CANCER MAN DON'TS

Help females out, what are some top 5 or top 3 donts for a Cancer male!
I noticed TRUST IS HUGE HUGE HUGE FOR CANCER MALES.
When dating a cancer male, what should you avoid. Is there something people do without realizing that hurts Cancer males?
I once asked my cancer guy about when he will commit and he said soon before kissing me. Than I asked him again without realizing the caliber of the situation and he got hurt. He actually said I dont trust him!!
How do you equate that to not trusting?
thats like when your mom asks you to clean the room 3 times. You dont come to the generalization that she hates you!
So he was hurt by that.
I know Cancers are sensitive but to blow things out of proportion though?
which leads me to ask: What are dating NO NOS
obviously we shouldnt approach relationships as "guides" that if you "mess up" its an end all. But what tips should you follow to make cancer males happy and not upset or hurt them.
thaaaaaaaaaaaanks

Posted by Arielle83
You don't trust him because you don't believe his word.

Quit asking the same question and expecting a different answer.

THATS THE THING MY FRIEND! i do TRUST HIM WITH MY LIFE. But I think he took the words the wrong way and he ran with it.
I am at a loss, because I am trying to win him back and prevent this from happening.
They say scorpio and cancers are teh perfect match since both are waters, I do believe that but I am sooo at a loss.
He one day didnt speak to me for 3 days because he thought I was upset at him.
But this situation really hurt him and I dont know how to win a cancer male back.
I tried emailing and spilling my heart and apologizing. It feels to no avail People say give it time.

I havent asked the same question,so I dont understand the hostility. I am new to this forum and I saw a lot of fighting and arguing.
I am trying to avoid that.
You should take all questions at face value and not judge everyone. Because, trust me! mannnny people are going thru the same thing with cancer males. I looked up my concern on Yahoo answers and found 100000000000000000000 of the same concern.

Well I think it's safe to put "Don't give him any reason to believe you don't trust him" at the top.
Don't give him any reason not to trust you either. Always be honest and sincere.
Don't tell him what to do or give him ultimatums. He hates bossy bitches.
Don't withhold sex. That's just mean.
Don't smother him. Give him plenty of attention and affection, but leave him be when he's in a bad mood or just wants to be alone. When he's ready, he'll open up to you again.

They love down to earth women, ones who like to cook, are curvy, can listen to them, no diva like, not too clingy