gem sun, Pisces moon, cancer mars, Gemini venus

Posted by theDomino
Oh for fuck sakes, let him start chasing you. Stop wasting your time and let him start chasing you.

Communication is key to every relationship. You bring these key things up to him and encourage a healthy conversation between the two. Let him know how you feel, specially, about each individual case. Then give him time to ponder on it. Then, notice if anything changes in good time. See if he appreciates it. If not, don't bother.

The love lust is going to drive you nuts. I told you this before...

Love lust? I just want my friend back. Fuck feelings.

I think you need to reevaluate your situation...

First, you're upset at the fact that he's not very upfront with his feelings and wish he would open up. (Irony)
Then, you say, "Fuck feelings".....

Sounds to me like neither one of you know what you want. Hard to expect it out of someone when you don't know what you want...

How about doing it like this. No expectations! Play it by ear.

Clearly you guys misunderstood me. When I say fuck feelings I mean if he doesn't want to be with me and he keeps pushing me away that's fine, I value our friendship way too much to push him into a place that makes him feel uncomfortable like communication which he clearly doesn't know how to do. I've already spilled my emotional beans to him. One way streets are not for me. I do know what i want but if he doesn't then I'm not gonna push him for my own benefit, he is his own person also and deserves respect on his behalf, such as my reason for putting my feelings aside yo have a friendship.

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Posted by downstairsmixup
Clearly you guys misunderstood me. When I say fuck feelings I mean if he doesn't want to be with me and he keeps pushing me away that's fine, I value our friendship way too much to push him into a place that makes him feel uncomfortable like communication which he clearly doesn't know how to do. I've already spilled my emotional beans to him. One way streets are not for me. I do know what i want but if he doesn't then I'm not gonna push him for my own benefit, he is his own person also and deserves respect on his behalf, such as my reason for putting my feelings aside yo have a friendship.

I pretty certain there is no misunderstanding. It's a fault on your behalf here, being that you're having an internal struggle with your own feelings. Don't categorize myself with misslissa as I made no reference to your "fuck feelings" emotional outburst over the situation (and that's not meant to be insulting, it's just normal behavior for all struggling with these sort of things).

But non the less, we're both on the same idea, and as misslissa said, it's pretty ironic. You are complaining about a one way street but you jump back in bed with him. So no, stop denying it to yourself. Take what was suggested and run with it. If you don't try something, as said, you are just going to be driven crazy.

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You are very niave in the sense that you have chosen to assume how I have spoken. Over text I could say something in a calm tone but you could choose to read it as loud, etc. I never said that I hopped back in bed with him, all of this is you making assumptions, and because of your naive communication I can not take advice from you.

Then, maybe, you shouldn't have asked for advice.... if you already have all your answers.

Nonetheless, best of luck to you. 🙂

Right.... While I don't hold the credentials you do, but I've ALWAYS have been fascinated with human behavior. 🙂

I.e. Why do some feel it's ok to practice "bad behavior" on another? I think I'll never have that questioned answered, but still determined. I think that's what led me to astrology, decades ago... Where I learned "bad behavior" is somewhat in the eye of the beholder. Some "bad behaviors" are just that.... bad.

Posted by littlemegabyte
downstairsmixup, did you make a post about this same gem a week or so ago and updated it that you were moving on because it turned out he was seeing/talking to someone else?

No

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Posted by misslissa
Then, maybe, you shouldn't have asked for advice.... if you already have all your answers.

Nonetheless, best of luck to you. 🙂

Pretty much this. She pretty much knows all of her answers, and I'm just this "naive" dumb fuck. So, best of luck to her as she crumbles. Like hey, I'm a married Gem, has academic backgrounds in Engineering, Psychology, Sociology, and Organisational Behavior... I'm just fucking clueless here.

LOL

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More assumptions being made. Good job

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I cant see the message, but this is DARN close to what I am. Gem Sun, Pis Moon, Can Asc and Taurus Venus. Not sure what the original question is, but if you repost it, I will give my opinion.

Posted by sexyelements

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I cant see the message, but this is DARN close to what I am. Gem Sun, Pis Moon, Can Asc and Taurus Venus. Not sure what the original question is, but if you repost it, I will give my opinion.

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I have Cancer Mars too... but Im female