Moon in cancer guy wants me ? Idk What 2 do !!!!

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Im a cancer sun sign. I been broken up with my ex boyfriend for about 3 months. I still have feelings for him and we see each other from time to time. Now I have had a guy friend name john whos been my friend for awhile... close to a year. I kinda had a crush on him from the moment we became friends a year ago but I just never said anything really. All in all john is a great guy I know he would treat any girl great, he's kind of a nerd and doesn't have much experience with women. I think he's really cute.... not typically what I would go for but still attractive. He's just seriously clueless about women to me it seems. Every since me and my ex broke up me and john been hanging out a lot more and been hooking up. He tells me how Im the only girl he's talking to, he doesn't want anything else, and that If I broke his heart I would be reason he hates all humanity. And I told him that I do like him and have feelings for him but right now I don't really want a relationship. I want be single for awhile, focus on me and just have fun with guys. He's the only person I been hooking up with and I don't plan to go off and hook up and talk to other guys, but I am single and I feel like if I want to talk to other men I can and I will. Im just scared because he's really into me. His friends told me that when hes around them he trys to act like he doesn't like me all like that but they can tell he does and they told me that if I get back with my ex or talk to another guy it will truly break his heart. I know that his sun sign is in aquarius and his moon in cancer, venus in capricorn. I been doing a lot of research and I been reading if you want to truly know about a person and how that feel and handle things in love, base it off their moon sign. With his moon being in cancer what does that mean ? His sun in aquarius and from what I read they aren't that expressive in love and my ex was an aquarius, he was kinda cold hearted and aloof when it comes to love. But what do cancer moon guys act like ?
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I copied this from cafeastrology.com:

Moon in Cancer natives have a large potential to be able to get in touch with the feelings and moods of others. Often, they are quite wrapped up in themselves. Their memories of the past are outstanding, especially for all things emotional. Moon in Cancer people are never detached—they cling to things, their home, and people they care for. They seek out security and familiarity in all they do. They look for peace and quiet. Their attachment to all that is safe means they are a little leery of change.

These peace-loving souls dislike superficiality in all of its forms. They are devoted and accommodating. The insecure ones accumulate things in an attempt to feel secure.

Because of their strong attachment to, and memory of, the past, others may complain that Moon in Cancer natives tend to whip a dead horse. They may dwell on hurts long after everyone else has moved on. When they feel they have been taken for granted (which may be often!), they don't always confront others directly. This is when they can use roundabout ways to get your attention. In fact, these natives, when they are insecure, can become quite manipulative. They can also be victims of habit.

These people can have a hard time compartmentalizing their lives, simply because their watery Moon tends to know no boundaries. Sometimes, as a result, they may act irrationally.

One of the most delightful characteristics of Moon in Cancer people is their loony sense of humor. These people can be extraordinarily funny. Their moodiness can baffle others, but their unique outlook on life is something most people can appreciate.

When treated with tenderness and understanding, Moon in Cancer natives return the favor with warmth and protection. Give them security, and you'll take the crabbiness out of the Crab, at least for awhile.

These people are wonderfully dependable overall, despite their occasional mood swings. Make a friend of Moon in Cancer, and you will be taken care of for life.


I had an ex with Sun in Aquarius. Cold hearted and aloof sounds about right.

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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
You are a lucky soul indeed if a Cancer Moon Person wants you. Enjoy.

And yes, we do remember everything🙂

I mean Every. Thing.

Your kindness and love and caring will be returned 100fold.
Lucky girl.



I do feel pretty lucky to have him in my life. He's honestly everything I look for in a guy, and I find myself more and more falling for him. My ex is still in the picture though and my ex wants to get back with me, but my ex was awful to me, he cheated on me, lied to me and even though he wants to start fresh and over again, I will not be able to trust him. Once someone hurts me I can forgive but it will take me a long time, if ever to feel that same away about them. And I know in my heart that my ex isnt right for me. Last night me and john were hanging out, I made us dinner and stuff and while we were eating dinner he said to me " I love you". Now Im pretty sure he is in love with me.
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Posted by Claro de Luna
I would do him a favour and stop hanging out with him. If you're going to be single for a while and just have fun .. and you being with other guys is going to break his heart .. then the more time you spend with him and the closer you get to him = the worse it's going to be for him when it happens doesn't it?



Im not leading him on, I do like him and I could see myself with him. And if anything I would want to be with him, but their are alot of key factors in my why Im don't want to rush anything. First I just got out of a relationship, and I dont want to just rush into anything. Second he is muslim and he's not allowed to have a gf, he has to keep from his mother that he sees me and everything, pretty much the only way Im going to be able to meet his mom is if we end up getting married lol. All his friends know about us and we are very open about our feelings for each other in public but it's just he can't bring me home to his mother, which I guess isnt bad because at least his friends and his brother know about me. Third, he said that if we were be together he would want me to become muslim and Im catholic I don't know how my mother and family would feel about that and I would have to convert to something that I know nothing about which is scary. So it's more then just leading him on cause Im not, I don't talk to other guys and he knows I like him. But I still am single.
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You are a lucky soul indeed if a Cancer Moon Person wants you. Enjoy.

And yes, we do remember everything🙂

I mean Every. Thing.

Your kindness and love and caring will be returned 100fold.
Lucky girl.



I do feel pretty lucky to have him in my life. He's honestly everything I look for in a guy, and I find myself more and more falling for him. My ex is still in the picture though and my ex wants to get back with me, but my ex was awful to me, he cheated on me, lied to me and even though he wants to start fresh and over again, I will not be able to trust him. Once someone hurts me I can forgive but it will take me a long time, if ever to feel that same away about them. And I know in my heart that my ex isnt right for me. Last night me and john were hanging out, I made us dinner and stuff and while we were eating dinner he said to me " I love you". Now Im pretty sure he is in love with me.
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Your ex is still in the picture—?? The ex who lied/cheated/was awful to you?

What picture is this exactly? Shred those negatives and set fire to the frame.

They are called "Ex" for a reason you know. Time to exhume him from your life, exhale, exercise your right to expunge exhaust fumes through his bedroom window and experience a bit of Cancer Moon love.