manipulating cancer-guys

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sag-girly
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Is it true that a cancer-guy would manipulate with your feelings?? I mean:
This guy I'm in love with, who flirts REALLY A LOT with me, and only with ME!! Told me he liked someone, but was afraid to make the first move. I asked him to kiss her - whoever it was. But he said that HE didn't wanted to be the one to take the lead. I kept asking him to do so (thinking it was me) - and he kept saying NO, he was shy. I told him to then tell me WHO he was so crazy about. And he told me it was someone called Mary. WHY has he been flirting so HEAVY with me, and afterwards been telling me he loved another girl?? Could he be saying that JUST to make me jealous - or to see how I reacted. Since he told me so, he's still been flirting more seriously, and intense. He's also showed me a lot of friendship. It makes me confused and ANGRY that he keeps leading me on, if his heart belongs elswhere! I LOVE HIM, and have been in love for over a year. It's the real thing, and I cry everyday. This guy is playing with my heart:o( WHAT'S THE DEAL CANCERMEN—??

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Sister_Moon
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20 Years

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Hi!
I would have to say that my Cancer Man...Father of my Daughter (we are no longer together..long story...) did nothing of the sort in our "beginning-mating-season"...

I would have to say that he only seemed interested in me...but, he was in his early 30's when we met...
Age can make a BIG difference for a guy..when they are young, they think they should play (they think the world is their oyster, and for a time, it is)
Then, they begin losing their hair and growing it in other places...(like their ears! Yuck!), and getting pot-bellies...then they treat women nicer...
Not such a good trade-off is it??!!
In truth...men have always expected more of women physically than women have expected of men...(just why is that?!)
I wish you the best...I know I wasn't much help...
Perhaps an Air sign or a fellow Fire sign will come your way...Waters are a difficult sign for me...yet...I remain fascinated with them!...
(I am Aquarius)
Take Care!
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Hi Sag-girly.Sorry to read about your guy.But i would like to share something with you.Cancerians are very shy people.Even if they love someone to distraction,they wont say it for fear of being rejected.They will just concoct a name to throw you off their trail.Especially if the other party is a Saggi(sorry..bcs saggis' are not really known to willing to be tied to one..right)Imagine what he might be going thru.the agony of wanting to tell you that it's You not some Mary.But what if you laughed it off saying that you only want friendship? So,you see,ther's a lot of fear involved here.He needs some assurance that you're for real.Cancerians never PLAY with others HEARTS.So dont give up.Show him that you care & he will soon open up to U.I wish you luck and happiness.Dont be sad.Just be honest about your feelings,ok!
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Leave him alone. Maybe it is you that is doing all the flirting and the poor little crab is just confused. You already sound like you've moved on, slagging off your loved one. Cancers are cursed by being like little innocent crabs being eaten or run over by nasty hunting archers driving their big trucks.

P.S Merry Xmas Sister Moon and everyboody else.

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