Be Patient?

My Cancer girlfriend and i have been on and off for over a year. Just recently she has disappeared on me. And i've been trying my best to get her to say something so i can know she's okay. i have a feeling that maybe i unintentionally hurt her feelings.

Okay I've been going through few things lately and shes been there through it all. One night, i need to vent and talk to her, her phone was messing up and i couldn't get my messages and her phone couldn't do any calls or receive them. So i got frustrated and said " just forget about it babe. I need to go to sleep and wake up early for work" She didn't respond to that message and that's when she started not returning my calls or texts. I love this girl and i would do anything for her. So do i keep contacting her just to let her know i'm there or should i just not contact her at all until she contacts me?

Posted by LIbra89
My Cancer girlfriend and i have been on and off for over a year. Just recently she has disappeared on me. And i've been trying my best to get her to say something so i can know she's okay. i have a feeling that maybe i unintentionally hurt her feelings.

Okay I've been going through few things lately and shes been there through it all. One night, i need to vent and talk to her, her phone was messing up and i couldn't get my messages and her phone couldn't do any calls or receive them. So i got frustrated and said " just forget about it babe. I need to go to sleep and wake up early for work" She didn't respond to that message and that's when she started not returning my calls or texts. I love this girl and i would do anything for her. So do i keep contacting her just to let her know i'm there or should i just not contact her at all until she contacts me?

Give it a few days and call her.

Libra89, any updates?

Nothing so far.I've sent her an email a while back and she didn't respond to that either.

i would go see her at her place but she just recently moved to another apartment with her parents (She's helping her parents out) So i don't have a clue about anything.

The apartment that she moved from was her home all her life but they had to leave cause they were taking them down. i'm feeling maybe that something to do with it? I don't know but i hate not knowing nothing about her well being.

We go to different colleges but they're not that far apart so i would always go visit her when i could.

her Facebook has been deactivated for sometime before this happen.

I care about this girl so much and we have been through a lot.

I'm not willing to give up, She's the only girl i want. I never thought i would need anyone until i met her.

Call her! Make real human contact.

i have and I've left her a voice mail.

Maybe she's getting scared? because she was in a relationship for four years with a Taurus guy and he cheated on her with several different girls.

She gets insecure from time to time and thinks she's not good enough for me but i always let her know that she's more than enough. The reason why i love her is because giving her my heart is enough for her and she never asks me for anything. That's why all my free time goes to her. i spoil her even though she doesn't asks me to. i listen and remember anything she tells me. i'm always there for her and she considers me her best friend.

i never cheated on her and that thought never crossed my mind

i called her again and still no answer!!! i even left another voice mail.

😢

this is just plain torture! 😢