Cancer man is ignoring / playing me i dont know

i dont know what it is with this man i'm hooked, we've met several times and its always been intense, we've slept together and then its like i dont exist, no text (well he'll text back after i have sent 2/3 over the course of a few days but i dont want to be pushy) no phone calls and then a few weeks later, hes back saying things like he wished i hadnt moved so that we can date properly, that im marriage material etc etc. am i just being stupid is he just using me, we get on really well, astonishingly so and he hugs me like he's a starving man and never wants to let go and its a complete contradiction to how he acts when we're not together. i really like him but havent told him how i feel because i'm scared he'll reject me it hurts that he doesnt contact me as it is. im an aquarian by the way.

From my experience, sounds like your cancer might be attached, either married or a serious relationship. Is he married? How old is he?

From my experience, sounds like your cancer might be attached, either married or a serious relationship. Is he married? How old is he?

he's 31 and single 🙂

because he doesnt respond to my texts, they're pressure free and lighthearted so im not sure he would answer the phone to be honest, i never know where i am with him

When I text my cancer he responds immediately. that's because he's interested....

Yup! I agree with all the others. Even if he is interested, you have to pull back and act like you couldn't care less & see him as a "friend." They come sideways with their interest too, especially when they have a fear of rejection. Cancer is the one that's supposed to be clingier, not the Aquarian (no offense to my Crabs).

my main problem is that he hounded me for a full on 3 weeks about going on holiday with him, i arrange childcare (which was a nightmare) we meet up, now nothing i just feel incredibly stupid for believing he was serious in the first place but on the other hand i know he'll be back, i havent spoken or text in days because i can take a hint but i am really rather angry at the upheval of my family life i've had to do at his request just to end up with egg on my face again.

Posted by Sweetypie
Hun-If I was you Id just be honest with him and tell him you dont like it when he doesnt text etc.Why does it seem like people are so afraid*From what Ive read* to confront them?I mean ya they shell-I get it-But your giving them way too much power over how you feel-IMHO!Ya they are adorable but they have CLAWS!LMAO-Just be yourself and ask him why arent you texting me back etc.Im an aqua and have had to deal with it too-If he loves you he will come back-TRUST!

Agreed! A little verbal spanking never hurt anyone, even a Cancer

I would suggest to move on, he is just spending time when he doesn`t feel good.

He must have someone else, this is what happened to me. Completly ignore him. He feels good to receive text and messages from you.