Confuse with Cancer Man! Im an Aquarius :(

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ScarletLovers
@ScarletLovers
13 Years

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I've been friend with him since when i was 17 (in school). I admit that i like him at the first sight. Then we become friend until now (im 25 already).

Our relationship is a bit awkward. He study far away so we only contact each other via skype. He will video call me and then we will like spend hours together (singing, chatting n etc). Sometimes, its been like few weeks we didnt contact each other.

I've seen him crying infront of me because that time we are talking about our past and ex. He cried because his girlfriend died and it must be painful enough for him. I dont know what to do but just watching and try to comfort him.

He even told me that he thought that im special but still i dont have any idea what its all about cuz he try to play hard to get or maybe just manipulating me.

We met not very often cuz he still study. But when he come back, he will meet me once. Few days ago he come back for semester break and asked me to go hang out with him. Actually he asked me to go out with him often but im hesitate and always try to avoid going out with him. But then, i made a decision that , maybe i should go out with him now and dont think too much about it.

Then i was a bit shocked that he alao brought his sister and sister's husband. I thought that only both of us but this make me felt not comfortable and shy.

When we spend our time together, he pull chair for me, and try to pay for me but i refuse cuz i dont want to burden him. Then we go for karaoke, personally i think i can be friend with his sister. Its not taking such a long time for us to be friendly and i didnt felt like we are strangers.

The things that annoyed me is, he's really love to criticize me , on what im wearing and even pimples on my face. I really hate it. It makes me think that, because of my flaws, maybe it will just only turn him off.

When i asked him about his feeling towards me, he said that he give me lot of hints already but im still confuse if he likes me or just playing with my heart? Oh my, why it is so complicated? Should i ask him directly if he even like me or not? Or should i wait more longer? Its been 8 years im waiting for him to confess or tell the truth. 😢