You are a Cancer and you just walked in the room. Your eyes meet with a Scorpio. WOW!!! Can you feel the sexual tension, passion, and chemistry vibes from the Scorpio? It is so thick you cannot even cut it with a knife!
Or you are a Scorpio (like me) Just one glance in a Cancer's direction. Not even a stare just a very quick glance. A Scorpio's eyes meet with a Cancer's eyes! HOT HOT HOT!!!
So my question to you (especially if you are a Scorpio or Cancer), is can you feel the chemistry with the other? It is undescribeable!!!! It is so wonderful!
Gee that sounds so wonderful?! I am a Cancer and to be honest with you I haven't met too many scorpio's or had this wonderful feeling obviously, or I would know many scorpios hee.
Lucky you, you must be a very attractive person or have lots of venus in your make-up.
Whatever, I have been close with all 11 signs besides mine in my life, and let me tell you that the Cancer/Scorpio relationship is one of the most intense, powerful, and loving of any zodiak pairing. With Scorpio, you find the one who can reciprocate all your passions, love you 150% of the time with 150% of their hearts (the way you Cancers love), and still have a good time and the more Cancer/Scorpio grows with each other, the more they bond, and the more in love with each other they become. The Scorpio brings the Cancer out of his shell, gives the cancer all the loving and nurturing he deserves, and the Cancer shows Scorpio how much love she's got for Scorpio. Together they're unstoppable. I swear I did not copy and paste that I genuinely believe that to be the truth!
I am a cancer and have been married to a scorpio for almost 30 years and I have found over the years they are so stuck in their ways that they do not like change at all. They become moody and selfish too a certain degree. In the bedroom he used to be fantastic then when ever I would want to try something different he always thought I had a motive or heard of thru another. he never realized i was just bored ...and once when i did tell him i was bored he thought that i did not love him. scorpios are very controlling, possessive and believe me when the lust is gone, the love is too.
Hey, something must be working in your marriage, you've been married to the guy to 30 years!!! I think he realizes that he is not pleasing you and yes Scorpios can be selfish, but you need to try to get through to him.
If I were you I would start balling my eyes out and ask him if he still loves you? That'll do the trick
BTW, you Cancers may not think so, but you can be just as possessive as Scorpios. That's a proven fact!
Yes I agree with you We Cancers can be possessive... But with me I was possessive in the early years... and it is like I have grown up or grew out of that emotion... I no longer am possessive it is like a complete turn a round... I used to be and he was not I no longer am and he is... Hard too figure. I think people in general as they grow, they change, I have always thought that possessiveness was a sign of imaturity and I still do...
I'm a scorpio female and have many, many times over experienced these electric looks across a crowded room...or a small room...like a bedroom...but then it was more than just looks! lol
Hey, I'm a Gemini...and I am not too crazy, have more Cancer in me...well both. And I can tell by being with someone 5 min. if there is chemistry. And one look into the eyes of the Cancer man I am involved with and I'm seeing stars! He melts me. They are such intense lovers. The chemistry is awesome!
CANCER: Water ? Cardinal ? Negative Ruled by Moon Symbol: The Crab Night Forces ? Feminine
SCORPIO: Water -Fixed ? Negative Ruled by Pluto Symbol: Scorpion & Eagle Night Forces ? Feminine
This is the 5-9 Sun Sign Pattern, so these two will almost surely be magnetized together anytime they're within a few miles of one another ? not always, but usually. The relationship between Cancer and Scorpio will quite likely be strong and healthy. The areas of publishing, religion, space travel, the law, travel, foreign countries, the stock market, young people, schools, and various forms of creativity, including films?(all ninth and fifth house matters)... are likely ponds where you will find this these two Sun Signs. The Crab and the Scorpion (or Eagle) have an almost uncanny instinctive understanding of one another. They share, not all, but nearly all vices and virtues. The faults and foibles of one are either possessed by or compassionately comprehended by the other. The lovable traits and talents of one are either possessed by or intensely admired by the other. It's called empathy, and Cancer and Scorpio can always count on this as a supportive influence in their relationship.
