I certainly wouldn't have a problem with finding another Cancer. Someone that can relate to the emotion is nice. What is this about negative attitudes though. Is this thought to be a prevalent Cancer trait?
That is something that I found very draining with the Cancer (first deacon) I was involved with, always the pessimist, always something wrong and always negative. Well, ok, not always, but the majority of the time. My sister and boss are July 4 Cancers and very much the same way as is my bff's July 3 Cancer. Yeah, negativism runs rampant among them, at least first deacon's in my experience. As a Cappy I think our optimism and grounded perspective is supposed to offset that, but IDK, they don't seem to listen to reason.
Just talking with my ex-Cancer the other night was very trying for me, he kept going on about things and then saying "but, it is what it is". They're depressed souls.
i sure do like my kitties yo. also cancerian pessimism is pretty bad. but im sure us cappys go far beyond even that at times. sometimes i find im very cynical towards others. lucky i dont have those days too often 😆. ahhh the gemini moon...always creatiing an optimistic bubbly nature to myself.
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