Hello Hightide..........

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Posted by littlearcher
i'd love to know anything about a sagittarius girl with a cancer.....

fire and water combo



Hi all... I do not believe it is fair to put High Tide on the spot. He is in fact a breath of fresh air around here. imo

He does not advocate walking on eggshells... like most of the previous years posts have advocated... which I have never adhered to. Want to be a doormat... walk on eggshells. My motto.. is show no fear...and they "Cancers'" start walking on those eggshells. 😛 Better them then us... Have your running shoes ready for the exit door at all times.

I suggest that if you have something specific you would like him to address... He will gladly respond. Start new threads outlining the issues at hand... rather then open ended "What do you think" Just saying.



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Well thank you all, I just try to tell it like it is. I always appreciate when someone does that for me.

I have been told that when I am at my best, I can be the life of the party, the one that people like to be around and admire.But when I am at my worst, I am truly the black sheep of the zodiac. The one that went too far and the one who is now impossible to deal with.

I think the Cancer man has to learn that he is ruled by a powerful female energy and the mixture it has with male testoterone needs to be balanced before the crab finds himself alone on the beach with no one who wants to put up with him anymore.

The Cancer man can have the love, security and warm fittings he wants in his life if he just realizes he has to put people first before his emotions. In return, the Male Crab can be given all those things he desires because people will then give that to him without him asking and not because he went through the ridiculous process of trying to force it out of someone.
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Also wanted to add what I have learned as a Cancer Man through my experience with the rest of the zodiac.

Aqaurius are intrigued by us because we possess the emotional capacity they wish they had even though they are water bearers and are familiar with water. We are intrigued how they managed to overcome things that would be emotionally devastating to us.

Leo's are our biggest cheerleaders, they know the good things we are capable of and want to see us at our best.

Gemini's show us that we take life so seriously and not to always live in our ignorant bubble.

Virgo's are our teachers, they teach us that our emotional manipulation and our brutal form of love aren't going to thrive in a successful relationship

Pisces teach us that we are not alone in our emotional struggle throughout life.

Taurus are like the long lost cousin we though we had nothing in common with.

Aries teach us that without self-esteem, u can't get to where you really want to go in life.

Libras are like our sports coaches. They are good at showing us what we are doing wrong on some of our thought patterns without hurting our feelings. They help us get through our paranoia and how to bring out our social side.

Sagittarius show us how to channel our emotions through the mind and not just the heart.

Scorpios quietly respect us because we understand why their stinger is never far from the attack position.

Capricorns show us how much fun can be found in the little things of life.
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@HighTide

You are truly a gem around here... Where the heck have you been.

You are truly selfless...in expressing what I have always believed to be the truth about Cancer Men.

If I had to deal with mine like I've been reading for a few years now.... I would have gone balistic... better yet... he should have never contacted me ever... after what I have stated to him... But he did... so go figure 😛
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ok... HighTide...

After 4.5 years of BS coming from a childish version of a cancer... Do I have the right to send him to the curb... by stating that his behavior... represents a useless/loser man —— A behaviour in which I do not adhere to BTW—? Just saying...

What do you believe his reaction would be..accordingly—? He is a Cancer/Leo cusp baby... July 19th...

After all this time... and me making nominal contact (only one chance encounter)... over this time...and always after he has contacted me.. I would expect that he should be doing a lot of soul searching...... but hey I could be wrong..

Any insight will be appreciated.