Both the Crabs and the Eagles tend to never forget a kindness. Likewise, they mutually share long memories for hurt or injury. The Crab's hurt seldom, if ever, causes an urge to attack. The reflex action of the wounded Cancerian is to retreat, often remaining mistrustful of that person or situation forever?whereas the word "retreat" is nearly unknown to an Eagle. Scorps may appear to give up, to retreat or disappear. But they'll return. Inwardly, these people would almost literally prefer to die than to lose a conflict or come out on the short end of someone else's stick. Nevertheless, there is an unearthly sweetness in the Scorpio aura, superimposed upon the determination not to be smashed without teaching the smasher a lesson, and it is this sweetness, this gentleness and sensitivity, which allows the Crab to trust the Eagle. This can really be a rainbow kind of relationship, where every small or large misunderstanding is certain to be resolved and forgiven later. Crabs and Scorpios don't forgive many people ? but they will forgive one another. Cancer and Scorpio, both extremely sensitive, are willing to reveal their vulnerabilities to each other. This is no small matter, for they've both kept their terrible vulnerability hidden beneath their shells for so long, lest the world discover it as a weakness and use it against them. They tell each other secrets they would ordinarily never tell a soul. No one can pry a secret out of a Crab, if he or she doesn't want it known, but the Eagle just may ? and the gentle Moon-ruled Cancerians can sometimes perform the magic trick of accurately reading Scorpio's facial expression of cool detachment for what it really is ? a mask. They're both more than a little telepathic, particularly with one another. When their purposes do clash, it will frequently be over money, because Scorpio is concerned with "other people's money," and Cancer is concerned with ? well, with just plain money, never mind whose, just so it's green. Scorpio tends to worry over how to obtain it, Cancer over the dreadful possibility of losing it. Scorpio can at times be too self-controlled for Cancer's affectionate nature, and the Crab will sometimes snap at Scorpio, but these are minor tensions with which to cope when the rewards are so solid.
To add to this post that I wrote a million years ago, I have to physically stay away from my cancer ex-boyfriends because whenever we look at each other, there is this tangible, hot, steamy, lusty feeling that comes over us, and we both feel it...it's what made breaking up with them so hard. In fact I just had another one of these "looks across the room" things with this cancer I met, come to find out later he's married. The chemistry is great, but dangerous...
Thank you for the compliments about scorps Aprilbaby. Don't be too soured on Cancers though, because believe me, I have had my share of problems with them as well, more from the standpoint of two moody signs whose moods don't always coincide. They do have a tendency to "mother" you; a tendency which often comes out as possessiveness over you. You can only deal with Cancers if you realize that everything with them is about emotions, even if they don't say that. You have to be a highly perceptive person when it comes to their moods, if you're not, you will be confused as to why they are acting the way they are toward you. I think that the reason my relationships with cancer guys didn't work out (I think I dated around 3 or 4 of them all within a couple years) is because I was much younger at the time, and back then, I had no concept of what I really wanted in a partner. I thought I didn't want a sweet, sensitive type who was attuned to the emotional side of everything. Well, at this point in my life, I want that very much. Don't get me wrong, the guy has to be pretty masculine or whatever, but I am very much in need of someone who *feels* their way through life rather than *acts* their way through (Taurus, Leo...no offense to these signs). I've never minded their (cancers) possessiveness, because I am that way also. The only part that bothered me was their tendency to be whiny and not stand up to other people enough. And their tendency to withdraw from an argument. I just want to have the fight and be done with it, while they would rather sulk. lol. But, I understand that side of them.
I would bet that your cancer friends actually did appreciate you and love you, but cancers have a hard time expressing their emotions. They are there, though. Cancer men are especially difficult to read, though it's usually obvious if they are upset about something.
From what you've described, you are better off then, without those particular cancers in your life! Wow...yeah I would say they weren't very good friends if that's the way they treated you. I hope you meet some nice ones. They're out there. Cancer can be a difficult sign though, for sure. It's hard to know where you stand exactly, emotionally with them.
You don't sound bitter, just like you've been burned a little. It's understandable...I have felt that way about Leos off and on through bad experiences with them. I just have to keep telling myself that there are bad sides to everyone, regardless of sign. I can understand your frustration though, for sure.
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I am a scorp woman who fell head over heels in love with a cancer man. He told me he loved me and in the end just ran from me, and sent me an e-mail saying goodbye. I was drawn to this man like a magnet. I never felt such strong feelings, and he seemed
Or you are a Scorpio (like me)
Just one glance in a Cancer's direction. Not even a stare just a very quick glance. A Scorpio's eyes meet with a Cancer's eyes! HOT HOT HOT!!!
So my question to you (especially if you are a Scorpio or Cancer), is can you feel the chemistry with the other? It is undescribeable!!!! It is so wonderful!