Cancer Love and Relationships.

Cancer Love and Relationships

Like Taurus, Cancer likes committed relationships. Can_cerians function best when the relationship is clearly defined and everyone knows his or her role. When they marry it is usually for life. They are extremely loyal to their beloved. But there is a deep little secret that most Cancerians will never admit to: commitment or partnership is really a chore and a duty to them. They enter into it because they know of no other way to create the family that they desire. Union is just a way - a means to an end - rather than an end in itself. The family is the ultimate end for them.

If you are in love with a Cancerian you must tread lightly on his or her feelings. It will take you a good deal of time to realize how deep and sensitive Cancerians can be. The smallest negativity upsets them. Your tone of voice, your irritation, a look in your eye or an expression on your face can cause great distress for the Cancerian. Your slightest gesture is registered by them and reacted to. This can be hard to get used to, but stick by your love - Cancerians make great partners once you learn how to deal with them. Your Cancerian lover will react not so much to what you say but to the way you are actually feeling at the moment.

Me in a nut shell? =P

Any other cancers like this?

Yes perfect😉 Just like me and my Cancer man

Yes perfect😉 Just like me and my Cancer man

amazing shishno, my boyfriend is like that and it took me a while to realise how sensitive he can be, i find that very sweet, and i can read it on his face but i'd always reassure him that it is all good...but to be honest due to my moon in cancer i find myself reacting in the same way...

This is me totally 🙂

oh firecracker, your words are so nice, it is very nice when you read things like that on dxp....or anywhere else for that matter!!!

Why are cancers like this? Were SOO sensitive over little stupid things! But we play it off until we get home.... I guess that's what causes our mood swings bc we keep our emotions to ourselves?

Tho you just have to agree that we some times are way over emotional with little things. For example we get jealous easily. Like if this guy has a schedule with this girl you like and you know he's also a cancer just like you and the girl you like is a compatible sign (Taurus) to cancer. SO You know they well get along well. What If they fall for each other and your left in the curb? I always worried about this kind of things. Even tho he is 2 years younger then her it's still a possibility. I'm thinking right now in calling him to switch sifts with me. lol

Funny thing... He called me and said to take his shift bc he is throwing a B Day party for his brother. Could this be fate? Now I don't know if I wanna work with her and end up coming on to her to strong...

I would say I'm like that and the little emotional outburts have got to go.
I am with an aqua who is somewhat emotional, and I know that random emotional cacas arent what I want.
Haha and he has told me in a handfulx2, and that he has great patience.
I dont NOT like the emotional.
My aqua moon and sag rising tell me emotions are weak.
😛

LOL @ feelings are weaknesses and people need to go to psych wards.

I wonder why some people thinks that having emotions are weakness...
If feeling are weakness..we would never had any of the poetry...or any wisdom words...
And if having emotion is weak..why would people need to go to shrink and get help in order for them to find solutions?

It's either you use them to use as strength or you use them as tools to destroy yourself..