How to catch a cancer mans attention.

I kinda hooked up with this guy... and its not like that i feel all connected to him and wait by the phone for him to call all day long. its just that i feel like that he doesn't pay any attention to me anymore. and i just want him to look at me the same way that he did. what should i do to get this cancer man's eyes back to where they belong, and... lol seduce him once more. just a little more of a way to get him to really start to like me.

Posted by virgogirl0824
I kinda hooked up with this guy... and its not like that i feel all connected to him and wait by the phone for him to call all day long. its just that i feel like that he doesn't pay any attention to me anymore. and i just want him to look at me the same way that he did. what should i do to get this cancer man's eyes back to where they belong, and... lol seduce him once more. just a little more of a way to get him to really start to like me.

Did he lose interest before or after you "kinda hooked up?"

haha after...

virgirl, this is not true of all signs but it is very, very true for Cancers.... do NOT put out too early. It will never be what it was because the dream is shattered, the chase is over. Reality has come crashing down and now there is nothing because there was no foundation built. Cancers are cardinal, and even though we like to remember and dwell on the past we are always moving forward. (maybe sideways and back first) but the goal is always forward.

The goal was probably to hook up with you. Test his limits, boundaries how hard he had to try, seeing what kind of a girl/woman you are etc. etc. Now his goal has been met and it's time to move on to the next... and I'm sorry, it is not continuing to hook up with you. And if he had wanted a relationship with you he would have made that his goal.

that is all

What is this truth or dare? Why do I keep seeing this posted in threads?

ooooh... I just read the Aries thread. She must be young.

I've read about how Virgos don't open up easily and take things slow, and only want to be with people they love. cough *bullshit* :/ Out of the 6 Virgos I know, 3 men 3 women, they all sleep with anything that wants them as long as there is something in it for them. I know that's not a large sample size and to each their own... but come on! That Virgin chasteness, I have yet to see.

WOAH WOAH WOAH!!!! obviously nobody gets this... I knew this guy for a long time!!! note the part where i said: "he doesnt pay attention to me the way that he did!" and the aries guy... im over him. what a mistake! his bodies nice and has a great *ahem* off subject. anyways he was a big mistake i dont know what i was thinking. but this guy... who im talking about on THIS board... was (or is) so important to me. and yeah... i really dont like pouring my feelings out. its really usually not my thing. if you know me in real life... you would know that. and virgos are NOT always so innocent. we usually take things slow. and thats exactly what i did with him. i took it slow. it took about almost a year for him to get me. god i feel like i have lost my dignity, my pride, my self respect. but... I know i have to stay strong and move on. -.- see this is why i usually dont let myself go this easily. *face palm*

P.S. young? im 17 thanks 😄

and... i really thought he was the one 😢

been there girl with a cancer when i was 17..dont feel bad about yourself.. same situation.. private message me if ya feel like it.

Posted by shellshocker
ooooh... I just read the Aries thread. She must be young.

I've read about how Virgos don't open up easily and take things slow, and only want to be with people they love. cough *bullshit* :/ Out of the 6 Virgos I know, 3 men 3 women, they all sleep with anything that wants them as long as there is something in it for them. I know that's not a large sample size and to each their own... but come on! That Virgin chasteness, I have yet to see.

Btw, yes we are.. but situations.. esp with cancers, make it hard to be the holy virgin that i'm cut out to be. Everyone has their weakness and desires when matched. Sleeping around w/o feelings isnt my thing, but as far as opening..hell no..unless I trust you. If not, shielded and walls up all the way.