Is it OK to show cancer man that i like him?

Any cancer men stories about geminis?!?!

I think the Internet is too clean a place for me to say what I think about this.

oh come on, Was is THAT bad for u!?? Ahh am sorry :S

Hi there, what is your Crab's age? It seems a bit immature what you are saying he does.
Crabs ARE flirty, but with people who they are not interested in. when they are into you, they get shy, or dont openly flirt like they do with all the rest.
Does he flirt with you as well as with the others?

Ok so age is OK. He is not a teen.

Well, the not flirting with you could have two meanings:

the good one is: he has started to become more and more interested in you , that is why he has become shy around you and avoids eye contact. When they are interested, they fear rejection so they will not flirt or compliment. They are different around the girl they like. They love being surrounded by girls and this is harmless, they love female admiration and company but of course, when THE girl is there...they change their attitude.

the not-so good one: He is avoiding you a bit because he has realized you are interested in him and doesnt want to lead you on and hurt your feelings. Cancers dont like hurting anybody if they can avoid it.

Lets be positive and think about possibility #1. 🙂

As regards texting him again, I wouldn't. He knows you'll be there. Don't push too much, let him chase a bit, they love a chase.
And a piece of advice, don't act jealous again. They like women who are sure of themselves.
When I started dating my crab (age 31) his Facebook would be full of comments of women, specially complimenting his pictures and stuff. I used to get mad over this, and told him off. Then I relaxed, and little by little, all those women disappeared. He gets an occasional comment but never replies. When I started trusting him, things slowly (it is ALWAYS slowly with crabs) started to improve.

Act self-assured and girly, and independent.

KEEP US POSTED!!!!

it's ok to show anyone u like them unless it would be controversial falling in love with, and confessing to, ur married boss.



i think if u were a triple gemini it would mean ur sun, moon, and rising are in gem. u just communicate like one (mercury) and love like one (venus). regardless, u both communicate the same, and he flirts like a gem, plus his airy moon is compatible with ur equally airy moon. this sounds about right. what are both of ur ascendants?

also, it's been my observation that a cancer does appreciate some jealousy and possessiveness from his partner. it makes them feel secure that their mate loves and desires them. i've been told by actual cancer ppl anyway. they only don't seem to appreciate it from those they aren't that interested in. it all depends on how strongly influenced they are by cancer.

hey there Tasha! well, I had to learn it the hard way.

My crab "observed" me in the gym for months and I could tell you I never IMAGINED iin my wildest dreams he was interested in me. It never showed in the least. After practically 4 months of saying hi to each other, we started talking a bit and then he opened up and started showing some interest.

Even today, after a bit more than two months together, he is careful about overcomplimenting me cos (I imagine) , if he reveals too much he could appear boring or clingy in my eyes..COMPLICATED!!
To be honest, it is the most complicated relationship Ive been with.
But Im so in love that Im willing to give it a try...I hope my nerves resist!!!!

I never know where I am standing with him. I have never felt so insecure in a relationship before...but I have a feeling in due time things could start working out a bit more..I hope so!

Posted by leelaa
oh come on, Was is THAT bad for u!?? Ahh am sorry :S

All relationships I've had with Geminis have been catastrophic. Any type, any age, any setting.

This guy is seriously interested in you....
He is!!!
Let's go in parts...
The mask he wears is the famous crabby outer shell they wear to protect their deep feelings. Crabs are just as sensitive, or maybe even more sensitive than us Fishes. But they have this external tough appearance to mislead people. It is after you get to know them that the real person turns up. My crab..well let me tell you, we met in the gym, he is good looking and all but I never took interest in him because he looked so snob and self centered, with this bad boy attitude. And because I hate this type of men, I never looked at him and I was so surprised when we started talking and found out he was an animal lover just like me and many other things. But to be honest if you see him, he looks flamboyant and superficial. But he is not.
Don't worry about the clownish attitude...it shows he is TOO INSECURE to show his feelings and this is his way to appear cool and uninterested..but he is not...

You talking with his brother....well ..he needed toflirt big time with all the girls there to cover the disappointment and jealousy he was feeling while he saw his own brother chatting with the girl he likes...he must have felt a complete loser, seeing how another man was in the company of the girl he likes, and himself flirting like a teen with girls and commenting on a girl's ass. HE FELT LIKE A LOSER. He also doesn't know anymore where he is standing since now his brother is in the picture and you did show a bit of interest...MESSY.

The not kissing you...girl, there you go, he treates you differently, you are just nnot another girliefriend of his. And you tried to shake his hand..he didn't know what to do..he ended up doing that odd smelling thing..again, feeling insecure, trying to play it cool, but dying inside.

Then his text message. And your response which gave hiim mixed signals...is she into me?? why did she answer that??' I imagine the crab's mind full of questions and queries..poor guy! he must be suffering big time. and to top it all, the possibility of you and HIS brother.

