sweethearts joined March 24, 2006
female from Gold Coast, Australia
- Had a Scorp guy send me a song once, Whitney Houston’s “I have nothing “ then he proceeded to carry on his life with someone else he had been seeing 😂 don’t think they are that deep tbh
- @WarAngel your voice is sexy
but probably because to me you have an accent and accents are always sexy 🔥 Posted by WarAngel
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Posted by WarAngel
Thread title explains it all. 😎
😂 thanks for that, love the analogy of the dog... makes perfect sense!
Since the other thread is kind of slow, I'm here to answer your questions either by text or vocaroo depending on what kind of answer is required.
If I can't answer you, I'll be honest about it. ❤️
Do guys go through things over and over in their minds as we woman do? Sometimes I’ve gone through reading texts again, just to make sure I was on the right page.. and then I’ve realised I read things wrong.
https://voca.ro/fBVYANme5PDclick to expandPosted by WarAngel
Thread title explains it all. 😎
Since the other thread is kind of slow, I'm here to answer your questions either by text or vocaroo depending on what kind of answer is required.
If I can't answer you, I'll be honest about it. ❤️
Do guys go through things over and over in their minds as we woman do? Sometimes I’ve gone through reading texts again, just to make sure I was on the right page.. and then I’ve realised I read things wrong.- If you say so, you’d know but I’ve had a FWB and haven’t had this much emotion or concern with any of them. In fact the only time we met up was to meet have a few drinks/dinner and then sex and then leaving straight after. No texting or keeping in contact afterwards.
- This isn’t a dig at you, it’s an observation but you stated he was a FWB which you mutually decided. I think for you, it’s a lot more than that and I think you need to admit that to yourself first and before meeting with him so you know what it is you are asking him for.
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Posted by Vlora93
Pisces who were unemployed, drank too much and blamed everyone else for their problems. ( all 3 said they were not where they wanted to be in life at the time, lived at home and were dating instead of looking for jobs ) asked me out and wanted me to pay for dates and one of them wanted to marry me and move in too.
just curious... did all 3 pisces asked you to solely pay for the dates?
and the other one who wants to move in just don't wanna pay rent?
i've known 2 pisces guys like this... very cheap, used me for money like i'm kinda surprised actually that they have that nature but i guess it makes sense when they're unemployed but idk like the guys i'm talking about aren't even really unemployed but they keep a really tight fist on their money.click to expand
Are they really?? Hate tight arse guys!- Isn’t it you that needs to continue making the stand and not sit around worrying about whether he is coming back?
He’s an addict, you’ve left so he can sort himself out. If he doesn’t you keep walking??
Also, how does your daughter have no involvement if you were living together? Curious Posted by GemiAwesomeAss
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Why is it for a limited time, are you going somewhere?
Why? You’ll miss him because he is...______________click to expand
No questions, no one on my radar. Don’t know who he is. 🤷♀️- Why is it for a limited time, are you going somewhere?
Posted by MyStarsShine
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?
One was jealous because she wanted the guy so she spoke to his mum. Then my mates friends, spoke with her and suggested, if it is only for fun just drop the whole thing. They pretty much were insistent.
What do you do? You talk to your other friends and then you weigh up... is it worth the drama? It’s a vicious circle ⭕️, anyway, they aren’t messaging anymore. Seen this happen before. It’s messy!
Sometimes fun between two consenting adults is good 😀. The most fun ive had is with younger men.
Spoke to his mum? He’s a man not a child and its nothing to do with anyone else who he chooses to be with
Some people hey? 🥴click to expand
Yes but when you’re around the same age as their parents. Not sure how old they were but it’d be Close.
Plus, it’s still like high school. People are always up in everyone else’s business, no matter what age you are. Some people can’t help themselves and want to gossip and stir butter!- lol, I can be a pain in the arse at times but if any guy ever told me to “leave him alone” and “there’s no point” I’d believe him!
Next person you meet control your emotional tantrums. Posted by MyStarsShine
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by sweethearts
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.
But the guy is an adult so why was his family getting involved?click to expand
One was jealous because she wanted the guy so she spoke to his mum. Then my mates friends, spoke with her and suggested, if it is only for fun just drop the whole thing. They pretty much were insistent.
What do you do? You talk to your other friends and then you weigh up... is it worth the drama? It’s a vicious circle ⭕️, anyway, they aren’t messaging anymore. Seen this happen before. It’s messy!Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by sweethearts
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.
Well we all know how stuffed society is. As long as both are legal consenting adults, who cares about age.click to expand
Say that when you’ve been in that position. It’s not as easy.
Recently a friend was texting a guy in his 20’s, she is 46. People got involved, got the family involved. Long story short, she’s in tears, friendships are fractured... all for what? They were entertaining the idea.Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Can I just remind people that there are many couples with huge age gaps. 20 is a lot yes, remember Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher had 16 years between them. And yes I know this differs from person to person, not everyone dates outside of their age with such huge gaps.
BUT....
Why is it acceptable for a 50 year old man to have a young wife of 28 (and no I don't want gold digging comments) but its not OK for a 50 year old woman to have a 28 year old husband?
It just is, it’s the way society is and families and friends have a lot to say about it.Posted by AriesNYBrooklyn
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Definitely don’t do anything you’ve suggested! Wait till you bump into her again and see if she Is into you. You’ll know if she is, and if you don’t see it. It probably isn’t there. If she’s in her 40’s the gap is doable but if she’s in her 50’s probably not even a consideration. She’ll have kids your age!
A general conversation of weather and day to day small talk would be a better way to start before full on hitting her up on a date. Don’t be in such a rush.
She doesn’t gave any kids so she doesn’t have that mental package “oh no he’s like my son”click to expand
And she hasn’t got any friends that have kids your age?? Trust me, I am off that age and I have friends that also feel and think that when the situation arises. Woman are frowned upon if they date younger unlike men. 10 years... ok but 20 or more??? You really stop and think!- Why are you allowing these guys to pick you? You should be the one choosing who you date. If you don’t feel anything from the get go, listen to yourself and don’t go. Dating out of boredom clearly doesn’t get you anywhere.
Now, If there is someone that interests you, then that’s the person you go on a date with. Chances of it being more successful is because there is some type of chemistry to begin with. - Definitely don’t do anything you’ve suggested! Wait till you bump into her again and see if she Is into you. You’ll know if she is, and if you don’t see it. It probably isn’t there. If she’s in her 40’s the gap is doable but if she’s in her 50’s probably not even a consideration. She’ll have kids your age!
A general conversation of weather and day to day small talk would be a better way to start before full on hitting her up on a date. Don’t be in such a rush. Posted by pinkbird03
I dated a similar Pisces. He wouldn’t let me in or get close to him. Yet we talked multiple times a week and saw each other only a little bit. He eventually pulled away and I moved on too. It’s been 3 months now. However! Not long ago he reached out to say sorry and he wanted another chance if I was single and he blamed himself for everything. I actually felt bad! Poor guy. I think it’s their nature to swim back and forth.
And did you give him that second chance? Sadly, They all seem to be like this from what others have experienced and shared here.
