Is there something in my chart that repels people?

I've been told that I look angry, strict, serious etc. I'm not one to go around smiling but lately I've been making more of an effort 'cause I notice that some people take a look at my face and they practically recoil in my presence LOL. Some people just avoid me altogether even though I'm very mellow and nice although quiet, so I'm wondering if it's just my facial expression or something else repeling these people?

Posted by xMoonMan
Your Mars trine Ascendant/Neptune is nice

However, the challenge for you may be your Mercury square Ascendant.

Mercury is associated with communication and your ascendant is associated with your "outer layer" or "outer personality" which you project to the world around you.
Without intending too, you may express yourself in such a way as to cause misunderstandings or offence, also, refrain from giving complements unless you genuinely mean it.
You might be too critical of yourself and you should avoid comparing yourself to others.
Your subconscious (body language) may be conflicting with what you are saying, giving people the wrong impression. Your mercury is also retrograde in Cancer so your communication style might change with your various moods. I'm thinking you are more relaxed and probably communicate better when you are comfortable at home as opposed to work or some social settings.


North node Sagittarius - South node Gemini.

Not allowing yourself to tune in too your intuition, relying on too much logic and intellectual based decisions, learn to relax and go with the flow more, let go of any mental anxiety or stress.
Make some commitment to yourself, maybe having more faith in yourself and when this is developed more fully it will start to express outwardly toward those around you. allow yourself a little creative freedom without harsh internal self judgement
Learn to let go of the past, embrace the now and believe you derserve a little happiness in the future!

You can do it!

🙂

Thanks so much for your thorough response 🙂 I have a tendency to be impulsive and to be blunt, so many times I hold myself back from saying what I think or feel in order to not offend people, I try to think of a better way to phrase things but then it comes out as if I'm trying to be agreeable or that I don't have strong opinions . Do you think I should stop doing this?

You could just have one of those faces...I dont mean that in a bad way.

I come from a long line of angry looking people lol. My dad, his dad etc...its just the look on our faces.
Just a couple months back...I was walking into the grocery store...not in a bad mood or anything and a couple walking out said to each other where I could hear it "whoa...she looks mad at the world" or something similar (I cant quite remember) Did it upset me?...yeah kinda, cause I wasnt in a bad mood or mad at the world at the time. Ive also had people tell me to smile...I seriously cant stand that. Im not a doll, I cant plaster a fake smile on my face...its not naturally for me.

I think for me even if I would try to give off a better impression it will come off to people as fake or trying to hard...and thats the last thing I want people to think of me....also it keeps the cray crays away lol. So dont worry youre not the only one that has this problem 🙂

Posted by LostinmyMind11
You could just have one of those faces...I dont mean that in a bad way.

I come from a long line of angry looking people lol. My dad, his dad etc...its just the look on our faces.
Just a couple months back...I was walking into the grocery store...not in a bad mood or anything and a couple walking out said to each other where I could hear it "whoa...she looks mad at the world" or something similar (I cant quite remember) Did it upset me?...yeah kinda, cause I wasnt in a bad mood or mad at the world at the time. Ive also had people tell me to smile...I seriously cant stand that. Im not a doll, I cant plaster a fake smile on my face...its not naturally for me.

I think for me even if I would try to give off a better impression it will come off to people as fake or trying to hard...and thats the last thing I want people to think of me....also it keeps the cray crays away lol. So dont worry youre not the only one that has this problem 🙂

That might be it 'cause many times when I'm focused on work I have a tendency to tune out and I've heard a few people say in a different language (they don't know I speak it) "let's not ask her anything, she looks like she could bite our heads off" or "Damn she looks bitter" or sometimes people ask me straight out "why are you mad/sad/depressed?" LOL I am one of the most mellow people I know, I hardly ever get mad and if I do it passes away quickly. Last year my car got towed and I didn't get mad, I crashed my car two months ago and I didn't get mad or upset, just annoyed. I don't know what changed 'cause when I was younger I used to have a terrible temper, I would scream,break and throw things, hold grudges, give the silent treatment, etc.