Leela, if you are genuinely interested in him, know he is interested in you. He is not avoiding you because he doesnt like you, the fact that he went to the bar, all his attitude, his behaviour, EVERYTHING he did shows he is interested but can't seem to handle the situation very well.
He hides under that comedian mask tto avoid being exposed.

Yes this will take time and patience. It will...if

If you are up to it, then go for it.....
the rewards can be iincredible. Pity it does take time.
It is a permanent lesson in patience and understanding. think it over!!!

I read ur comments again, maybe ur right, i wont retreat, but i wont initiate anything anymore, is that ok?

I don't know if YOU are interested in him..I sense disappointment in you, after his behaviour in the bar. Is that right? well, I would be if I saw him acting that childish way.
He IS interested in you and even if he heard the conversation you had with his brother, he felt absolutely jealous at the fact that while he was acting like a clown , and trying to call everybody's attenion, you were having a real, mature convo with hsi brother. He is highly insecure I can tell.

The texting and sniffing is not cos he is a protetive cancer, it shows he cares more about you than the others, that explains the special treatment in all senses.

May I ask you what is it that you like about him?
No, don't initate any type of contact, if he wants you , let him chase a bit.
But first decide if YOU like him cos I sense doubts!!!!

we geminis need serious intellectual conversations so that our interest is stimulated

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HI dear!!!
Well so shortly you will see the Crab again!!!!
May I ask why you want his brother to go along??' mmmm I think you like the brother hahaha!!!!
Let me tell you that when you least expect and you just go along, is when the best things happen. Just let things flow. If this is meant to be, it will as long as you are relaxed.
Just be yourself and show yourself as you are. Cancer needs to see your genuine , authentic self. Playing games doesnt lead anywhere, and maybe when he senses that you are just yourself around him, he will mirror you and be himself, without all that clownish act.
Maybe his brother is better suited for you, what is his sign———??

Things with my crab are improving, I changed , became more open and affectionate, stopped the "power" games and took some initiatives. It worked! Crabs wont take initiatives, they want to be reassured first, so I understand that if I want things to work I will have to stop WAITING for things to happen and make themm happen. Otherwise, it is just waiting for ever cos he is so cautious!!!

Hey write again tomorrow telling the news!!!
all the very best girl!!!! 🙂

Hi sweetheart!!!

will be eager awaiting news!!
I understand the curiosity about the brother...ahhh brothers, I've always liked my ex boyfriends brothers heheheh I guess it is my Piscean dreamy nature to fantasize...hehehe!!!!

Yes body language, you are right my look expresses all, but hell, it has saved me with the crab! He used to suspect my every move..didnt't believe I loved him and now I guess he can tell by the adoring way I look at him that I mean it when I tell him I care.

But on the other hand, of course Im a terrible liar! should I have to lie, then I m dead , he will catch me!!! I better be honest!!! hahah

So far, as you say, as I stopped the tactics and I relaxed things started to be better...but slow.
I will tell yo ummore later
kisses !!
Juli

I think you should be careful with the whole brother thing if you aren't interested in him. If you connect with him so much that he decides he likes you I'm pretty sure the Cancer will back off completely.

Gemini is the worst match for Cancer. I never met a Gemini I could get along with, let alone date. I generally hate you people, I really do.

Hey girlll!!!
What a rollercoaster!!!! (typically Crab!!!)
Well let me tell you that your story with all those details confirms that the guy is definitely into you, he is just too plainly insecure to make any further moves. besides the brother thing obviously doesnt help.
If you are interested maybe you will have to show him more obviously you like him too...they will not risk rejection at any cost!!! they need that first step...believe me!!! it was like that for me...
He said he had liked me for many months, it was not until we talked a bit and I told him to add me to Facebook that everything began..if not, nothing would have ever happened, he said he looked a t me let me tell you I didnt notice it!!!!
BUT HE OBSERVED ALL.
They just seem so cool, but underneath that cool appearance there is a bubbly emotional well...they are so sensitive!

I would say...Ok he flirts, he is a clown, but you have a thing for him..show him you like him
YOu need to see him alone, just the two of you, to talk , to get to know each other, and guess who will have to propose—YOU

GUESSED WHO PROPOSED FIRST DATE in my case— MEEEE!!!!

And I dont regret it!!! and guess who flirted and flirted until the guy could take no more and HAD to kiss mee—?
meee!!!!

Ok I have no problem taking initiatives with guys, in fact I like it. I get to choose. Not everybody feels the same way but just go for it. No waiting, no hassle, remember
NO PAIN NO GAIN!!!!

Dear Luckystar
I am an EXPERT in crabs!!!!
I read a lot about them and I observe my crab all the time..I must say Im not so patient but Im so in love that Im willing to let it flow...and the key to their heart is LOVE and food!!!!
I started cooking for him and he just loves it!
and he cant get enough demonstrations of love.
But I find they are a bit selfish..he doesnt shower me with compliments like I do...but well I guess Im sowing the seeds and they are slowly growing...