For the first time I feel rejected :(

My original post:I develop a bond with this guy . Everyone feels we should me together. But I enjoy his friendship and I'm just taking it day by day . He takes the initiative to call me Everyday to make sure I'm safe and to see about how I'm doing. He tells me everything ! Some days he expresses how good of a friend I am , or once he said you're a really good friend to me something like a sister . which is confusing for me because he is always staring at me, once he stared so hard that I turned around and he didn't even look away. He always ask about my past relations with people , and he once said he needed to know for future reference Lol. He is kind of possessive in a way also ( but not disrespectful or overbearing ) this week we were talking and I said to him I never respond to people I look at their actions and he said you should let people know how u feel about them if you truly care about them and that would give them the confidence to address you . All week I've been thinking about that I want to let him know how I feel, but I don't know how to, and I'm a little afraid ...Do you think he likes me? Or interested? And should Iet him know how I feel yet.


Last night me were having a conversation and I said it would be hard to date a friend because I would be afraid how things would be if it didn't work out. His reply was that I didnt have to worry about him pushing up on him . He felt that we would be best as friends , because going from a friendship to a relationship puts a strain on things and you start feeling a way about things that u wouldn't feel about if u were just friends things like " why your not answering the phone" " why does this person need space"?....After he said this I instantly felt rejected , and also kind of misled after all the things he has said .

He is a Sun Cancer/ Venus Gemini
I'm a Sun Pisces/ Venus aqua

you are being played girl.... thats straight from a caner sun venus gemini..we do this all the time! love is a game for us! but he might still like you..you should put things on the table...be direct with him and then tell us what he replies.

I will should I do it when I see him face to face? May I ask why do u think I'm getting played? He may just not like me

i ll tell you something... we love the chase..but if it happens reverse then we lose interest very quickly... talk face to face...if he says still be friends but be a bit distant... he wil come back to you.

I have a ? Do you think he possibly said that because I said I really wasn't all for friends dating each other ?
The last sentence was a little hard to make out did u say if he wants to be just friends be distant?

i mean talk with him face to face... if he says he just wants to stay friends..then be a bit distant he ll come back chasing....guarandamnted!

Posted by krebbsmann
i ll tell you something... we love the chase..but if it happens reverse then we lose interest very quickly... talk face to face...if he says still be friends but be a bit distant... he wil come back to you.

I have a Venus in Gemini too. Spot on. I don't like it when someone comes on too strongly to me. If they chase me too much, I totally lose interest.

I didn't chase . I would say I answered all his calls ( he calls about 5-6 days out of the week) he may or gotten too comfortable . Would makes me feel a little uneasy regarding this situation is I don't understand why he would say these things to me if he just looked at me as a friend and nothing more, and even if I made a comment regarding being a little scared to date a friend , I felt he should have kept it real even he felt a way . I do plan on meeting up with him, which is weird because all he does is stare at me if he is not laughing at something I said lol

don't be too avlaible... play the game! we love the game! ;p

I made myself not available . he called and for the first time I didn't answer. That night he called back to back . The next night He called again back to back but I missed that call on accident because I went to sleep early. The next day he calls again lol and I answered that call he didn't even say hello he had an aggressive tone and said " what's going on with you ". I replied I haven't been feeling well and I've been going to sleep early. He then said I hope you're feeling better and then throws in the side comment I hope you weren't ignoring me ... I was silent , then in the middle of our convo he kind of started an argument with me about me being secretive. By the end of our convo things became light, and we were both laughing .one more strange thing when he was talking to me I heard his homeboy ask him " was he okay he looked down" he replied calmly he was ok. I then asked him was everything fine , he just said he was thinking about something and I left it at that . After that he said he would call me the next day in which he usually kepts his word. It's been 2 days est I heard from him. His absence tells me he is interested in me , no guy that looks at a girl as a friend ( something like a sister) is gonna follow suit with the whole ignoring thing . Thanks krebbsman for your help guarantee he'll be calling tonight

good.. now dont answer that call... and make some lame ass excuse the next day if he asks! :p
i m moon in scorp and mars in aries. but i do feel like a gem in love than cancer.

Lol I don't wanna do that , he'll more than likely call more than once, I just won't answer the first call but I'll answer the second one. I don't want this to be about game, even though I'm doing this now. I do plan on talking to him about a few things when we see each other face to face