Hey guys...I am a Libran woman and was with this Cancer man for 6 months. It was great at the start. It felt as if we were meant to be together. Then I sensed something was not right. I decided to speak to him about our relationship. And after having given it a serious thought I suggested that we should take a break. To that his response was....yes, I have been thinking about that for a while now...but just wasn't sure how to bring it up and when. But he topped that with babe you know, I love you, but as i love my family and good friends. you are very special to me. I have never met anyone like you. you give me the space to just be myself. But I am not sure if there is more to that love. So lets just take a break...and if it has to come back, we will know its real. Anyway, we start the break and then he ends up calling me over to his place cause he misses me and is lonely blah..blah...Then we get back together...however not in a relationship (but just...you know what I mean). And this continues for over 2 months...and then he suddenly realizes...NO...this has to stop. We cannot be together. So ******* confusing. I had almost lost all my patience by then. So i said to him..Well this is it..its better for both of us to just stay out of each others life. And to that he had to say I don't wana lose you as a friend...we had such great times...we can be friends...blah...blah..But I din't want to be JUST friends with him. I wanted more. Anyway..its been over 2 weeks now...I have not tried to initiate contact at all, but have received and an email and 2 texts from him...saying its weird not to have you around blah..blah...I haven't responded to any of them. I am a libran, so I tend to be a little stubborn, indifferent and cold at times which he has told me he doesn't like. But I really don't understand this kind of behaviour. One second he doesn't want you...then you let him go...and try to move on..the next moment he is inviting you over for a movie...!!!!!!! How on earth does their mind work ? Do they mean what they say ? Or their words say one thing but their actions suggests another ? Are they so confused in life —??
