Cancer man, Aries woman

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14 Years

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Hi!

Basically I have been hooking up with a Cancer guy for 3 weeks. He is South American and so I'm translating what he says from Spanish and it might sound a little robotic in English. Anyway, at times I was sure he legitimately liked me. He never said much besides "I like you" when drunk and "I appreciate you" online. He slept over a lot but we never had a formal date. I was fine with that because I wasn't looking for a relationship. Anyway, the other night I very indirectly said something along the lines of "I wonder if what we have is more about sex for you and more of an emotional thing for me" and he said "yes, for now" and I gave him a weird look, said I had to go and left the party we were at. The next day we had a little argument on chat and he said that if I was disappointed with his response maybe we should stop seeing each other. I said fine and then he backtracked and made it seem like I was the one asking for that, which I wasn't. The end of the conversation was him saying okay there's no problem and everything was fine. I ignored him for a few days and he sent me a text at 6 in the morning a few days later saying "you must be very well since you haven't written me a single message" and I wrote back to him the next day in the afternoon. He didn't respond. Then he texted me a few times the next night 1) What are you doing and the second) you're not answering me? It seemed so childish. Then the next day I wrote to him and he didn't respond so I called him because I was tired of this. I told him I was annoyed about it and said "do you or DON'T you want to talk to me? If you don't, then stop calling and writing me" and he said fine and I said "okay, that's all, bye" and hung up on him. He called back and was like, "seriously, you were mad about the texts?" and I said YES of course anyone would be and he said fine I won't call or text you anymore and hung up.

I figured that was the end of it. And I should move on. Then I saw him that same night as he bartends where I go every week and he gave me a very strange look. It was a good look, though I can't explain why. I'm starting to miss him and think maybe I shouldn't have reacted so strongly, but it's a huge insult to me to just not respond to a text, especially when they are questions.

Is it over? Is there any way for us to actually communicate?

Should I just ignore him completely or apologize? I want to see him again, not as a boyfriend, but I just want him aroun