Dating a Cancer for 2 months, where is this going?

Been dating a cancer girl for 2 months now. We see each other about twice a week. We usually go out, lots of typical dating stuff, like movies, walks on the beach, restaurants, parks. She's always holding on to me and in the last 2 weeks we have been making out at the end of each date.

My problem is I don't know where I stand with her. She seems almost aloof when we are not seeing each other. I always have to make plans to see her, she's never once asked me out. It's been 2 months and we haven't gone beyond heavy kissing. I've made advances but she very politely declines and continues to make out with me. Part of me wonders if she's seeing anyone else, but she seems pretty traditional/conservative in nature.

I really want to get an idea of where this is going before more times goes by but I don't know how to tell her or if I even should tell her. I don't want to rush her or sound needy. I do not want to push her away by bringing this up??_but for all I know, me not bringing this up could be keeping her reserved.

I don't know. I am confused.

Leo.

I think that my pushing sexually is my way of trying to understand what we are, non-verbally. We haven't established this, and I'm apprehensive about telling her my thoughts and feelings for her. I just feel like that often kills the romance.

Ask her.

Also, why are you expecting the woman to chase you?

Thanks for the feedback. I'll try talking to her. Hopefully this doesn't mess things up

Posted by mdavis
.........Part of me wonders if she's seeing anyone else, but she seems pretty traditional/conservative in nature.
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I don't know. I am confused.

Flash backs to college.
A Leo thought I had a boyfriend because I didn't have sex with him early in the relationship.
I was a virgin and I was incredibly shy.

You pretty much answered your own question.
Just continue to get to know her.
If you want her to open up; be more romantic, affectionate and chivalrous.
Let her know who you are and give her compliments.