Cancer guy problems please HELP!!!

Hi everyone so I've been dating this guy a couple of months, he's a Cancer and I'm an Aquarius. It's been a whirlwind romance and God we fell in love ridiculously fast. Everything was so effortless and we were inseparable. We never fell out over anything. He told me he loved me first and that I was the one, I can honestly say I feel the same. We became official and I met his family, he showered me with gifts for Christmas and things just couldn't get any better.

Just last week he told his ex a Virgo that he was with me, they still have a car together which he drives but needs to finish paying off before she will give him to documents. Unfortunately she is now threatening him with stuff and things that could potentially land him in a lot of trouble. He went to see her last week and since I've been bombarded with threatening texts off her saying he's with me he doesn't want you rah rah. He called me in a flap saying his head was in bits and that she's threatening him with bad things. He told me from the start that he never really loved her she was just a rebound from his ex, that their relationship was volatile and messy. He says she won't leave him alone.

On Sunday he called me and said his head was a mess and he couldn't see me, that he couldn't continue being with me and that he was so so sorry, that things couldn't get any worse. And that he can't see a way out.

I'm devastated, I poured my heart out to him and said if he really loved me he would find a way.

I've not heard anything since.

Will he come back? And what's the best thing I can do? Please help x

He has unresolved issues, getting into relationships with people who baggage like that is going to be trouble regardless of astro signs etc. Unless he fixes his issues and comes back, don't bother.

Run from that guy he has issues a nutso ex and by the sounds of it a troubled past run Forrest run.

Best thing you can do is do nothing. Let him come back, don't push.

I agree with everyone else. People with baggage will only want your help to carry it.

Stay far away

Thank you everyone for you replies, what I meant is they used to live they get a while before we met. Unfortunately they still have a car on finance together and she is being awkward with the documents and won't sign them over. Simple answer to that would be of course if he wanted me to give up the car but there are other more serious issues involved. Yes I'm going to just leave it of course. But just wondered if he would be back from a Cancer perspective. 😉

Probably... How long it would take to straighten his mess out who knows•

Posted by BlackNova

Posted by queencancer

Posted by BlackNova

Posted by queencancer
It's Christmas! Don't worry, be happy! Hakuna matata my friend. All is well, just affirm it and so it is.

Happy Holidays!

L-O-L

*jumps on unicorn and rides off to fairy land*

Lol. If you want my attention, all you have to do is say so. Come with something a little harder and I may just entertain you.

Ohhh fo sure....I need your attention, like a flower needs the sun and rain.

ps
Diva1 is a rebound chic/loose change
The dude in question has more baggage than LAX (Los Angeles International Airport)

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I agree with BlackNova...looking back on the original comment the guy said he loved you and you were "the one" within a couple months? Doesn't seem right and the whole he can't handle a relationship with you right now because of his ex seems like a cop out. If a man wants to be with a woman he will move heaven and earth anything else are just excuses. He will contact u again but I suggest moving on and leaving him a bitter sweet memory.

Why is it that people see the red flags; yet, choose to ignore them? You don't need this forum to answer this question. The guy has already answered. Run, run, and don't look back!

You deserve better.

Doesn't sound like a good situation to me and he's being rude to you. I am cancer and am letting go of past baggage right now due to hurting someone emotionally. I thought it was gone but I guess not. Let him sort out his issues, if he comes back, don't give him any room for excuses as that's what I would like to hear from the lady I hurt if I ever get myself together.

Thank you to everyone who has answered me I am very grateful. I guess I do know the answers myself it's just sometimes you are so desperate you need help from others ‰