Hooking & Sinking...

At a club, I know him from before and like him. Bad idea?
I honestly have NEVER done that before, nor did I ever plan to, but well...lol, what can you do?
He has given me hints, including bringing up the fact one of my friends told him to go ahead and hit on me since I am available.
He is kind of shy, a virgo/leo cusp, mars in taurus and venus in leo.
He ended up texting said friend telling her of this occurance right after we left, she asked if it was a good thing, he responded by saying "why wasn't it a good thing?"
His friend is rooting for me, I don't think that matters much though lol, just nice to say...
Im a cancer/gemini, mars in leo, venus in cancer.
I really do like him, just want to know if this was a bad move...

We saw eachother (our friends are all connected) the next day, it wasn't akward nor was it brought up (thank goodness) and he sat next to me most of the time, looks here and there. But I've read that leo men are supposed to be bold.
I have experience with aquas, sags and tauruses so this one eludes me.

I posted the sign compatibility bit on the leo forum and that went nowhere lol.
I also wanted to know, because being a cancer I'm pretty dry and detached as is, little ways, or bold ways (its summer, I'm trying something new) to show my interest?

Thanks!

Excuse me, I forgot the whole beginning...

I hooked up with a leo, at a club...

Lol.

Well you are a crab, you fear rejection .. that is why your insecurities...i think there is a good chance that something could happen here.....show interest, dont just expect him to do all the moves...test the waters , if you like this Leo, then go for it..don't just wait for it to happen, make it happen!


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ooooo! ur mars and his venus are both in leo? sounds HOT!

anyway, i'm not male but i am also a leo/virgo cusp with a venus in leo. yes, we can be very bold but somewhat elusive at the same time. my virgo moon seems to temper my leo side a bit thus making me more grounded and less showy.

my first bf was a cancer/gem cusp and it was the worst relationship i've had to date. however, we were teens so i wouldn't look too much into it (though i can't stand him to this day). i do get along extremely well with cancers though. show ur interest genuinely, whether big or small. the leo ego will be flattered by the occasional grandiose displays but too much i find suffocating. i like it when interest is verbalized followed by action. what's amazing with leos is that if we receive verbal recognition for anything we've done for u, it's fuel to the fire. be touchy-feely. that's always a good thing! men pick up on that right away but leos especially appreciate it. talk! leos are open books usually.

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Well you are a crab, you fear rejection .. that is why your insecurities...
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Tell me about it!
Half of me is emotional, the other half tries to squeeze it out.

This is the same crab that makes me say, well, he hasn't request me on FB (stupid, I know, but it seems to be where people have the most "face to face" interaction) and he hasn't requested my number...so, I feel like I'm back in highschool again -_-.


And I'm really sorry to hear you still can't stand that cancer/gem ninjamu!
Sounds like my first relationship to my Aqua.

And to put it out there we are both relatively young still (21 to be exact) so we shall see if this is the same thing.

it is sad. we were together for 3 years but it took me a long time to figure out just how much he resembled everything i couldn't tolerate in a significant other. i don't want to dislike him... he just sucks. heh. i broke up with him, hmmm, almost 9 years ago too. i tried to be friends with him again back in '08 (i gave him a shot cuz he was insistent on staying in my life and i figured so much time had passed it would be like making a new friend i'd never met) but he proved quickly that he was still obnoxious as ever if not moreso! he pulled some stupid stunt the first night out and i cut him off for good. i don't blame his sign. he's just a gnarly individual with bad intentions. i'm glad he was my first bf!

Ninjamu, I would send you one of my delicious prunes if I could...lol.

Everything is a learning experience I say 🙂

Updating!

So, our friends went on vacation this past weekend, long story short we ended up hooking up again (for some reason I can't keep away) and he ended up letting me know that he has liked me for a while now, but didn't say anything due to the fact that I'm a bit...crazy, apparently.
I didn't say my part, I think my actions were self-explanatory...
He asked for my number, and me being me I ignored that, he asked me for it again through messaging, and as I was about to text him he did. A bit forward, but not all unpleasant.
So, thats the story 🙂
We texted for a while, then it just died...true, he was the last to text and I never responded but, one day at a time here 🙂
I would love some more info however, something like what to expect more or less if all goes according to signs and such!

Quebom... thanks for the update.

You had me laughing! This weekend, I had a guy friend tell me I'm the strangest women he's ever met... and that EVERYONE thinks so.
Don't they have better things to talk about?
He also asked if I was a lesbian because I don't seem to respond to him or men that hit on me. I told him no, but if that makes him feel better... he can think what he likes.

Reading your post, it's nice to see I'm not alone.

Wish I could help you... I have some Leo guy friends (love them!) and they are all really open. Their egos are pretty fragile, so I try to keep my banter with them light and fluffy. Nothing too personal. I don't think you have to worry much about figuring him out... you're the crazy one, after all.

I also never give out my number. If I'm at all interested, I'll take theirs. They shouldn't expect me to call though...

Haha, ShellShocker I'm glad I served as some entertainment!
I haven't been called a lesbian but I know I'm definately unconventional...