Is this normal cancer man behavior?

I am a libra woman and I am talking to a cancer man. We met in high school 17 years ago and were really good friends. He dropped out of school to work as an electrician for his father's company and haven't seen him since. Come to find out, he worked with my step-father and cousin for several years and always asked about me. They never told me this. Over the years, he Facebook stalked me. Two months ago he finally sent me a friend request. We started messaging back and forth and exchanged numbers.

Three weeks ago we finally decided to meet. He was going to come over to my house and let me cut his hair (I'm a hair stylist) then we were going to go to dinner. Well, early that morning there was a shooting out in front of my house and I decided to go to my friend's house to stay for the weekend instead of meeting him. He begged me to meet him somewhere on the way just so he could see me. So I agreed and met him at a chinese restaurant. He bought me dunkin donuts k-cups in pumkpin spice because he saw that I had posted that I liked it on Facebook. WOW!

A week later, I asked him to attend my cousin's going away party with me. He knew my cousin very well because they worked together and we all went to high school together. The entire night, he kept asking my family members if I was okay and if they thought I needed anything. He paid for my drinks and made sure I was comfortable. I could not get over his concern for me. It's certainly not something I'm used to.

Needless to say, he stayed over my house and one thing led to another. I'm telling you that man MADE LOVE to me. There was nothing sexual about it at all. I was in awe of him like putty in his gentle hands. The next morning we headed to my parent's house for breakfast. He and my step-father talked for hours. My step-father pulled me aside and told me "Don't hurt him".

Today, not even a week after that party, and that night, he told me he loved me. He told me he always loved me since high school. He never stopped and always thought about me even when he was married to another woman. I was always in the back of his mind. He told me that he didn't want me to say it to him. He knows that it takes me a while to fall in love and he will be patiently waiting for that day to come.

Is this normal for a cancer man? I've not had much experience with cancers other than my best friend who's a female and complete crazy. LOL

oh lol....you should check my threads out.

anyhow, it doesn't really matter if it's normal for a cancerian man, it's more a case of how you feel about it. personally i'm always wary if someone gets intense too quickly cos it can extinguish in an instant too.

I'm scorpio and water signs are really intense about sex. it's an holistic experience and we WANT it to feel like love making but beware....there's an arsenal of peversion behind that watery sexuality. anyhow, that's the main reason i prefer to wait before getting intimate with anyone really.

i've also got alot of libra in my chart and the problem with us is that we have a very romanticised view of love and relationships and a crab man ticks all the boxes in that department but it doesn't come from out of the blue...that's the early infatuation phase. nevertheless, we are easily fooled by it.

you have to do what i'm doing and put the brakes on before YOU get hurt. i've foreseen this happening with the crab i'm sort of seeing.

you have to stand back and wait for him to show his true character before believing the hype.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
beware....there's an arsenal of peversion behind that watery sexuality.

you have to stand back and wait for him to show his true character before believing the hype.

LOL!!! 😄 true and truer...