Fucking. Help me. Before I explode.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/pisces-are-terrible-people-5366353/ If u wanna kno what happened. But anyways my cancer bf is driving me insane. Hes upset and keeps finding reasons to blame me for things and nag me. He keeps disregarding EVERTHIG I say about caring about him and loving him, he keeps saying that he doesn understand why I stick around with him and that he's not worth it and annoying shit. Get get depressed, I get he's extra emotional considering his whole chart pretty much contains pisces and crab, but I can't fucking take it, I refuse to break up with him and neither of us can handle a day not talking but I can't take it anymore. How do I make him happy—? He just doesn't take anythig good

I won't be happy ending it -_- he just needs to learn to man the hell up. If I end it I'll lose talking to my best friend. He's literally the only person I talk to on a daily basis

YOU can't make anyone happy but yourself. Everyone is responsible for their own happiness. Everyone has the choice of how they will handle disappointments in life, etc. It's your bf's choice on how he wants to feel.

I want to learn to help him without ending it. But he is toxic >😢

I know but I can't handle him getting mad at me for getting mad at him fit making me feel like shit

Here this is the mere example of what's going on right now. In a matter of four minutes he went from apologising to me for making me feel horrible all fucking day yesterday, wether or not it was my fault, and then even though I already told him I deleted him, he says this pretty much so I can feel shitty again. I don't fucking get it >😢
Here's his chart if you're curious;
Rising: Pisces
Sun: Cancer
Moon: Pisces
Mercury: Cancer
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Libra...that's all I remember

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Posted by Hotbeefy
Girl, I know you want to fight for this, but is it seriously worth fighting even that he makes you feel shit?

If a boy treat you a girl than a gentleman treat you a woman. Then you have to think twice who you are dealing with.

Plus a person who claims to be best friend and talking daily, what kind of friend is he really?

I'm the, don't put up with shit, type of girl. I defiantly get on his ass about thigs as I do anyone. He's a really sweet guy and everyone knows it, he just has major issues emotionally right now and I caught him in the middle of it. And it would be really bad if I did go because all his friends are potheads and he hates weed so they all pretty much ditched him and he literally stays in his room and only talks to me all ALL DAY. It's sad. But he refuses to be friends with anyone on his school, refuses to do anything new, and just wants to talk all the time. I feel bad for him and he's really getting depressed but ta his own fault. I jus aNt to help him back to bormal

My chart:
Rising: libra
Sun: Pisces
Moon: aquarius
Mercury: aries
Venus: aries
Mars: scorpio

Posted by Hotbeefy
Did he told you why is he in emotionally or depressed?

Yes. He's depressed about his life and all his friends pretty much ditching him for weed, he's stressed out about graduation, he's upset now that his family believed him sociopathic lying sister and don't approve of us anymore, and random shut he keeps rambling on about. My life is literally about 100x worst Aand more depressing and I don't go around complaining to him all the time being an emotional fuck 😱 it's overwhelming I feel like I need constant sleep and I feel sick. I'm drained

Best to leave him alone the guy is a mess he's unhappy in his life and will drag you down with him he needs to figure out his butter.

I'm a Cancer man when I got stuff going on in my life I need to work on it alone I don't need people helping me.

@Stihl I'm a crab also and when I'm going through shit, I don't want my man walking away from me in my time of need.
Yes, he's an emotional basketcase BUT thats when you have to exercise patience, love and understanding.
Come up with a plan to get him get him to smile each day.
Get him to look at something positive in his life, like something that he has or a position that he's in (college) that others don't have the opportunity to achieve. Get him to look on the bright side of life.
Pray for him and pray also for the strength it will take to be there for him.
Tell him life is beautiful and in time his struggles, pains and disappointments shall pass.
Tell him you love him and that you wanna help him get through this phase but you can't do it for him and he gotta at least try and push through the pain.
In all of this remain strong and don't let his pain become yours...remember why you're there to be a rock and an example for him to follow.

After what happened I felt it's best for him to take a break from us for a bit so he wouldn't get shit on from his family. I blocked him everywhere

You all helped me ALOT 🙂 thank you fellow water signs