Hmmm...

I Dont know. A Cappy guy just wigged me out.We met today at a coffee shop. He came over while i was eating my breakfast,drinking my coffee and trying to hide behind a paper. We started talking, he seemed nice. Than he said "Did you used to live on **** Street,off Mt Vernen"? Im like "Wow, yea why?" he said "We talked on the phone about 4 years ago,we were gonna go out and never did, i never forgot your sexy smile" not sure if i should be creeped out or not! lol.. He is a sherriff for the county i live in, he said sometimes he would patrol my house because he knew my ex was abusive. STRANGE?

Posted by CancerianGoddess
I Dont know. A Cappy guy just wigged me out.We met today at a coffee shop. He came over while i was eating my breakfast,drinking my coffee and trying to hide behind a paper. We started talking, he seemed nice. Than he said "Did you used to live on **** Street,off Mt Vernen"? Im like "Wow, yea why?" he said "We talked on the phone about 4 years ago,we were gonna go out and never did, i never forgot your sexy smile" not sure if i should be creeped out or not! lol.. He is a sherriff for the county i live in, he said sometimes he would patrol my house because he knew my ex was abusive. STRANGE?

He was being such a cappy. Direct to the point no smalltalk and chitchat. and he was looking out for you.

Posted by CancerianGoddess
I Dont know. A Cappy guy just wigged me out.We met today at a coffee shop. He came over while i was eating my breakfast,drinking my coffee and trying to hide behind a paper. We started talking, he seemed nice. Than he said "Did you used to live on **** Street,off Mt Vernen"? Im like "Wow, yea why?" he said "We talked on the phone about 4 years ago,we were gonna go out and never did, i never forgot your sexy smile" not sure if i should be creeped out or not! lol.. He is a sherriff for the county i live in, he said sometimes he would patrol my house because he knew my ex was abusive. STRANGE?

Actually how did you know he was a cappy? hmmm

I asked him his birthday in general conversation at the cafe. He asked if he could join me so we wouldnt be eating breakfast alone. I said "Sure" and i snuck it in there. LOL

Its funny because Capricorn is my polar oppisite and is supposed to be my soulmate sign. The father of the zodiac,and me as the mother of the zodiac, I Have yet to run into one that acts fatherly and loves kids. I have never dated one because every cappy man i ever met was all about sex right off the bat,to the point where they were chasing me and pushing me away. So i never dated one, or slept with one for that matter. I have made out with one and it was awesome. But that was it.

Posted by CancerianGoddess
I asked him his birthday in general conversation at the cafe. He asked if he could join me so we wouldnt be eating breakfast alone. I said "Sure" and i snuck it in there. LOL

CG- i like your style , very cancer. this man i like is just the same, cn get me to talk about anything but is very tight lipped about his life. i need some lessons in this area. BTW i'm new here but have read your posts and am entertained by your input! LOL

Awwwwwwwwwww thank you zj2000, Glad i can make you smile *huggs*. So i ended up giving cappie my number. He called me, and we talked for like 2 hours. I Straight told him, I dont want a FWB or a one night stand. I want a relationship. But i am not quiet ready for one. So he wants to take me out for dinner,wine and conversation. So we'll see. He is pretty easy to talk to, and so far, he hasnt brought up sex. Lucky him!

So we went to a nice restaurant. He picked me,came to my door and waited inside a minute. Opened all my doors. Was a complete gentleman,and he PAID! So he has my cell number, if he texts me he does. If he doesn't he doesn't. Either way i enjoyed being in the presence of a gentleman.

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Awwwwwwwwwww thank you zj2000, Glad i can make you smile *huggs*. So i ended up giving cappie my number. He called me, and we talked for like 2 hours. I Straight told him, I dont want a FWB or a one night stand. I want a relationship. But i am not quiet ready for one. So he wants to take me out for dinner,wine and conversation. So we'll see. He is pretty easy to talk to, and so far, he hasnt brought up sex. Lucky him!

Goody... i am keen to see how things work out. fingers crossed!

Hopefully he is not a totalitarian wearing a mask.

My ex, who is also a Cancer, was fooled by this capricorn psychopath.

When they got married, he took that mask off quickly and showed her who he really is.

Just guard your emotions, and approach with caution.

I am fairly certain there is a litany of women on this site who can personally attest to this statement about capricorn males.

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Was a complete gentleman,and he PAID! So he has my cell number, if he texts me he does. If he doesn't he doesn't.

I'm with a cappy and he is totally a gentlemen and the chemistry between us is unbelievable. We have been together for a year now, but it does take work. I have insecurity issues (imagine that!) and he has little patience with that side of me, but definitely knows how to reassure me 😉.

At the beginning, he was very reserved, cappys tend to be very cautious, so if he doesn't text right away, give him time. Hope it works for you!