Cancer womam with Aries Man

Help I am a cancer girl dating an aries man. I find him very imature and selfish we have been going for 3 years and it is still the same. Does this ever change should I stick with it or move on with my life. I am at the end of my rope and do not know what to do. He also has a very voilent temper and I am afraid of the consequences if I do decide to break it off. We currently live togher and wanted some oppinion on the best way to leave if I decide to.

Hey there =) I dated an Aries man for 4.5 years and was engaged for about another half year. And yes they can be very immature... thinking they can just drag their knuckles on the ground, grunt a few times, beat their chests and muscle their way into getting others to agree with them. Ok not all of them are like that... but the immature one are. The thing you have to remember about Aries -especially men, is that they are a fire sign and we are water. Put those two together in a bad situation and you get boiling pots of agression. Also, they are the 'first' fire sign in the zodiac, which also adds an amount of immaturity, meaning: they are the 'baby' fire sign and a cardinal sign, which just amplifies a competitive nature. They are Rams! They butt heads with anyone that gets in their way. These are the cavemen of astrology - they wont/dont understand things like: finese, patience, delicate situations, or anything they can't beat into submission. Of course, Im only speaking of the immature ones, the ones that cant find mature outlets for their naturally aggressive temperments.

yikes I am an aries woman and I feel so "naked" now. Can identify. Tongue in cheek.

Thank you for you reply.
You say you can identify so help me out how do I get him to relax and save his temper for stuff that really matters and is there a quick fix way to get this inconsiderate, imature Aries boy to grow up and handle his relationship like a man.

In the end why did you finally break it off. Was it hard and how it he take it.

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