-On occasions, before I was not very tempered very easy, optimistic. Its more in terms when something drastic happens that I have seen another side of me appear that a fire in me starts to awaken, and I usually try to hold it but it burns in me, resulting in to bite back sometimes.
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
-At times yes, but from reading its because Cusp zodiacs especially, hold a water sign and a fire side. Its only when the balance is slightly tilted that your emotion starts to shift.
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
- Most definitely, in reflection of myself, in my family my father has always been more loving and has come on passive resulting in a closer bond with him, though with my mother she comes off strong and whenever she speaks she starts to yell and when she tries to show love, she does it in the worst way and I just wish she could be passionate and give the motherly love.
Plus, with friends they will tell anyone, I hold a motherly sense. In the way I act and treat others.
Do you have a high sex drive?
-Do I? lol!Most definitely. I am young, but even when I was younger I felt it. I would have to say I was a dirty minded child, which I was embarrassed to share with others but once actually experimented in a relationship I was in, we were crazy doing it absolutely everywhere. So yes Sex drive is a definite. Though when single you can have an urge but its very easy to hold it, you tend not to think of it. At least in my case.
Do you really think children and large families are important?
-Like mentioned people talk of me as a Mother like figure, for large families I am not so sure, but I do know that I love children. I am only 16 turning 17 this July and yet I love children and want 4 of my own, but according to a consultation, I will be having 3, and I am ecstatic for the day to come. So for children yes, because the love we carry is so strong.
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
-listening?I use to before, like I use to be called Dr.Phil for helping others, though now I guess because the change in my life style (because of issues of the time) I have found myself to be the one talking more sadly to say(in honestly I dont like it)
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredo
-On occasions, before I was not very tempered very easy, optimistic. Its more in terms when something drastic happens that I have seen another side of me appear that a fire in me starts to awaken, and I usually try to hold it but it burns in me, resulting in to bite back sometimes.
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
-At times yes, but from reading its because Cusp zodiacs especially, hold a water sign and a fire side. Its only when the balance is slightly tilted that your emotion starts to shift.
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
- Most definitely, in reflection of myself, in my family my father has always been more loving and has come on passive resulting in a closer bond with him, though with my mother she comes off strong and whenever she speaks she starts to yell and when she tries to show love, she does it in the worst way and I just wish she could be passionate and give the motherly love.
Plus, with friends they will tell anyone, I hold a motherly sense. In the way I act and treat others.
Do you have a high sex drive?
-Do I? lol!Most definitely. I am young, but even when I was younger I felt it. I would have to say I was a dirty minded child, which I was embarrassed to share with others but once actually experimented in a relationship I was in, we were crazy doing it absolutely everywhere. So yes Sex drive is a definite. Though when single you can have an urge but its very easy to hold it, you tend not to think of it. At least in my case.
Do you really think children and large families are important?
-Like mentioned people talk of me as a Mother like figure, for large families I am not so sure, but I do know that I love children. I am only 16 turning 17 this July and yet I love children and want 4 of my own, but according to a consultation, I will be having 3, and I am ecstatic for the day to come. So for children yes, because the love we carry is so strong.
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
-listening?I use to before, like I use to be called Dr.Phil for helping others, though now I guess because the change in my life style (because of issues of the time) I have found myself to be the one talking more sadly to say(in honestly I dont like it)
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredo
BTW, JULY 22 BABY 😄
HELLO ALL,
I WAS BORN 7/20/88 I AM 23, FEMALE.
I AM CURRENTLY AT THE POINT WHERE I AM GROWING AND LEARNING ABOUT MYSELF AND EMOTIONS. I AM TRULY STRUGGLING IN LIFE THE PAST 3 YEARS AND I FEEL I WILL CONTINUE UNTIL MY 30'S WHERE I WILL BE MORE CENTERED AND HAVE A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF HOW TO CONTROL THE CANCER SIDE OF ME. anywho to answer the questions:
Do you feel you are even tempered?
- NO, I am very moody and my emotion can change in a heart beat! I am now learning i must control this!
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
-Sometimes I am in control, but occasionally lately this past year I have outburst at any moment I can not control my feelings. If I am hurt you know, you can see it in my face even i say NOTHING & express nothing.
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
- YeS I long for it but i know it will come in time.
Do you have a high sex drive?
- extraordinary HIGH drive BUT i must be attracted, feel like i can trust you that person.
Do you really think children and large families are important?
- yes I do.
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
- I have to say YES & YES!
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom?
- Yes I desire a very fulfilling life and i refuse not to obtain just that. I despise boredom, I must find a way not to be bored if ever in that situation..
If anyone has any good sites for astrology or books please message me!
I WAS BORN 7/20/88 I AM 23, FEMALE.
I AM CURRENTLY AT THE POINT WHERE I AM GROWING AND LEARNING ABOUT MYSELF AND EMOTIONS. I AM TRULY STRUGGLING IN LIFE THE PAST 3 YEARS AND I FEEL I WILL CONTINUE UNTIL MY 30'S WHERE I WILL BE MORE CENTERED AND HAVE A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF HOW TO CONTROL THE CANCER SIDE OF ME. anywho to answer the questions:
Do you feel you are even tempered?
