Cancerlady and Aquariusman Relationship Broke-up.

Need Help...only for 2months my relation with Aquariusman..and suddently he became distant to me..i just found out that he is getting married to a girl that he impregnated..We've talk and i ask him, so what about me? he said, he still want to continue if i am willing. i answered him, that i will think about it. But after 30-minutes of our talking. I decide to cut off the relationship, so send him a message, like thanking you for everything and for our time together. and informing him that i wanted to finished our relationship immediately, and i told him that i don't have to know or wait for his answer, i will find my own happiness too. He did not reply. I accept everything now, and i want to move on..what i advise that i need...if anyone has experienced a broke-up relationship with aquariusman...and if there's any actions i can take, in order to torture his mind of thinking or to suffered..the way i do...Please help...😢

By completely ignoring him, I suggest.

success is the best revenge. Get another man with better looks and more money and be outrageously happy while he marries some one night stand that he now has a child with....trust me...you got the better end of the deal. Move on quickly!

hmmm...my aqua bf broke up with me last May for 4 months, but then he came back...when he left me, he immediately started dating another girl...but from what i hear, it was nothing serious, just fun for the moment...somene to help him forget about me...but that didn't work so well! anyway, we are back together now and very happy.

and btw...i am a cancer girl also 🙂

run.

he seems like a sleazeball if he's willing to continue your relationship while he's married.

moonchild, but its different thing with me..he is going to get married. How, can he came back to me, or how can i dream for it? And he just informed me by Phone! what unconsiderate of him.

You know guys, we cancers if we got hurt at first reaction we want to get even or revenged! It is just that, to many things to consider, before taking it into action.
So, any help or more suggestion that i can take my revenge—

wow, what a turn of events...
i know this hurts, but it kinda says a lot about him for taking responsibility . i know you have the crappy end of the deal here, but life will be hard enough for him without you ever doing a thing. you see, he is marrying her for the wrong reasons..but the best intentions. i know your heart is breaking, but i really think you did the right thing by breaking it off..but please understand this..everything happens for a reason. you may not see it now, but you will

menbay12, thanks for the inspiring message.

he basically just showed you his weakness by what he did to you...and telling you over the phone makes him a really weak person. do you really want to be with someone like that— think about it...

ok, thanks moonchild8, i do really appreciate your advice. its been 2-days now we never talk and i never called him too. Im doing my best to ignore him. All these happenned just by phone only. And i do really feel bad, with what he have done to me.

i can relate with the phone thing b/c my aqua bf broke up with me over the phone...
not the best way to go about doing things like that...

today is the wedding day! Hu,hu,u....wwwwhaaaaaaa! 😢

i know today will be tough on you..i am so sorry for that..you are in my prayers.

Thanks so much! - menbay12

i am a little confused here...he is getting married already...so you must have known about him getting married for a while now— you can't tell me that for the 2 months you were with him, you didn't know he had someone else and was getting married...
it all seems a bit strange to me.

Sweetie you'd better do your research on Aqua's. They are very unemotional and aloof. So basically he is just being himself. Don't be surprised just try as best as you can to get over it. Journal, Cry, Talk but under no circumstances do you tell him how you feel just let him go on his merry way. Believe me when I tell you this advice.

moonchild, nope i never now, that he is going to get married..we were friends for more than 1 year, but not continues talk or regular communication, only on occassions. Then before two months, we meet and he started courting me, and before i become his GF i ask him, if he is on relation..he said NO...then it was a suddent news to me, when he tells me by phone that he is going to get married!...at first my reaction, was okey, i congratulate him...then i ask him about me, he answer he want to continue..as a said before, i told him i will think about it...just 30mins after we talk on the phone..i send him messages..that i don't want to continue our relationship.

Anyway, its done now...and i'm moving on too.

how are you sweetbabes? just thinking about you...hoping you are ok..

"They are very unemotional and aloof."

Karima, I resent you labeling all Aquas as such thank you very much. I just wanna say that because I notice you are always so bitter when you talk about aquarians.

Sweetbabes: I reckon you should try to move on from him. Since he's married he will always upset you and not treat you as a special lady that you should be treated as - just like you were treating him as special.

Go find someone WAY better than him so that all this is just a funny story that you can laugh about.

menba12- thanks for the concern, i'm okay now...getting better, enjoying my time with my friends..the night on his weeding day, i went out with friends and we stay in Ritz Carlston Hotel in Dubai. So, brooding at all! I was so,so happy then,..though, the thought is there..but its over. Thanks for all your help, guys..its therapy.

i mean no BROODING...