I Told my flakey cancer man this

background story: liked eachother, spent everyday together for about 3 weeks, on a sunday we saw eachother everything was great then he never answered my texts again.. but replied every 2 weeks because i continued to text him for holidays but never asked him why he stopped talking to me when i did nothing wrong,he went with another girl had slept with her, she left him. i texted him a song the other day he started texting me long paragraphs WHICH HE NEVER DOES OR DID. saying he wanted missed me and he wanted to make it up to me and that he's changed. i didnt sound upset in the first place i was being super sweet and flirty and didn't even seem like i was upset he's the one that started brining up he still had the things i gave him and what not and asked the sooner he could see me the better and that whenever i was free it was up to me. 2 days later i txted him saying tonight at 6:30 sounds good? he said "i'm suprised you havent backed out yet" i said i never back down on a promise. 4 hours later he texted me saying he forgot he had a trip to the beach with his friends and they were leaving at 6 which was true, he wasn't lieing because alot of my friends went. he asked me what i was doing the next day and i said i'd be free after 6 he said great i have some things planned for us. 6:30 passes i text him saying " you haven't backed out yet have you ;P" he never answered.then that night his bestfriend called me all night inviting me to the club which my cancer man was at, i said i was sleeping because it was 3 am, and his bestfriend kept calling me off my cancer man's phone. i mean what kind of joke is this? he's willing to chill with me at the club but not hangout with me. its been 3 days since that night , and yesturday i texted him saying ..

"it would be awesome if you could just be straight up with me"

no answer.

why does he continue to flake on me? ive only been nice to him as a friend, and a lover. what's his deal? I GET IT ... MOVE ON. but it's honestly easy-er said than done.
do you think he'll ever text me back, or answer me. honestly that i think about it ive always been the one to text him, and i think i'm hopeing he'll be the one to text me.

background story: liked eachother, spent everyday together for about 3 weeks, on a sunday we saw eachother everything was great then he never answered my texts again.. but replied every 2 weeks because i continued to text him for holidays but never asked him why he stopped talking to me when i did nothing wrong,he went with another girl had slept with her, she left him. i texted him a song the other day he started texting me long paragraphs WHICH HE NEVER DOES OR DID. saying he wanted missed me and he wanted to make it up to me and that he's changed. i didnt sound upset in the first place i was being super sweet and flirty and didn't even seem like i was upset he's the one that started brining up he still had the things i gave him and what not and asked the sooner he could see me the better and that whenever i was free it was up to me. 2 days later i txted him saying tonight at 6:30 sounds good? he said "i'm suprised you havent backed out yet" i said i never back down on a promise. 4 hours later he texted me saying he forgot he had a trip to the beach with his friends and they were leaving at 6 which was true, he wasn't lieing because alot of my friends went. he asked me what i was doing the next day and i said i'd be free after 6 he said great i have some things planned for us. 6:30 passes i text him saying " you haven't backed out yet have you ;P" he never answered.then that night his bestfriend called me all night inviting me to the club which my cancer man was at, i said i was sleeping because it was 3 am, and his bestfriend kept calling me off my cancer man's phone. i mean what kind of joke is this? he's willing to chill with me at the club but not hangout with me. its been 3 days since that night , and yesturday i texted him saying ..

"it would be awesome if you could just be straight up with me"

no answer.

why does he continue to flake on me? ive only been nice to him as a friend, and a lover. what's his deal? I GET IT ... MOVE ON. but it's honestly easy-er said than done.
do you think he'll ever text me back, or answer me. honestly that i think about it ive always been the one to text him, and i think i'm hopeing he'll be the one to text me.

Why the hell do you want anything to do with him after he treats you like shit?

thanks so much for the positive words, it helps alot!

Really thanks so much, ive wroten a blog like this before and have gotten alot of negative answeres, so thank you for being honest in a kind way! he ended up posting on twitter " she asked me to hold her but that was last month and now she's texting me asking for closure... damn" which was obviously in regards to my text message. he has ZERO respect, and i feel stronger than ever knowing he's going to continue he's silly games and i'm moving on to bigger and better things! i just have to stay strong and carry on 🙂

he likes someone else and kind of likes you in 2nd place or he is still looking for more options. i'd say he is being jerked along by someone else and you are his backup plan when he gets flaked on.

because he has no respect for you.

If a cancer doesn't reply, U can be sure that he is not ready yet to move on to the next stage.... Its only worthy when a cancer is behind your toes..... He is no good the other way around.... Just stay away from him for some time.. If he needs you he will knock your door, then you can have your turn..... Cancerians' r great chasers when they fix on you... else it will be boring...

I don't have much experience with Cancer men, but generally in most cases, if we push too much, the other will pull further away. I mean this sincerely, leave him alone, stop texting him. Let him chase you, and if he doesn't, well, you have your answer.