My cancer man has a very difficult time expressing himself, its almost as if its impossible for him to do. Whenever I prod him it causes him to ignore me, which makes me question his feelings. The only way I'm able to tell he feels anything for me is because he has said that I'm a good person & he's thought about me being his gf. He also checks in on me & rings my phone whenever i tell him I need help. In typical cancer fashion, he has a hard time trusting due to being wronged in the past. Ive been working on building that trust but last night I said something really nasty and I'm afraid I've hurt him deeply. I awoke to find he's blocked me on social networks. I want so badly to apologize but i know i need to give him space right now. I guess i wanted to test his feelings for me. How do i fix this?
Cancers and Non Expression
What sign are you? Something similar to this situation has happened to me before. I think it is going to be quite hard to get in contact with him for a while or get him back to his normal self. I believe you should wait for a while and later try calling him to apologize if he has not already blocked your phone number. Try to be more patient with him. We Cancers find it very difficult to explain/express our feelings. A little prodding does help ,but only to a certain extent. I usually retreat if the prodding becomes excessive. He will be more open and expressive later on. My virguy was great at helping me with communicating and expressing myself, but it took time.Best of luck to you though. I hope you are able to patch things up with him. I think he will forget about this incident honestly. He probably just needs time.
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