Cancer women... Are you clingy? Momma's Girl?.....

Is this normal for a cancer woman to be really clingy and very emotional (cry over the littlest things) ? Is it normal for a Cancer woman to let her mother "control " her life and always need her mother's approval? — How can a woman be so independent and so clingy at the same time? When a cancer woman is in love with a guy does she always try to get his "approval on things? —?

Lol I need answers...... help! !!!
When do you "give up " on a cancer woman—??

What are you saying to her to make her cry?

Posted by 3dimes2nickels1penny0sense
Is this normal for a cancer woman to be really clingy and very emotional (cry over the littlest things) ? Is it normal for a Cancer woman to let her mother "control " her life and always need her mother's approval? — How can a woman be so independent and so clingy at the same time? When a cancer woman is in love with a guy does she always try to get his "approval on things? —?

Lol I need answers...... help! !!!
When do you "give up " on a cancer woman—??

After 4 years and a destructive breakup with a Cancer woman I may be able to offer some insight...

Yes, Cancer woman are clingy... incredibly. To the point of suffocation. When they don't get their way (which is what they seem to want all the time) they become moody, irrational, sulky and difficult to speak to. I find them to be manipulative and will stop at nothing to try and mould someone into the person they want you to be instead of the person you are. Nothing I did seemed to completely satisfy her. She also cheated on me 3 times over the course of the 4 years... I forgave and forgot in the hope they she would eventually learn that she was doing the wrong thing... in the end, only 2 weeks before what would've been our 4th year anniversary I found out she was seeing another guy behind my back. This was 12 months ago and since then, there has been nothing but tension and drama which she insists "I'm so sick of" but ignores the fact that the drama was caused by her.

I find Cancers to be vindictive, secretive, manipulative, clingy, unable to see their own wrongs, quick to point the finger and blame others for their own poor behaviour, easily led and swayed by other people. Don't think I could ever do it again. I gave her everything, I was loyal, I revered her as a queen. She took advantage of it.

I'm sorry to hear about your situation first off with this disloyal Cancer woman. It seems that you may have gotten a rotten Crab and a less evolved one at that. I can say that, Yes, we can be clingy and emotional and cry over the slightest things but most times it is because we feel everything even a perceived slight. We take things very personal. I often have to remind myself that it isn't about me and When it is about me, what did I do to cause it and how can I rectify it. Typically, Cancers will not cheat if they are satisfied with you and where the relationship is headed.
Keep in mind though, that regardless of any sign or zodiac information, no one deserves to be cheated on. I do have some questions:

What types of things make her cry?

Has she said why she is cheating?

Are you considerate and treat her with compassion?

What's your sign?

I'm a Pisces.
Honestly, I actually like being with a clingy woman.....( ducks head....doesn't know if its safe to
admit that in public. :O)

SG 's cancer kinda reminds me of my ex. I love her. I think she was one of the most caring and loving Woman that I have every been with. I could even deal with her being
overly emotional .... (thinks this is why Cancers and Pisces go good together)

But like SG said, the constant manipulation and the selfishness sometimes takes its toll
on the relationship. And infidelity issues... Trust issues....

I find it amusing how some of the negative traits a Cancer will say about a bad Pisces they
are involved with will "mirror" the same negative traits a Pisces will say about a bad Cancer...
Wow...

Posted by LunarMaiden
What are you saying to her to make her cry?

Nothing specific really.... she has actually gotten better about the crying.... she's a whiner...

Her mom will piss her off.... she will cry
Teachers at work piss her off ...she cries
Kids at school upset her and she tells me about it.... guess what....yep she cries...

Dude, run away from her. Cancer or not she seems like a self loathing bitch with absolutely no sense of decency.

ow, ow, ow.. real talk about Cancer women! fun fun

Yes, all Cancers are very emotional.. and emotionally clingy. They need to know where they stand with their partner at all times whether the emotion is anger, loving, death wish etc... or you will start to see some crazy behavior. Usually that behavior is of a manipulative nature. It's kind of opportunistic.. but.. ok ya, it's manipulative.

GeminiMind once said that Pisces are emotional vampires.. they feed off others emotions. Cancers are like emotional junkies. Some 'function' better than others.. but their first reaction for anything is emotional. Anger, tears, retaliation, fisty cuffs, silence... sometimes all the above at the same time. They will react and need time to recover from the shock of it. Some Cancers throw that all over.. others hide it well because they don't like it to be seen. If your ex was a public 'shower'.. that can be annoying. If she let you see in private.. must of been love there.

All Cancers have Mommy issues... the relationship with the mother can be great and loving and leave positive affects. If it was cold and abusive.. negative affects. I think Cancer women are terrified to become like their Moms. They were the "Mother Goddess" they observed and learned how to/or not to do things. They will always carry it. Some never see their mothers and like it just fine. Others have to see their mothers and have empathy for the fact their Mom may be messed in the head, and suffering on a daily basis from all mistakes she made. But I think most Cancer girls are natural rebels.. and once they figure it out.. their Mom has no more influence on their life. They separate and the relationship is what it is...

Posted by SapphireGem

Posted by 3dimes2nickels1penny0sense
Is this normal for a cancer woman to be really clingy and very emotional (cry over the littlest things) ?

After 4 years and a destructive breakup with a Cancer woman I may be able to offer some insight...

I find Cancers to be vindictive, secretive, manipulative, clingy, unable to see their own wrongs, quick to point the finger and blame others for their own poor behaviour, easily led and swayed by other people. Don't think I could ever do it again. I gave her everything, I was loyal, I revered her as a queen. She took advantage of it.

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yes, yes, yes.. but you must of kinda liked that shit... cause here you are missing, missing, missing her..

Cancers are Cardinal and they will always be moving the relationship forward. Peeks and valleys, ebb and flow. If you want to stay still and stagnant (boring) Cancer is not for you...

guess that tune:
"you take the good
you take the bad,
you take them both and there you have, "The Facts of Life"...

OMG Shelly .... that was very honest and informative, thanks so much for sharing ....

Thanks to everyone actually for sharing. 🙂

I forgot about how being a "cardinal sign" would affect the relationship .....

I'm curious to know how your relationship with your fish is going?

Posted by 3dimes2nickels1penny0sense

I'm curious to know how your relationship with your fish is going?

haha... i bet you are..✨

Lol@ Shelly ......

Ooookkkkkk so that's how we gonna play it.......... hmmmmm....

* intuition is going into "overdrive " now *

Lol that is all I'm going to say in public ...... 🙂