Cancer Man...Pisces Woman

I have been seeing a Cancer Man off and on for about the past two years. There is about a 17 year age difference between us however. He came to me one night and told me he was attracted to me and would like to get together every now and then to see what it would be like. I have become very fond of this man and I think in his own way he is fond of me too. Although now he is dating a younger girl she is 2 1/2 years younger than he is but he is still calling me to get together. This tells me that he doesn't really care for this younger girl or he wouldn't be calling me. However, I'm sure she is he cares about me either. He never really says a lot, I mean we talk and stuff, but after we are together he kinda shys away for a week or so. It's like he's afraid to talk to me about things. I don't know. I'm seeking advice on what this guy is thinking. Can anyone help me?

I'm not sure where this Cancer man comes from, because as far as I know this is not a trait of theirs. He is two timing? It's up to you if you want to be treated in this manner, but then too this age difference is something else. I would imagine that you are a beautiful young woman, and he's hooked on this one alone no doubt. Especially if he doesn't talk much. Cancer's have a hard time letting go, that's a fact, so that's probably why he keeps coming around. I would cut my losses if I were you, and find someone who will tell me his feelings, and will be monogamous. This is no life for a young woman. Get out there and find someone your own age OK!

Good luck

As I reread your topic, I realized that you are 17 years older, either way. My advice is the same. That just makes it more believable that he needs your maturity and wisdom, and has a harder time letting go. I am a Cancer woman myself, and I have a relationship with a man that is 12 years my senior, although he really isn't that much more mature, there is something that draws me to him?? I always found myself drawn to people much older than me. Anyhow I just thought I would throw my 2 cents in on this again.

Good luck again lol