Jealousy

Me and my Cancer decided (well mainly him!) that he's not ready for a relationship so we have cooled it off and have gone back to being friends.

but now I get the feeling he is trying to make me jealous, I'm just not the jealous type so it wont work lol but just wondering if there is another reason for it? Do you guys purposely try and make people jealous and if so why? He could have me if he wanted me so i dont get what he's trying to prove.

I've asked my guy about it but he's "playing dumb" saying he doesnt know what im talking about, but since the decision all he has gone on about is all the "hot women" who have apparently moved in around his area, and is constantly telling me about all of the people that want him.

I purposely try not to talk to him about other guys because he is quite possesive, got the whole i dont want you but no one else can have you thing going on, and i'm not going to start doing it just to play his game back, but I am confused by the behaviour. Maybe he's upset I didnt put up a fuss, or wants me to mope about and chase him I dont know, or maybe i'm just reading too much into it?!

Typical Crab behaviour...
My guy is very possessive and jealous though he tries to hide it it is obvious and sometimes he has these bursts of jealousy...He loves it when I get jealous, so sometimes I exaggerate something and make comments...he loves it...but they hate it when you try to do the same to them...
anyway, I wouldnt give this guy too much attention, he is toying with you....just ignore him a bit...crabs like a bit of a chase..

Are you sure your cancer didn't want a relationship? When I first started seeing mine he kept saying he didn't want a one but it turned out that he did. Also with mine I do what PiscesArgie does as far as acting a bit jealous sometimes because it seems to bother him a lot if I don't.
Also, if your cancer really doesn't want a relationship maybe he doesn't like the fact that you are okay to not have one. I think some guys like to have their egos stroked and want woman pining away for them.

Cheers for replies guys. He said he didnt want a relationship so I just accepted it, maybe he does deep down. The Libra Cancer dynamic is crazy! lol To me people should explain what they mean or just tell me that they are not sure what they want. I'm not one to wait around "just in case" I've been open with him about how I felt and expected the same in return, but ohwell. He can carry on his games (if it is a game) but he will not seek the reaction he's looking for (if indeed he is looking for one) out of me, so his efforts are futile! lol

I just find it weird to try and make someone jealous who has already stated they like you and would have a relationship with you. Cancers are weird anyway, says the Libra! haha 😛

Cancer men drive me bat $ h*t. The Libra/Cancer dynamic when the Lib is a female is terrible. Libra women need a man that is much more emotionally stable and "not-so-easy" to catch.

Cancers do have a jealous streak. But the severity really varies. I find that my intuition is my first indicator. Cancer's have a keen intuition. If that little red flag isn't raised - jealousy doesn't come around.

One thing is to be said for the Cancer/Libra combo... the worst thing a Libra does to a Cancer is flirt. Libras flirt with anything that is the opposite sex. Cancers (when immature and underdeveloped) will flirt when they are single, or feel insecure within their relationship. Hence why pretty much EVERY Libra says Cancers are bad flirts as well - little do they know... it's usually their own flirty behavior that sets us off. (but good luck on getting any Libra to agree to that, they don't think that anything is their fault)

Anyway - I am a Cancer fem, and I wouldn't date a Cancer man for $ 100mil. They are wrecks.

Posted by PiscesArgie
...He loves it when I get jealous, so sometimes I exaggerate something and make comments..

Yeap ! But make sure to do it in reasonable dosage and he does not notice that you faking jealousy🙂