Gosh There Goes His Moodswing Again!!!

gosh god help me...he's acting distant again. I send him an IM and he didn't response so I figured he wasn't on his yahoo messenger. Then a hour later I saw him signed off. Anybody uses yahoo knows they can use steath setting to not show themselves. Well he did that once in a while. Some time I see him online sometimes I dont. What the heck was he thinking anyway when he saw my msg online but not responsed. yeah i know he's not in the mood but that makes me frustrated. Sometimes I wanna just not talk to him till he comes to me but I can't, thnking that he might needed me. Sometimes I wonder maybe I'm being overly too nice to him? Does cancerian take people for granted? But besides his moodswings, he's a great man so I'm willing to go these extra miles for him but it just gets so tired and lonely sometimes....I know deep inside he cares for me...

Some cancerians do tak epeople for granted when they are hurt,some use people. But give the man some space. Cook him something ,he'll melt in your arms. And just look at him seductively.

Well semperfibabe, at least you are sure that deep inside your cancer cares for you. I aware how my cancer guy feels about me ... Yes, indeed they have moodswings (these are the times where they prefered not to be bothered ... no matter how much you want to be with them). Yes, I totally understand. Sometimes I just want to say the heck with him but then I start to believe that he may need me too ... ugh! I still wonder why in the h*% $ he came into my life ... I hope it will all pan out for the both of us. Remember, it took my cnacer guy three weeks to communicate with me. So if your guy isn't one of those "playa" type guys then you have nothing to worry about. Unfortunately and suprisingly my cancer guy told me all about himself ... hopefully he will change when he realizes how much of an idoit he has become. But I doubt it will be anytime soon. Just make sure that you tell him that he makes you feel insecure when he does things like that, but I also think that giving him some space is a good thing too.

Daemon: "Cook him something ,he'll melt in your arms. And just look at him seductively"

That was cute. Sorry, but after refusing to communicate for about three weeks he will get no more meals from me anytime soon ... he kinda ruined that.

haha thanks guys for making me laugh again. I was so down last nite even till now I completely shut myself down. All I did was eat and sleep. yeah that's a way i fight my frustrations sometimes,especially when your family member picked a fight with you then it just makes everything 100% worse. I need to have my man with me when I'm down...but the sad thing is we are 10 hours apart. I would wish I can make him so nice dinner and seduce him big time...sigh. I still feel hurt when I think bout how he would just ignore my IM and not talking to me. I mean I know sometimes I talk to much(but he never complains and would always spent hrs chatting with me, even when he was in Iraq lol)but even if he's not in the mood, he could at least say "hey sweetie, I'm gonna go log off i'll talk to you later" you know. I dont know when I dont feel like talkin to him I would send him a message telling him i want some time off...but he never does that. Why oh why are we in love with cancer men?

I left him a message and told him that it bothers me that he's "ignoring" me and that I think I've made myself too available to him and hope he's not taking me for granted. Does it sounds like a confrontation? I bet he would said oh sweetie everything is fine stop being silly. Sometimes I wonder how long would I be able to take this? I wish I can get into his mind and know him inside out. I hate mind games its just so not make sense and wasting time and it's so emotional draining. Just few days ago he was like oh I miss you so much blah blah blah arghhhhh I'm going insane here. It really takes alot to love a cancerian. Lucky him that I'm a taurus so I'm not gonna give up unless I have what i want lol

can you belive this?!? After my msg bout 10 min he send me offline messages cause I logged off...he send me FOUR messages yes four!!! Like I said he said I was silly that he just missed my IM,and that he went to bed earlier cause he wasnt feeling good and then that sometimes he get booted. Hmmm, so that showes he does really care and worry if I get upset at him, huh? Well, I was glad I told him how I feel otherwise I proabably would keep wondering why he acted like that. Thanks guys you guys are great tks for the supports. Well, another thing, how would cancerian guy react if he sees me here "discussing" stuffs bout us? I know he could be very secretive and value privacy alot...so I hope if he ever came across this forum, he's not gonna be mad that I made it pubic lol well babe, you know I just wanted to know all about you but you are not sharing lol

what sign are u?

as TC hehe we are the same

TAURUS! 😛

Or maybe it varies. Does blood type makes a cancer less or more like a cancer? Because I really don't see that much of cancer personality in my bf. Yeah I mean, he could be distant sometimes when he got things occupying him. But as far as I'm concerned, I think he's a pretty nice cancer boy, overall rating 🙂 Yeah, I asked him bout the "takin for granted" thing and he gets all emotional and seemed pretty upset. Then, I know he's not the type. Sometimes I feel like he's in his own little world, you have to patient with him for him to open up to you. I don't think I would take advantage of my cancer man, because he's the man, the one and only man I want in my life.

BTW, does cancer guys realize that they are so attracitve to females? I mean, my man is so cute and shy when I said he's a hottie. He doesn't think that he's hot but he is HOT!!! On the other hand, he's very confident guy with his line of duty(he's my proud marine 🙂)So that makes him ever more sexier!!!

Taurus women,lol.It's like we attract each other easily and den uh fuck each other. No i don't know i'm hot.i being cancer,and yes i can still say some, watch the word"some" cancers do take people for granted. It's the way they were brought up. ANd i'm chatty too at times.Quiet at times, at times i feel i have gemini in me. They say cancers kinda absorb the emotions or some traits of the other signs when we around them. As for keeping distant it's our way of figuring things out.