Cancer thoughts? Aries woman & Cancer man

Back in July, I met a Cancer 2 years younger than me. He was interested and wanted my number but I found him a bit irritating lol. I kept talking to him and ended up giving him my number towards the middle of August and we started hanging out. Once we started seeing each other, I found that I was actually interested in him. He would always text me the cutest things and drive 30 mins just to come see me. He would come by at 7, when he got off work, and leave at 3 in the morning until I felt comfortable with him staying the night. Then, we got together in the middle of September and he continued to stay over and take me on little dates and send me cute messages and call me. Our second week of being together he told me that he wanted to live with me lol and that kinda threw me off. I told him that it wouldn't be the best thing since our relationship was still new and he told me that he understood and that he wanted to make sure he was financially stable before he tried to live with me. He works full time and I go to school and he would always tell me that I was his motivation. He always made sure I went to class and got pissed off when I didn't and we would constantly play fight with each other. Towards the end, he stopped texting me as much and the last time he came over, he hid his phone from me. He broke up with me over text saying "I can't do this anymore...I'm sorry." I was hurt lol so I deleted him from everything and his number. He saw that I deleted him from facebook and blocked me..lol. I was wondering if any Cancers could help me at all with my situation. Will he come back or is it a done deal?

When a Cancer be it man or woman deletes you from your life more often than not it is a done deal. Cancer emotions run deep down to the essence of their soul. When they realize the pain brought onto them they go and hide and never come out.

What I wonder with your situation is...He wanted to live with you, you were not ready and he understood that. Or at least he said so. What lead to him breaking all ties with you. It sounds like you are not divulging the entire story with that part.

But I will tell you this. It is like a Cancer man to just sever the ties for no apparent reason. I have experienced this and to this day wonder what on earth happened. They are not the best at saying what is bothering them, and in return hurt people.

The fact that you deleted him out of your life was a huge sign to him. It showed that you did not want to converse or to have anything to do with him. He blocked you to forget you.

Can you do anything? You can contact him I suppose. But I do not foresee anything coming from this. He will probably ignore you, or lash out and hurt your feeling even more.

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But I will tell you this. It is like a Cancer man to just sever the ties for no apparent reason. I have experienced this and to this day wonder what on earth happened. They are not the best at saying what is bothering them, and in return hurt people.

This is true...

I ended things with my Capricorn bestie in a big, big fight. We'd fought before but when I told her that she'd never see me again... i think she thought I was joking.
She's never seen me again.

I called her about a year later to see how she was doing, because we Cancers can do that, and she still had no idea why I had ended our friendship. Took no responsibility for her actions what.so.ever. Instead, she had a bunch of nasty things to say and because i still had love for her, I let her make me the bad guy and didn't bother explaining why in detail. She didn't really want to know why... she just wanted to be angry, so I just let her.

@OP...

If he told you he wanted to move in with you and you said no... doesn't matter the reason, that is rejection. Crabs don't like rejection.
Then you mentioned that he would get mad when you wouldn't go to class and you would '"play fight" together.

To you Aries, maybe it was playful fighting but to him Cancer, it might of been him seeing an irresponsible girl who likes to fight.

Sounds like he was looking for a serious girl to make some future plans with and you were not on the same page. Crab goes *poof*

Thank you both. I really appreciate it 🙂

Oh dear....when it comes to Cancers, we tend to do this..block people and everything, when in fact we want them to come say why did you block me..we try to see if we really mean anything for them. That's what I feel like, sometimes, at least...

i personally feel compatible with Aries, i think they're funny and smart people, and the men have something that's always attracted me, both as friends, and as lovers. I think you can manage to get through everything cause aries and cancer are such a great couple 🙂