Mars in Cancer Sexuality

Hello Cancer board! 🙂

I have a question about my mars sign. I read in an article once that it takes a few attempts for people with mars in cancer to feel fully comfortable and have great rythme in having sex.

For me, I'm still pretty noob in the whole sex thing. So yes, I still call myself a virgin. Not pro enough T-T
I'm a great kisser and feeler though 😛 and I do other things too. Plus I love giving my affection to people that earn it!

Since I haven't met my true lover yet, I mainly been hooking up with people. I have no problem with that, but it would be nice to have someone patient, affectionate, and teach me the way!

Is this true for mars in cancer people? Does it take us a while to get our rythme? any Mars in cancer sex experience?

Thanks for the help!

I have Mars in Cancer and I say I was a late bloomer. I don't think that Mars in Cancer denies the sex drive at all since Cancer is a very physical sign. But you need an emotional attachment to feel satisfied during sex. I would say that Mars in Cancer is also very shy about talking about their sex life but behind closed doors are complete freaks. Kinkier then hell but will never admit it to anybody else. They like to please their partners, and nurture them. Making them have the maximum experience of enjoyment.

Cancers are quick learners and masters the craft and acquire the skills in no time. Often even shocking the person who you have been being shown the ropes by (5th house is the house of creative sex and Scorpio is the 5th sign away from Cancer). I was in a 4 year relationship with a Scorpio. We had so much sex, but we both felt spiritually connected with each others. Didn't feel that I had have a low sex drive at all, in this relationship I felt comfortable in sharing myself and pleasing my partner. I think foreplay is very important for a Cancer. Kissing, groping, touching... And other dirty acts lol Cancer is known to be a great kisser and also at giving oral. Foreplay sets the stage, meaningless sex has no merit to it. It doesn't even "FEEL" like anything. Hello In-Out-In-Out Goodbye. Where can I go and get my fucking refund at.

Now I don't crave sex anymore, I've lost my desire. Without the feeling of connectedness I just don't see the point in becoming sexually active anytime soon. But because I have had the experience before I understand that it is just a phase. When I choose to go back on the prowl is when I feel comfortable enough to share my emotional self. I'm not looking for one night stands or for a fuck buddy. Its never worked in the past and has only made me feel emptiness. Being emotionally involved with a person matters a lot to me. Can become celibate in one instant and be a complete whore in no time lol I guess Mars in Cancer doesn't need sex to feel a sense of potency...no desire to have release with somebody who I have no attachment towards. As I say I got two hands, they do the job just fine. I read somewhere having Pluto in the second house causes that tho lol Pleasing oneself. Being in a 4 year relationship ruined it for me the sex was too great. Its going to take some time before I find somebody to replace that empty void. BUT Im not in NO RUSH. TOTALLY LOVING INDEPENDENCE AND FREEDOM!

I would look at the 5th house also for sex, as this house relates to creative sex. Planets in the house and their aspects. The ruler of the 5th house and where it is placed in the chart would also matter.

Check out the aspects that Mars has to it. Like for instance I got Mars conjunct Sun trine Pluto. So I do got an abundance of energy behind the fallen Mars in Cancer.

Pluto is a pretty sexual planet... Check out its house position and its aspects.

Venus is also a sexual planet leading towards what you desire, its the way that you express love.

Check out the condition of the 8th house, its ruler and planets that occupy it.

Venus/Uranus aspects can also indicate an interest in a variety of alternative sexual expressions

Mars/Uranus together can make you experiment taboos.

I believe the fixed signs relate to sex the most so check out how much energy you have flowing though the fix mode.

That's very interesting. I get your point. I love having sexual encounters, but I need an emotional connection to have a deep long lasting relationship. it sucks when the person you like, don't give you the same feelings/affections.

I hope your phase pass sooner or later. I'll probably be in the same position sooner or later. I looked at my aspects and they seemed very nice for sexual activities. I just have to keep on practicing 😛

Thanks AllanBeau!