Cancer man and Gemini girl......So what do I do now?

Well here is my story.....
So I was living in Berlin and I managed an apartment building for adult students coming in to the country to take a month long enrichment course to get a job in the country. I was all set to leave Europe after having been there for over a year at that point and go to live in Asia. Three weeks before I left the new class came in and one of the students was my Cancer man. Beautiful man inside and out. We became fast friends and spent nights up talking and days taking walks though the city, when he was not in class. We were literally together everyday from the day he moved in until the day I left.
Now of course I thought once I boarded the plane this little relationship was over and done. We did not have sex or express any feelings for each other during that time. We were just....together. Well off I went to Asia, and you know what....Nothing changed except for the distance. We talked and skyped everyday after I left and I do mean everyday. I was living in a hostel for a few months once I got to Asia and there was a point when the other flat mates where calling him the 7th person in our 6 persons room. Six months after I left Europe he did too and returned back to America.
Now that was a little over a year ago.....And nothing has changed we still talk twice a day because we are and even 12 hours away so we talk in his morning and my night and my morning and his night Everyday. Let me just say that our currently running facebook message thread was at 55,000 messages as of today. We have shared everything with each other, our joys and sadness, every event that has happened in our lives over the past year has been shared from the tiniest of things like helping each other pick out dinner or the new watch or phone he just bought or just him leveling up on a video game to big things like our dreams and hopes. We have helped each other find jobs and given each other advice. We default to each other just naturally.
Now I am heading home and he is meeting me there and then we will be doing a bit of traveling around the US before we head home. I am to go to his home and stay with him and meet his family, up on his invitation. We have plans for the future and idea of what we want to do together. So what is the Problem you ask.....I told him that I had feeling for him and that maybe we should consider giving it a try when we reconnect. He said he does not see me that way and that I am his best "friend" and he will do anything to keep me in his life and he does not know what to do without me but he does not feel romantically inclined towards me. We will reconnect in two months........ So what do I do now?

Me
Sun-Gemini
Moon-Capricorn
Mercury-Gemini
Venus-Cancer
Mars-Aries
Jupiter-Aries
Saturn-Cancer
Uranus-Libra
Neptune-Sagittarius
Pluto-Libra

Him
Sun - Cancer
Moon - Aries
Mercury- Cancer
Venus-Leo
Mars-Virgo
Jupiter - Cancer
Saturn- Leo
Uranus-Scorpio
Neptune-Sagittarius
Pluto-Libr

You guys are perfect. He's scared because you're so close & he doesn't want to affect what you have. Keep being kind & act the way you do because he's already in love with who you are.

Girl I'm a Gemini too and I have a a cancer dude problem haha they do like us huh

I'm a gem too and I have a cancer in my life. We are not together. We live on different countries but whenever he is here he reaches out and I'm going to his country in few months and he immediately made plans.

The thing is that even tho he likes me, he has been open clear about his intentions, and about not wanting anything serious, and so far he has been true to his words.

My experience with cancer has been same. They act accordingly to what they say.

Thank much 🙂 I did talk to another cancer friend that I have a she said that the problem might be the distance. As a gemini I can fall for a guy even if we don't see each other often if he can keep my mind stimulated then my body will anticipate his eventual arrival. Most people are not like that they need the physical contact for their emotions to properly stir, maybe not sex specifically but contact of some kinda for sure. We will see how it goes in two months. Thanks again 🙂