Cancer man feels smothered??

Not sure if he was joking or not. But the Cancer man I am seeing, said that I am smothering him, but with a lol at the end. I found that odd, since I skipped a day of contacting him, then just sent a hello text. So my questions are

- Does he really feel smothered?
- What is the best way to make the Cancer man feel that you are there for him, but not in an overbearing? (I'm an Aquarius)
- Should I chalk it up as a joke and carry on as usual?

Thx

In my experience, I would take it at face value
And give the man a few days of nothing. Then
If you do contact him just be carefree and don't
Try to make plans to see him. See how that works

Posted by sagglady71
In my experience, I would take it at face value
And give the man a few days of nothing. Then
If you do contact him just be carefree and don't
Try to make plans to see him. See how that works

Thank you, I actually planned to do that. I feel that if you only want to hear from me once in a blue moon then you don't really like me or are really interested.

Posted by sagglady71
In my experience, I would take it at face value
And give the man a few days of nothing. Then
If you do contact him just be carefree and don't
Try to make plans to see him. See how that works

Yes, you should definitely do this. I have said the same thing plenty of times;and I have dated an Aqua once. I will never be doing that again, but I think you should take sagglady's advice.

Posted by Cancerflower5808

Posted by sagglady71
In my experience, I would take it at face value
And give the man a few days of nothing. Then
If you do contact him just be carefree and don't
Try to make plans to see him. See how that works

Yes, you should definitely do this. I have said the same thing plenty of times;and I have dated an Aqua once. I will never be doing that again, but I think you should take sagglady's advice.

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What did the Aqua do that turned you off, if you don't mind me asking?

Thanks ladies! I have left him alone today, no texting. I will let it be until he reaches out.