Did this cancer lose interest overnight? HELP! :'(

This cancer male and I hit it off immediately! I went and talked to him at a show. It was very cute how it all happened and he seemed to really enjoy the story as well (as he told all of his friends how we met!)
Anyway, that night we hung out until 6am with some of his friends. He gave me his ear phones since mine had broken and even offered to pay for a cab ride home for me. Texted me that night wishing I had given him a kiss. I just told him anticipation is a good thing.
Next day I stopped by his place for 40 minutes. we really clicked. Ive dated countless guys within the last year and I felt something different with this one. That night I went out to meet up with some friends and he called me later practically begging me to come over and that he would pay for a cab. I didnt as I was with my friends. He randomely called me at 8 am too that next morning. weird.
Next day he invited me to go out to New Jersey with him for a few hours. When we got to his friends place he made sure to introduce me to everyone and always include me. He was always very sweet and caring toward me. That night it was super late by the time we decided to go back into NY so we just stayed there. We slept in the same bed but nothing happened. He tried to kiss me and I told him I didnt want to yet (because my mouth tasted like beer and was super dry but I didnt tell him that). That night he told me he really wanted to be a part of my life and get close to me. We cuddled the whole night. The next morning he bought me breakfast and was all over me and hugging me. When I went home he let me borrow his brothers jacket because it was raining and offered to drive me home. When I left I hugged him and told him we'll hang out. Hugged his bestfriend too. I texted him and called him with no response. Since then I heard nothing from him for a week. Finally he texted me at 4 am Saturday morning saying that he had just gotten back into town from vermont and that he was sorry for not having called recently. I replied with a sweet no pressure filrty message. He texted me the next morning telling me to watch a video online. I watched it and replied with a witty comment and I asked him if he had watched what I had told him to watch. I still have yet to hear back. I texted him 2 days later saying I wanted to clear up the way things went in NJ and 4 him to text me when he had the chance. What should i do? I havent heard a thing? Should i tell him the truth why i didnt kiss him? I like him a lot! :

i think he was probably reliving the moment in which you said you didn't want to kiss him and it got to him. cancers hate rejection so it must have hit him hard.

what i think you should do is wait for him to come back around...take it real nice and slow. wait until he calls/texts and get back into that nice swing of things. when he feels so confident around you and has let his guard down a little bit more, kiss him!
dw, i don't think you blew it, just remember that cancers hate rejection of any kind especially romantic rejection. let him know that you're into him and you like him and make sure never ever to turn him down again. once bitten, twice shy with this sign.
good luck girl!

hey nihilist - you always give good advice, how you doing?

hey thanks you guys... I really hope he comes around. do you think i should text him and let him know why i didnt kiss him and be honest? i want him to know i didnt intentionally deny him it was my own problem. ive never dealt with a cancer before.

Hi,
You are doing everything perfectly and if this relationship does not work then it is not your fault.
That you did not kiss him that is even a turn on as he will be more interested, you two cuddled thats enough signal that you like him. Be caring but do not be desperate or overtry to please him.

Again:You are doing everything perfectly and if this relationship does not work then it is not your fault.

don't text him!!!! explain that to him face to face when you're on your next flirting mission! 😉 my cancer was a quite a ladies man and i didn't kiss him until our 4th date and surprisingly, he was totally cool with it!! (not that he didn't tried on previous dates LOL!!)

I was reading somewhere else that this girls cancer man liked putting his head on her lap and sleeping. Thinking back on it he asked me several times if i wanted to relax on his lap. I said no bc i hardly knew him. I really like him but i have my guard up a lot bc ive been played many times so i usually never trust a guys motives. I trusted his though... I really did... but Im just extra cautious... and now Im heartbroken 😢

oh man!!! I just heard from him!!! wth! Im so happy. Its been killing me. I over analyze everything so i just kept thinking about what i did wrong. i couldnt really find anything accept for this kiss and my guy friends all told me I ruined it so it really just made me feel worse.

his text: "i havent watched dig on hulu yet, I'm the worst new friend ever! And I had a great time with you in nj! I hope you're just planning on saying you did too!"

Alright guys... he seems to be a difficult number. Whats my next move?

upisces... i think we're pretty similar in terms of being cautious i.e it takes me slightly longer to get physical just because i need to feel comfortable first (eventhough the relationship isn't serious or anything)

just wait, if he really wants you then he will definitely come along!!!