sweethearts joined March 24, 2006
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Posted by twinkletoes
kind of unrelated, but why do girls just post their hair pics on tinder or back of head pics?? i'm not trying to stare at the back of somebody's head.
They do it because they are representing a silhouette of themselves but don’t want you to just go off their face looks. I think it’s a teaser thing and they think it’s sexy idk my gf has pics like this up on insta and a dating site.Posted by _Dazed
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Posted by _Dazed
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Every man is different with different needs and wants.
What attracts you to a women @dazed?
Above average cooking ability.
What do you give back? What are your many qualities?
Cooking is an easy feat, majority of women that love food know how to cook and cook well. In fact, we know it’s the way to a man’s heart or at least that’s what we are taught.
I take everything and give nothing in return. Only the strong shall survive.click to expand
Your single right?- Listen to these two ^^^
Hold your head up and leave that idiot high and dry! Posted by LadyNeptune
Ime men like being useful. Its part of their love language.
So once in awhile throw him a bone and let him open the pickle jar because I's too weeeaaakkk
*collapses on fainting couch
Id rather he wash my car.
Tbh, when I was married, I always asked my husband to do things for me/us and our home. Once I asked if he could moving pavers that had been left at the front door. After weeks of them sitting there, I moved them myself. 🙄 guess I have my own answer.Posted by TheSag
These articles are bullbutterting women and even more men. Men have been taught to feel needed, it's not that they necessarily want to be needed.
Yeah, I guess it’s all about sales, you click into some of them and they go round and round about certain things but in order to get the answers, you need to put your CC up.Posted by aquarius_man_
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So far it looks like most articles are wrong.. but are they? Anyone here that likes rescuing a lady?
And what do you really think of self sufficient confident woman?
I like rescuing the self sufficient woman 👩click to expand
I’m living in the dark... working hard all day and no one to change my light bulbs 😉- So far it looks like most articles are wrong.. but are they? Anyone here that likes rescuing a lady?
And what do you really think of self sufficient confident woman? Posted by Dead_Kermit
I want a Bonnie or Harley.... I'm an us against the rest of the world kind of person, who wouldn't want their partner also being their best friend.
Love that! It’s the way I think.
I like it a lot! 😉Posted by _Dazed
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Posted by _Dazed
Every man is different with different needs and wants.
What attracts you to a women @dazed?
Above average cooking ability.click to expand
What do you give back? What are your many qualities?
Cooking is an easy feat, majority of women that love food know how to cook and cook well. In fact, we know it’s the way to a man’s heart or at least that’s what we are taught.Posted by WarAngel
Nah, they are mostly full of butter.
So you’re not going to find me irresistible if I need you to change my lightbulb or rescue me from a guy giving me unwanted attention or someone that is bullying me. You won’t want to wrap me up in your strong arms to nurture me??Posted by _Dazed
Every man is different with different needs and wants.
What attracts you to a women @dazed?Posted by Antiphates
Not for me.
If I feel needed my red alert goes off and I'll start guarding my walls.
I don't like being seen or treated as a tool.
Additionally, and that one is probably the core of my dislike for this is that it communicates to me that any interest in me or the relationship will only last as long as I fullfill that need of hers and that's not something I would be interested in within a romantic relationship. If I want that kind of relationship I can always get it via jobs or within groups.
That’s the way I’d feel, if someone needs me to rescue them it’s not the foundation to the relationship I’d want, in fact it tells me they can’t do things themselves or they are lazy and have been mothered too much and always been taken care of.
However, dozens of articles say a man needs to feel needed. These are from psychologists and research..
So am I getting it wrong in the way I think what being needed really means? Is it more simple like honey, can you change this light bulb for me... you’re so manly I can’t live without you....?Posted by _Dazed
@iamnotbot Your expertise is needed.
Not interested in hearing from him! Need more credible feedback!- Are they true?
They say men want to be needed, they want to rescue their SO and feel that they are needed.
In contrast, I always hear they love confidence in a woman spoken from their own lips.
So which is it really?
In what ways do you want to feel needed? What sort of vulnerability does a woman Possess to you that makes you want to rescue her? - Go for gold, it’s a meeting and you have mutual friends. Have you asked anyone about him?
- Our birthdays are every month from July, so youngest 4th child is Cancer, no 1 oldest is Leo, no 2 is Virgo, I’m 3 a libra and mother is Scorp.
I get on with all of them but they are all brothers, mum and I clash at times but not a lot. The Leo and Virgo clash but it’s because the Leo is jealous of him. - Least, Virgo’s and Capricorn, I just don’t find them stimulating conversationalists, the ones I’ve met anyway.
Most, Pisces and Scorpio’s - What’s he done now? I haven’t put news on this morning.
