LMAO, I still pop in from time to time and was amused that that old thread made front page again lol

You do realise this is a 10 year old thread that someone pulled up again?

He was a total jerk and hadn't grown up at all..Tbh I think he just wanted to scratch an itch and catfished me into believing his BS. Wasn't a very nice experience for me in the end left me hurt and bitter for a while, I worked through it but didn't have any contact with him at all. That was 10 years ago now and I saw him for the first time again last Xmas..He was trying the same BS but he just looked desperate now hes getting older and didn't effect me.

One of lifes lessons for me, he was a leo and true to nature.

He was a total jerk and hadn't grown up at all..Tbh I think he just wanted to scratch an itch and catfished me into believing his BS. Wasn't a very nice experience for me in the end left me hurt and bitter for a while, I worked through it but didn't have any contact with him at all. That was 10 years ago now and I saw him for the first time again last Xmas..He was trying the same BS but he just looked desperate now hes getting older and didn't effect me.

One of lifes lessons for me, he was a leo and true to nature.

Too frustrating for me, the initial attraction is there but ive had to to be the one instigating. Once or twice I don't mind but imo that's the man's job! They are what they are....slippery little treetrunkers!

You're right it was a definite NO!!!

Lol, actually it's all about us and less about you. We've lived our lives putting everyone ahead of ourselves and finally come to the realisation it's time to do us! FYI, never paid for anyone and wouldnt, imo, a man should still be the man.

Taurus for me, long time friends, but maybe because i am taurus rising, Libras and Aquas always become solid friends.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

Posted by sweethearts
She passed away Nov 27th 2017, her husband Smokey informed everyone here.

Was reading one of her final postings, love it!


There is no end to things. Leaving the physical body isn't death. A boy leaving you in a relationship isn't death, losing your job isn't either.

You pick up your shattered pieces, shoulder them the best you can ..... and keep moving forward. But, it's not an ending. this is the main suffering for people, it seems. They try to live for the final, as if this is as far as it rabbit hole goes ... and it's not, not even close.

So long as you think it is all there is, then you'll never be looking to the horizon and you'll likely miss tomorrow.

Life doesn't stop with death of the flesh

Classic P.

Glad to see you around sweethearts btw!

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Just popped in because another Pisces is doing my head in and a dose of P would have done me some good 😂

Hope you're well @boomshakalaka still trolling the threads? 😋 😘

I haven't read the whole thread...just went to read some of her last words

She passed away Nov 27th 2017, her husband Smokey informed everyone here.

Was reading one of her final postings, love it!


There is no end to things. Leaving the physical body isn't death. A boy leaving you in a relationship isn't death, losing your job isn't either.

You pick up your shattered pieces, shoulder them the best you can ..... and keep moving forward. But, it's not an ending. this is the main suffering for people, it seems. They try to live for the final, as if this is as far as it rabbit hole goes ... and it's not, not even close.

So long as you think it is all there is, then you'll never be looking to the horizon and you'll likely miss tomorrow.

Life doesn't stop with death of the flesh

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Posted by Black-Mamba
I dont' care if an Asian woman is young, old, hella old, racist

they all have traits that I find elusive in many women today, plus they're the extreme opposite of me

1) They are disciplined in everything they do, whether ART, or Managing a company

2) They are soft spoken, extremely soft spoken

3) They are kind/sweet to one another, I especially love watching them with their friends, and groups, very community oriented


The only thing i noticed i didn't like is that sometimes they are too soft spoken and those who are here for school or whatever smoke alot

i noticed a few of them smoking outside of Art class the other day...

Hahahahaha this is so stereotypical. 😂 sorry!

Asian women are all over a range. Yes they may act more polite but that’s totally different from their actual personality.

You cant really tell from superficial interaction.

A lot of societal pressure gets put on them to behave certain ways and many get around that by living a double life/double way of interacting with their group vs. their family and strangers or acquantances. And I don’t mean that in a derogatory or mean way. It’s just the submissive sweet Asian woman thing is severely over played.


Also - there’s a huge difference between Asian women from Asia vs. those raised abroad.

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Exactly, a public facade. At home we’re Queenbee and you do as you’re told, no arguments!

She was a cookiemonster for many a times good reason because some of us have our heads so far up our arses making excuses for our actions we don’t want to hear the truth. I experienced that in the beginning with her and then I talked more and also saw how she helped others. Sorely missed here, one of DXP’s greats for sure. RIP “P”

Not at all. They are protecting their nest egg for whatever reason, could be children or the fact they are stepping into something quicker than they think with you. Once married then that would be a different story IMO.
I had a pre-nup with an ex partner and in hindsight was thankful I did...only because it didn't complicate anything when we split.

You do realise that is what tartar is don’t you? And over a period caused tooth decay...

I have a sensitive nose especially for bad breathe and probably due to having had gum disease myself and understanding that it’s a sign of the disease however I’ve noticed a lot of people have it too. It’s hard to keep a conversation when you’re trying to hold your breathe because of the smell, makes me want to wear a Michael Jackson mask like other asians do. Is my nose just super sensitive or is this common?

You went through his phone?????

Posted by Lioness18881

Posted by sweethearts
It seriously does in this neck of the woods and this day and age...

Girls and Guys screw on the first met, not even on a date! They’re out and meet someone they like and wham bam it’s done and dusted. If a guy even asks you out on a one on one date is different these days. I’m not talking online either. I’m speaking meeting someone randomly that you click with and where from there.

Haven't seen you post in a while. I thought you left.

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Hi 👋
I pop in and out to see what’s happening around the boards. So many have gone and it changes the dynamics of the place. Hope you’re well

It seriously does in this neck of the woods and this day and age...

Girls and Guys screw on the first met, not even on a date! They’re out and meet someone they like and wham bam it’s done and dusted. If a guy even asks you out on a one on one date is different these days. I’m not talking online either. I’m speaking meeting someone randomly that you click with and where from there.