Cancer male dating tips

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by omega32 on Wednesday, March 18, 2009 and has 17 replies.

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@omega32
17 Years

Anyone got any tips for getting a girl interested in me?

My Solar sign: Cancer

My Lunar sign: Taurus

My Mars position: Taurus

My Venus position: Gemini

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@london_libra
17 YearsLibra

Wow, Omega you have the exact same planetary positions as the guy I like except his Mars is in Pisces.
My planetary positions are:
Sun - Libra
Moon - Aquarius
Mars - Libra
Venus - Sagittarius

I also know another girl who is good friends with the guy I like and she has the exact same planetary positions as me so maybe look for someone like us?
However, a Scorpio would be really good to go with your Taurus Moon and Cancer Sun, that'd be a passionate relationship. But with your venus in Gemini you're apt to be attracted to air and fire signs who are lively, talkative and witty.
Good luck! You don't need it.

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@omega32
17 Years

Thanks london_libra but from what your saying I would have just the same chances of trying to date woman of Aries or

Aquarius as Scorpio or Pieces?

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@london_libra
17 YearsLibra

I enjoy your spelling of Pisces! (lol pie).

Yes, you could have luck with any or all of these women. Your gemini venus will make you attracted to and attracted by air and fire but the rest of your chart leans toward earth and water. With your moon in earth you would probably be best suited with an earth partner (virgo, cap or taurus) but a fellow cancer would also be great with you. The fact is that you could be with any sign at all and make it work but earth, water and air are more likely to be attracted to you than fire because you have planets in a common element with them.
Can I ask what your rising is? This way I can determine your descendent which shows what you look for in a person.

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@someonespecial
18 Years

Posted by omega32
What's the best way to approach a girl who is really quiet as far as I know about her.

Venus in gemini can attract a quiet girl by your witty conversation, she may talk more once you open up to her. I love venus in gemini cancers cause it seems to make them less likely to be homebodies, more creative in dating, more lively and open and a little less posessive/insecure.

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@london_libra
17 YearsLibra

approaching a girl who is quiet: is there anything else you can tell us about her? what's she into? what's her sign? how do you know her? i believe that they best way to start any relationship is as a friendship. friendship without strings can lead to many strings being attached at a later date!

libra rising, great position! my cancer best friend also have libra rising. this puts aries in your 7th house. meaning that you would be good with an arian type.

may i ask if you have had trouble in the past as far as girls are concerned?

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@omega32
17 Years

Actually I never bothered wanting to talk to girls ever until recently. It's just that they were never on my mind. That's saying a lot considering I'm in college.

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@london_libra
17 YearsLibra

Hahaha ok, so Aries descendant: you are most likely to marry (for your first marriage, if you have multiple marraiges) or to look for an Arian/fire type of a girl. Any girl with a fire moon, sun or mars is likely to attract you/be attracted to you. Hopefully she has some earth in her chart too with all your Taurus. Good luck!

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@Smiles24
17 Years500+ Posts

I'm not going to say this from the normal perspective that people say bur rather from that I fee on a good dating tips.

Just be the way you are and use the cancerian humor to make her laugh. Always go for the laugh aspect, and when you do that, turn the charm on my friend.

And hopefully you should be set!

Good luck with whomever your pursuing by the way.

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@london_libra
17 YearsLibra

my rising is scorpio too! haha, you and i clearly just need to get together.

scorpio rising people tend to be obsessive and possessive in love. very intense and strong, having at least the appearance of being powerful and influential even if you actually aren't. my scorpio rising fits me to a tee. so this means taurus is actually in your 7th house, meaning you would make a good marriage with a taurus girl. this is what i've been saying all along! get thee to a taurus lady, omega! having said that, cancers mesh brilliantly with scorpions so keep an eye out for any of them too.
having said all of that, you can make it work with any sign at all. astrology is only part of what makes a good relationship. you can fall for anyone but someone who has good synastry (astrological compatibility) with you is going to make the ride easier and smoother. and being a cancer, i reckon that's what you'd want. you wouldn't go looking for heartache and drama like an aries or a leo.
good luck, once again!