Cancer Men At age 40 / Is it a mid life crisis or

Would someone tell me who I'm dealing with here. This man sweep me off my feet a few weeks ago, tells me he cares and continues to stay in touch,in all indirect ways. Tells me he cares deeply, but where did he go? I been told that he is dating women as young as 21. What is he really doing and looking for? Why does he keep in touch with me if he does not want to spend time with me? HELP! Who is this masked man?

Doesn't sound very Cancerian to me. Maybe you should check his Rising
and Moon signs.

I am a Cancer man at age 39. Okay, to be honest, I think what your fellow is going through could happen to any man, Cancer or not. I can only use myself as a reference, but I think he loves you and wants to be with you. Of course, I don't know the story of his past or present, meaning I do not know all the circumstances going on in his life. But if this Cancer man is anything like myself, he wants assurance that his commitment to you will bring him security for the rest of his life. At the moment, he may be playing the field, feeling things out and maybe trying to sow a few oats even if he has a mind to...who knows. But as a cancer man, I can tell you, he is keeping in touch with you, because there must be some strong hint that you are the one he is really looking for. If he is not truly commited to anyone right now...i.e. engaged or married, or even if he is, he is on a search right now, trying to see who can give him the best security...UNENDING LOVE...for the rest of his life. Someone who will not play childish mind games and guilt trips for trivial things. As for the 21 year olds...Sounds like he is trying it our, but I can assure he will not find any security in a 21 year old.... they are just too immmature for us Cancer men.

is he a virgo!

I have been dating a virgo man for 10 months - he has called everyday and night - says he loves me - we are compatible, intimate ( I rocked his virgo world) - good communication and friends.
All of a sudden - he goes away, comes back to break up with me, says he met someone else, and is angry with me because I cut him loose!
I cannt even be friends at this point - I am sooo hurt!
In an email, he says he loves and misses me tremendously, but doesnt want to rekindle a realionship at this time. UGH!!!!!!!!!!!
As far as im concerned, he can get lost!
Any other advice from fellow cancers?