I need HELP (Cancer female/Libra Male)

I NEED HELP!!! I am totally in love with a libra man! I am a Cancer female. He literally floated into my life and I haven't been able to do anything correctly since. Okay, long story short...We met, did some serious flirting in the beginning, thought we were doing good, then he up and stops answering my calls out of the blue. Being the tenacious Cancer that I am, I rekindled the flirting, but never really got anywhere. We have slept in the bed together SEVERAl times, but have not had sex. He keeps hollering that he wants to take thing slow for the long haul, but it has been almost two years since we met! Am I being played? He says he doesn't "give" himself to just anyone, but he has had sex with many girls that I KNOW he doesn't want long term and are nowhere near as caring as I am. What to do? I have tried gifts, compliments, poetry, going to see him when he was locked down...I mean I really care about this guy! Then it's like I WANT SO BAD to wake up one day and not care, but I can't. I have seen his erection when I threw alll caution to the wind and tried to approach him sexually. (All fem cancers should be able to relate because we are NOT agressive for the most part)so I know he is physically attracted to me. I am so CONFUSED!!! Can anyone help? If it helps, my b-day is 6/25/79 (Portsmouth, VA) his is 10/17/74 (Miami, Fl) I can deal with unrequited love only if I know it is that way and I must move on. If I have a chance in hell though, I want to proceed! If we can't be together, or at least try, I would like to just have sex because I think being the person I am, it will make me less infatuated. Thanks!!! By the way, I seem to ALWAYS attract Libra men...since I was little this has been the case. Why?

Hey Parallax,

You just might have a point there...I already knew I was being stupid, but I CAN'T HELP IT!!! I need to go to Oprah though, because Dr. Phil might make me cry. (lol) Then again so might Oprah! Please also read the same post I put on the Libra Board if you want more info. THANKS!!!!

You are funny! But you are right...I know it. I think I may have found a good prospect. Like I said on the Libra post, I met someone who is closer to what I need. There is nothing like the arms of a man to make you forget about the heartbreak! He's a real sweetie so far!

You are HILARIOUS!!!!! Remember the comment about the sore hole though!

What does ROFL mean?

OH OKAY!

i think what parallox said is right.we canci will never be able to tolerate aqua's and libra's


y don u try a scorpi or a taurusean

Well Cancerlady if you read my second reply to you on the Libra board you will see that I am not the only one that thinks you are wasting your time on tha Libra male.

And hello sangicrab, this is the first time I have seen your name on the baords, but maybe that is because we dont go to the same places here.

I have a question, what did you mean when you said that cancers will never be able to tolerate Libras and Aquas? LOL. I was just wondering! I know that cancer and libra (thats me) are not very well suited for each other per what the scopes say, but I have had good relationships with many cancer people. Maybe that is because I have a bit of the crab in my birth chart. Anyway just wondering like I said.

TW2

Well, even though you asked sangicrab, I am going to try to answer that question.

I know the libra man I am dealing with now seems to be very condescending and snooty underneath the charm. He had a tendency to forget about anyone or anything that doesn't have direct effect on his well-being. I think it didn't help that we both are used to being the one "chased." The other ones were cool for the most part.
Libra females, on the other hand, I tend to get along with famously. They are usually kind, smart, and generous people. I have several female libra friends. Aquarians, I like as people, but I couldn't date one b/c they are WAY too aloof. Wanting to come over every other Tuesday and no emotions AT ALL!
Cancerlady

Well TwinFlame and all others tuned into this saga...

I got my answer last night. I went to his house to do his hair, and he introduced me to some girl who seemed to be his "girlfriend" although he didn't introduce her as such. He hasn't ever introduced me to any other girls and they seemed awful playful in a sexual way when I saw them together. He looked happy and I am happy for him. Maybe I just wasn't the one...The only consolation in this whole thing is that she is totally not cuter than me. I don't understand that though...Why do the guys I want always choose some crust-bunny when they could have me?

It stung a little bit, but not as much as I thought. I for once was able to not let him have the satisfaction of knowing that, course that could have been the Cognac shot I took b/f going there. I know he expected me to be jealous because he looked surprised that I was acting like nothing was different. Then, while I was doing his hair, the Pisces I have been seeing off/on for 1 yr. called b/c I stopped chasing him and he was all like "You are my sunshine, I miss you", and a whole lotta good stuff. Of course I turned the volume up as loud as it would go, so Mr. Libra could hear. It felt good to see him squirm while I talked as lovingly to Mr. Pisces as possible. (Hey, what can I say...I still want him see what he is missing.) I must say though...after I met this new girl, I felt a huge sense of relief that I know for sure what the deal was. As I had told him before, I am used to being the victim of unrequited love, I just have to know it is that way. Of course he was being SUPER-flirty when I was getting ready to leave and hugged me alot longer & tighter than he has is a long time, but I think that was residual jealousy. He might be one of those people who doesn' want me, but doesn't want anyone else to have me.

Now that it is in my face, no denying...I can move on. Maybe she is the best woman for him, but she ain't no me! Thanks everyone, and especially TW2!

Cancerlady