In a big problem

phone. I started crying in front of everyone, I was so pissed. If I didn't call him first he wouldn't have called me to tell me he was leaving. I could have stayed there. He didn't even apologize. I'm so hurt. Forget all the feelings and stuff, he's still supposed to be a friend. I would never do that to anyone.
Idk what to do now. We're not talking to each other. He would be online and not say anything. It's like he doesn't care at all. I vented on Twitter, I'm sure he saw my tweets. I don't think I should talk to him first either. I won't apologize again. I never knew he could be such an asshole. Idk what I did tp him that made him so.. Idek.
What to do guys? I need help.

I just want to make things right.. I don't want all this conflict, it's killing me

the reason he not saying anything because he scared to say wrong things
this guy might like you but also a dumb as he's doesnt know how to care for yr feelings
(inexperienced i would say)

tell to his close friends that you like him and pass this message

THEN CHARGE TOWARDS HIM ... GRAB HIS HANDS ... tell him how u felt bout him ... AND SMOOCH HIM 😄

Thank you so much Jynja, you're so comforting! I felt like you just get me. I really do think we both are afraid of getting hurt and yes I think we do mirror our actions. If he does some/doesn't do something, I would do it/not do it and vice versa.
And yes, I actually did feel really deep down that I would have been disappointed on that day.

I actually might see him at a party on Friday. I don't think I will message him just yet (I'm kinda stubborn, holding a little grudge lol). But yeah, I will see if we talk at that party. Hopefully we do.. I'd like to at least stay friends.

Okay, can we continue this? It's been a week and I feel like he's giving me the silent treatment.. Actually, I don't even know if he realizes what's going on. I'm not sure if he's "moving on" or something but I just feel really bad.

Posted by raerain
I m also a cancer seeing another cancer and going through the same situation. There has been communication problems and no one is ready to make the first move as we both are scared of getting hurt or maybe its his ego. I feel frustrated and lost at times. But you need to have a LOT of patience with a cancer guy instead of breaking your head on it. Go live your life. We had such a great time last weekend says he wants to be with me n blah and just two days back on my birthday he told me I am trying to control him. He is moody. So I just decided to give him his space. And in the meantime working on making myself better and improving my grades and stuff.

I felt frustrated and lost too which caused me to kind of give the cold shoulder sometimes which was bad but I got over it.
I can't have patience now because we're not talking at all. He's online on Skype and he wouldn't even say hello. Is this his way of telling me he hates me, he doesn't want to have anything to do with me? I'm still trying to figure out what I did to him to make him stop talking to me. I just don't know what I did and that's frustrating me the most.

Posted by raerain
I was dating my guy and he gave me the silent treatment for 21 days. Thats a long time for me and I was really pissed ff. Turns out his mom came to visit him for 10 days and he was busy with her. These cancer guys and their mommies. For now its going good for me, I need my own space too but I am waiting for the day when my patience runs out. Your guy is probably hiding in his shell too. But you need to get him out and communicate which cancerians are really bad at.

So where was he the other 11 days? And he couldn't text/call you at all while his mom was visiting? That seems bizarre to me...

Posted by raerain
I was dating my guy and he gave me the silent treatment for 21 days. Thats a long time for me and I was really pissed ff. Turns out his mom came to visit him for 10 days and he was busy with her. These cancer guys and their mommies. For now its going good for me, I need my own space too but I am waiting for the day when my patience runs out. Your guy is probably hiding in his shell too. But you need to get him out and communicate which cancerians are really bad at.

I realize communication is key and I would like to communicate with him. I just don't want what happened the last time I tried to talk and apologize to him to happen again. Maybe a month or so and I will.

Ah, cancer guys. I find that unless they are 100% sure about you, their easily-flustered egos dictate their actions...