It's my Birthday today...but

he (Cancer) didn't call to wish me Happy Birthday! What to do? Send nasty text saying thank you for wishing me happy birthday? Leave it alone?

Happy Birthday. The day isnt over so maybe he hasnt had a chance to. Or he might've forgot, or he might think you're so busy celebrating that he's be a bother. Umm solution...if you really want to hear him say it call him or text him and remind him, if you want him to tell you on his own accord give him a chance to get in touch with you. Either way it's hard to assume why he might not have wished you a happy birthday, but you know whether its something you want to deal with or not so...go from there

Happy Birthday!!

I don't think you should call or text or email or anything. It's your day and he should call. He's a cancer so I know your birthday has not slipped his mind.

How often does he call? Is it on a daily basis?

He was calling just about every day for 3 weeks then last week it's been all text and email. He definitely knows it's my birthday. He's supposed to get me a present since he asked me what i wanted and i told him. Last contact we had was Friday via email. I told him we're moving to another state and he said he's going to have to find a job in that state and asked me to help him find some vacancy listings for jobs. This man told me I am his heart and I just don't want to believe he forgot my birthday or would allow one of his moods to keep him from calling me.

moods shmoods!!! They'll make you crazy. He deffinately did not forget that it's your birthday. As a matter of fact he's probubly been doing a little count down in his mind. Whatever the reason is it's not relavant. To keep your self off of there little mood swing roller coaster just simply keep in mind that he did not acknowledge you on your birthday and thats rude. Plain and simple. But the day is not over so don't blow a gasket until tonight.

However you did say you have not heard from him since friday so he maybe pulling away and could possibly not be wishing you a happy birthday in order to not lead you on.

How long have you 2 been an item?

Ain't this a b*tch. I just rebooted my phone (Treo 700P) and got a text message that he sent this morning. It wasn't happy birthday though. Damn what should I say?

Just respond as usual. Don't make any comments about it being your birthday. Let him say so. But do let him know in your response that you just got his message.

Thanks to all for your advice.