Libra needing advice from beautiful Cancer friends

Ok, I need some advice. I'm currently involved with a cancer woman(very beautiful) and well i was going out with this person for about a year and then i had to move. She loved me alot and i loved her ten times more but i had to move due to circumstances. Anyway I still love her an awful lot, and i'm supposed to move to where she is later on this year. The problem is i haven't seen her in 6 months and i'm afraid that she has someone else now, but she says she doesn't. It's not that i don't believe her, it's just that i know how it is to go without (it) for along time. But she still says she loves me occasionally, but i tell her all the time. Sometimes she acts like she cares then other times she doesn't. But at the same time she says she's excited that i'm moving near her. And she says i'm her best friend, but am i just a friend? Or more than a friend? I'm confused, does she have someone else tempoarily? If so is she doing it for security? Is this a woman thing? Or a Cancer thing? Or a Woman Cancer thing? I'm really confused and i know you Cancer's are good at giving advice! Your advice is needed, and deeply respected!

Your Libra Friend

Why can't you just believe her, relish that love she says she has, and look forward to realizing it when you move? And why don't you go visit her for a weekend?

Yeah that's a good advice. Thanks i think i'll go next weekend.

Hello Libra, how are you doing this eve? Here's a little Cancer Advice for you although its kinda like give you access behind enemy lines. You aren't really supposed to know our secrets! The fun part is trying to find out. Anywho, being a Cancer I can tell you that we are sensitive... which can mean several things.
1. Critisize us very carefully ( a comment not carefully considered can bring about tears or rage )
2. We like reassurance of your feelings (tell us 1000 million times that you love us - we eat it up.)
3. We CRAVE security ( We like to know that you are going to be there for us in both good/bad)
4. STUDY THE MOON (correlate mood changes with different phases of the moon - you will start seeing patterns)
5. We are in love with romance, it is our forte, hell we are the girls that dream of the white knight that will come to sweep us away or wake us up with their kiss. Granted you can't be mushy all the time, because we also like security -- we'll like to know you can "take care of business" as well as sweep us off to "happily ever after..."
6. Get to know your feelings, that's how we first interpret things... with our gut feelings (ie. how does this make me feel? will be one of the, if not the first question.)

We are very loyal, caring, soft yet enduring, and make for some VERY strong women who are very in touch with how we feel about the world and it's affect on us. We are the philosphers. =) Also, we usu. make great cooks.

I just read the about response - I am a cancer male, and have the same qualities, needs as a cancer woman. I guess a cancer is a cancer. Highly sensitive and easily bruised at times, I'm glad and wouldnt change a thing about myself. We make great and loyal friends, as well as partners. My ex boyfried told me I was comfort, home and safe, great in bed, and then dumped me for someone else. Ugh!
Next time, I will take more and better care of myself.

Hi I am a female Libra and I need help. I fell head over heels for a
cancer male. I met him a week before I was about to move. We
spent a week together before I left. It was wonderful. He was
everything I wanted in a man. Two months later, I joined him for a
road trip across the country. He was really moody and difficult.
We still got along pretty well. I confessed to sleeping with my ex-bf's
friend to get back at him while we were together. I also confessed
that I still communicated with my ex while the cancer male and I
had met. He seemed upset and withdrawn. He also blatantly
confessed to having 'female' friends. He said he would call me but has not.
Should I just give up? Did I totally blow it? Please help me!

Its sounds like a cancer thing. Straight up, if you don't know how she is feeling right now, chances are you won't till you spend actual time with her. I'm a cancer also, sometimes we're just complicated like that. BE PATIENT

Advice from frindly Cancerian chick - I was myself in the same situation recently. Best advice I can give by way of explanation is that she does love you, just appears to be expressing it in very emotional terms (you Librans are really logical, so I guess you need to get in touch with your emotions a bit more). Trust what you feel, believe she is telling you the truth. Of my own experiences, I can tell you this - this union is truly blessed. It works long-term REALLY well. The only difference is that these two types sort of wave towards and away from eachother during the course of their lives. It simply is a need for independence, trust and true knowledge of personal security with your partner. Go to her, she wants to be with you - always.

Good luck!