I have never dated a Cancer before....

I was hit on by a male who is a Cancer with a one liner. I told him "Aren't you at least going to ask me to dinner?" He smiled and left. I assumed I scared him off. I saw him again and I told him, I hope I didn't scare him off. He said no and that he wants me so bad... It was weird because I have never had a guy say that before. I gave him my # but he doesn't call. When I see him, he makes small conversation and leaves but, never calls. He said he was interested. Whats the deal? I met him a while back, but didn't really notice him until lately. Is this how Cancer men are?

He is really cute... But, he is slow.

sorry MsVirgo2008, how old is he if you don't mind me asking? cancers when they want something they go for it.....my cancer asked me out straight away, and i wanted to take it slow but he called me the next day saying that he wants to see me again, and that he would like to see me every day.......back off and let him chase you, cancers love to chase, if he doesn't then you know what to do........

He is 23 and I am 22.

He just hit on me the first day and I will admit, I wasn't impressed but... After talking to him a few more times, he struck me as a possibility.

I wish he would just ask me out... He said he had been busy but was thinking about me a lot... What is the hold up? I guess I am scaring men away these days. These last few months, have not been well. I just got rid of a Leo.

when a cancer likes you you will know for sure he will make sure of that!!!has he given any hints that he likes/cares about you at all?
maybe he is probing trying to make sure he will not be rejected, they hate that feeling!!!!

I honestly cannot say. I am used to males playing it cool. When he first came to me, it freaked me out but then I built a sort of attraction for him. He kind of throws me off with statements like "I want you so bad", "Holler back at me," "I didn't think you were into me", "I'm thinking about you." I don't see him that often. The things he says, I have never heard from a male unless, I have been in a relationship with him. We have not even gone on one date yet. I am still waiting on him to ask me out. 😢

whatever you do , do not play his game, just chill, get on with your life, back off a bit and let him come around if he does!!!be strong, there are a lot of guys out there that can/would treat you better with more respect, in a way so let him be for a while, it is not nice when a man looks at a woman and sees her as a sexual object!!!