Does Anyone Know how to win Male Cancers Hearts?

I'm desperate. If anyone knows how to get them to let go of past
loves, please advise, and after that, how to win there hearts. I just can't
figure them out. On my 3rd and want this one so much to work out.
Anyone please help. I'm a taurus and we are very compatible signs,
however I'm tired of competing with the x-syndrome all the time.
Thanks.

Being a cancer male - it's very hard for me to truly let go of something or someone that I onced genuinely loved with my heart. Remember, emotions run deep here. It takes time. I know being a cancer, it takes a little more time than other zodiacs. Be patient, love him unconditionally, listen to him - but mostly be patient. When you win him totally over, it will be worth it!
Good luck!

Thank you very much. I guess being a taurus I struggle with patient's sometimes in area's of love. I'm a very loving, caring, passionate and also a deep person who unfortuantly because I am that way, falls fast and hard. I guess I always had that same hard time letting go and it was killing me. So I found a way to let go in my heart but to always have there memories forever.
I can't thank you enough for your reply. I only will practice my patients better and hope to be one of those "cancer loves", that he never lets go of. In fact even after all that he's already put me through I guess of all people know how hard it is for him to let go. If you have anything else I'd Appreciatethe help. Thanks.

I'm glad I could be of some help to you. My boyfriend (virgo) betrayed me for another, which just about devastated me beyond anything. It's almost 6 months now - and though the pain is still there, I know in my heart I have to let go for my own well being. It's been such a process. I haven't spoke to him either in all this time, although he's made efforts, I just can't. I know he feels guilty - anywone with a heart would. TRUST is so important (especially for a cancer)- without it in a relationship - we die!
Keep in touch!

It's very important to a taurus too, trust that is. Part of all of us will always
be in love to some extend with all that we have been with.
It's important that as people we learn what we need to take from that ended relationship
to put into the next relationship. It helps let go some too.
thanks
from
kosmo.

I think the final part of healing after the forgiving -is letting go. That was the hardest for me. I did all this in my heart - not with my ex to his face. I knew I really couldn't. We haven't spoke or seen each other in months. I did get an email from 2 1/2 months ago, wishing me the very best and to take good care of myself. I think for him it was a "letting go" also. We both had no idea what the other went thru with the healing process. For me, it was devastating, for him - I imagine the same. We had a very comforting relationship - a true bonding - it's quite a shame. It's all in God's hands. We were two ships that past in the night. It's sad.