Happy New Year!!!! I Married My Cancer Man!!

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CapricornLaurie
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13 YearsCapricorn

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I'm so happy!!! I married my cancer man!! I just wanted to share this post to say that cancers are amazing signs, at least for Capricorns, and that a good cancer should never be let go.

Cancers and Capricorns are opposite zodiac signs so it can be a hit or miss depending on the signs and charts. We worked out though. One thing I think was the hardest for us to overcome was my stubbornness and his moodiness. When I'm stubborn I need instant gratification and when he's moody he tends to withdraw and ignore whatever issue's I've got nagging. I've learned to give him space when he's moody and not to take it personally. Whatever is bothering him usually works itself out in his head and he bounces back in a few hours like nothing was wrong at all. He's learned to present things to me as a compromise so that, even if I don't agree 100% , I can at least see it as a halfway agreement.

It took me a long while to get used to the bartering system that Cancer's like to use. The "I gave you something, now you give me something" tactic that a lot of people confuse for guilt manipulation. Trust me, once you learn how emotional cancer's are, that tactic will cease to work. Capricorns are known to put their foot down and we make sure we get what we give. As long as it's fair the barter system can work.

I love how family oriented and loyal Cancer's can be. Once they're in love, they're in love and it's unlikely they will need outside affection. I've seen other signs need affection from multiple sources to feed their ego. Cancer's are pretty humble. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Some of the wilder signs might need constant pull and push to create excitement but Cancer's are kind of mellow and too much too soon will keep them in their shell.

They will never tell you 100% of what they are thinking. It's rare if they do. So don't pry, over time, you'll just know. Some of their emotions are hard for them to express through words, let their actions speak for themselves.

I love my cancer man because I'm always feeling uptight and he's the only person I can relax around. I'll by flying around the house cleaning or fixing something or doing something random because I always need to be doing something, and he'll just hug me and tell me to relax and I will.

I think cancer's are diamonds in the rough, not fully understood, but well worth keeping around. Good luck to everyone pursuing their cancers and Happy New Year!!!
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AllanBeau
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18 Years

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Wish you the best! Thanks for writing that wonderful post. Capricorn and Cancer make a perfect union. These two signs can have a hard time connecting at the start but when these opposites come together they both provide what the other is truly desiring in a partner. I've had some pretty intense relationships with Capricorn that have felt fated as if it where destined that we were to meet. I believe Cancer has the ability to make Capricorn open up like they have never felt before. We can make you guys laugh and not be so serious :p . Both signs have a lot in common beneath the exterior. They seem to understand each other very well. Both partners are home loving. There is no sign which places so much importance on home and family than the Cancerian. They will each strive towards security and they both have a basically cautious and careful outlook on life.Cancer encourages them to be driven and determined in whatever aims they choose. This shocks Capricorn and makes them realize and see how much they mean to Cancer.

Both are moody and can relate.

Capricorns can save us when we drown in our own emotions. We can laugh together. We can handle the rough times too when things aren't going so well. Able to make each others feel secure in any given situation. AND most importantly we both know how to make each other's feel loved and appreciated.

Im glad I read a good story about a Cancer and a Capricorn Union.