- NO, I am very moody and my emotion can change in a heart beat! I am now learning i must control this!
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
-Sometimes I am in control, but occasionally lately this past year I have outburst at any moment I can not control my feelings. If I am hurt you know, you can see it in my face even i say NOTHING & express nothing.
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
- YeS I long for it but i know it will come in time.
Do you have a high sex drive?
- extraordinary HIGH drive BUT i must be attracted, feel like i can trust you that person.
Do you really think children and large families are important?
- yes I do.
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
- I have to say YES & YES!
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom?
- Yes I desire a very fulfilling life and i refuse not to obtain just that. I despise boredom, I must find a way not to be bored if ever in that situation..
If anyone has any good sites for astrology or books please message me!
Hi born 8am July 23 1994 I always felt like I am mix of both signs
Im very patience unless some1 is rushin me.Sometimes Im not in control of my emotions when Im angry instead of gettin in a fight I start to cry even when I dnt feel like cryin.I do want some1 to love me with an intense feelin of deep affection (no lust).Even though I have a deep need to protect my family I also need a husband to feel the same way to me.Q4 Yes... bt another contradiction,because my religion to have sex before marriage is bad.Yes I always wanted to have children n adopt,just like jennamp's "I want a child" impulse.I like to listen n observe people which during 6th n 7th grade became a problem cause all the girls called me a lesbian which at the time made me really angry n it was 100% untrue cause I really like men.I do desire a fulfillin life, to see the world, I like adventure n I also want to build a multimillion $ company with a big family. Even though I have lots of patience I do hate bein bored so my husband has to be funny. Ex. I have a logical brain, everything has to be right or wrong no in between, dislike ppl who get angry over stupid stuff, dnt like when ppl touch me or my stuff mainly food, ask first, dislike ppl who hold grudges unless there is a really good reason, sometimes I like ppl to come tlk to me n start conversation instead of me doin it. I am shy around ppl even if I do know them it takes a year or so of nonstop seein and talkin to the person just for them to get to know a part of me, when ppl look at my past they ask how am I shy and I wander about that too. Im better talking in groups cause for some reason I dnt think they are lookin at me which is untrue, I like bein spoiled n sometimes I have moments where Im like wow the world doesnt revolve around me even though I already knew that, Im a really good cook new ideas pop up everyday, I dont smoke or drink, even though Im deep about protection I dnt like to fight n I never show my anger I keep it inside Sometimes I say things I shouldnt say, I only finish things if I think they are important I am full of hospitality. Mild OCD when I begin to clean somethin I dnt stop until everythin there is cleaned I like attention sometimes bt when I do try to get attention Im left disappointed cause ppl are not use to me tlkin alot so they space out which makes me angry inside because they are always like you need to tlk more but when I do no one listens which I think is rude. I also easily adapt to changes.
Im very patience unless some1 is rushin me.Sometimes Im not in control of my emotions when Im angry instead of gettin in a fight I start to cry even when I dnt feel like cryin.I do want some1 to love me with an intense feelin of deep affection (no lust).Even though I have a deep need to protect my family I also need a husband to feel the same way to me.Q4 Yes... bt another contradiction,because my religion to have sex before marriage is bad.Yes I always wanted to have children n adopt,just like jennamp's "I want a child" impulse.I like to listen n observe people which during 6th n 7th grade became a problem cause all the girls called me a lesbian which at the time made me really angry n it was 100% untrue cause I really like men.I do desire a fulfillin life, to see the world, I like adventure n I also want to build a multimillion $ company with a big family. Even though I have lots of patience I do hate bein bored so my husband has to be funny. Ex. I have a logical brain, everything has to be right or wrong no in between, dislike ppl who get angry over stupid stuff, dnt like when ppl touch me or my stuff mainly food, ask first, dislike ppl who hold grudges unless there is a really good reason, sometimes I like ppl to come tlk to me n start conversation instead of me doin it. I am shy around ppl even if I do know them it takes a year or so of nonstop seein and talkin to the person just for them to get to know a part of me, when ppl look at my past they ask how am I shy and I wander about that too. Im better talking in groups cause for some reason I dnt think they are lookin at me which is untrue, I like bein spoiled n sometimes I have moments where Im like wow the world doesnt revolve around me even though I already knew that, Im a really good cook new ideas pop up everyday, I dont smoke or drink, even though Im deep about protection I dnt like to fight n I never show my anger I keep it inside Sometimes I say things I shouldnt say, I only finish things if I think they are important I am full of hospitality. Mild OCD when I begin to clean somethin I dnt stop until everythin there is cleaned I like attention sometimes bt when I do try to get attention Im left disappointed cause ppl are not use to me tlkin alot so they space out which makes me angry inside because they are always like you need to tlk more but when I do no one listens which I think is rude. I also easily adapt to changes.
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anyone on the cusp of leo and cancer that can tell me more
Do you feel you are even tempered?
Do you feel in control most of the time of your emotions, but occassionally have a quick burst of anger and you dont know where it came from?
Do you desire a passionate and loving, secure union?
Do you have a high sex drive?
Do you really think children and large families are important?
When you go to parties or group discusssions do you find a way to dominate the conversation or feel happy listening?
Do you desire a fulfilling life and hate boredom?
Those are just a few questions. Thanks for reading..