I cannot believe I am even posting this! I have been around Cancers all of my life (mostly women) and can't deal!
Firstly, I realize that this is far from an ideal match but I'm all about that. Let me explain my situation.
I met this Cancer guy and I was immediately attracted to him. We hookup up often--more than I ever have with anyone. This situation has been going on for months and I like to think of myself as fairly a mature Aries as I control many of my immature Aries inherent traits such as being extremely impatient. This is all great but there is just one issue. I am starting to fall for him.
He has no idea, I mean how could he? I am as cold as ice and very distant emotionally ( I learned to be this way as to not push people away). I feel like he is also fairly distant as we haven't broken past much of that barrier of being just FWB.
I think I am starting to like this guy, I just don't know whether I want to just stop dealing with him completely or just find a way to tell him how i'm starting to feel.
Sometimes I feel like he is being standoffish, but is it possible that he is just getting the same vibes from me? Is it even possible to turn this situation into something more than long very good bone sessions? I have a lot going for me, as does he. Physically we are compatible also.
Oh and one other thing, I am really afraid of rejection, and I read somewhere that Cancers are also this way but for different reasons. I'm a strong person but my ego is fragile.
Your answer is yes, that's a hell yes. From what I've learned, they will mirror you and even if they can sense you like them but you don't pursue, they won't budge. They guard themselves like no other but when you're in their inner circle, they will shower you with so much love and affection that you would feel like a King. Go for it.
I'm going to need to figure out how to approach this. Rams have a habit of coming on way too strong. Any advice? How could I ease it on him? I heard that they like the chase should I ignore him? I know very little about Cancer men.
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Firstly, I realize that this is far from an ideal match but I'm all about that. Let me explain my situation.
I met this Cancer guy and I was immediately attracted to him. We hookup up often--more than I ever have with anyone. This situation has been going on for months and I like to think of myself as fairly a mature Aries as I control many of my immature Aries inherent traits such as being extremely impatient. This is all great but there is just one issue. I am starting to fall for him.
He has no idea, I mean how could he? I am as cold as ice and very distant emotionally ( I learned to be this way as to not push people away). I feel like he is also fairly distant as we haven't broken past much of that barrier of being just FWB.
I think I am starting to like this guy, I just don't know whether I want to just stop dealing with him completely or just find a way to tell him how i'm starting to feel.
Sometimes I feel like he is being standoffish, but is it possible that he is just getting the same vibes from me? Is it even possible to turn this situation into something more than long very good bone sessions? I have a lot going for me, as does he. Physically we are compatible also.